{"id":29214,"date":"2020-09-03T09:11:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T09:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29214"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:51:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:51:01","slug":"5-modi-incredibili-per-alleggerire-il-vostro-cuore-pesante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-incredibili-per-alleggerire-il-vostro-cuore-pesante\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi incredibili per alleggerire il vostro cuore pesante"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When your mind is busy, it\u2019s not unusual to get overwhelmed and easily distracted, but the good thing about our mind is that it can always find a way to process things and let go at some point.<\/p>\n<p>But when it comes to your heart, it\u2019s not that simple.<\/p>\n<p>I nostri cuori sono troppo teneri. Contengono tanto amore, gioia, felicit\u00e0, tristezza, rabbia, risentimento e sono difficili da elaborare tutti insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si tratta del nostro cuore, esso \u00e8 la parte pi\u00f9 vulnerabile di noi e quando diventa pesante, pu\u00f2 diventare davvero buio per noi.<\/p>\n<p>Our hearts take on too much sometimes, and it takes a real toll on us. They don\u2019t let go as easily as our heads, and they make us ask questions like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Perch\u00e9 mi sento cos\u00ec?<\/li>\n<li>Questa sensazione passer\u00e0 mai?<\/li>\n<li>Come far\u00f2 a superare tutto questo?<\/li>\n<li>C'\u00e8 qualcuno che mi capisce?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And sometimes it\u2019s hard to find a way out of it. You feel trapped with no way to escape.<\/p>\n<p>Tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/strong-women-shut-narcissistic-people\/\"> spegnere <\/a> from the world and decide you\u2019re done opening up. It makes you feel suffocated, and so you just disconnect because it\u2019s easier that way.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>A quel punto diventate apatici, al limite della depressione e vi chiudete a tutti coloro che vi amano e vogliono aiutarvi. Iniziate a sentirvi soli e impotenti, senza che nulla vi spinga ad andare avanti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>It is common knowledge that the heart wants what the heart wants, but you\u2019re not helpless!<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono modi per placare la vostra anima e alleggerire il vostro cuore pesante. Basta essere disposti a provarci.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco alcuni modi che mi hanno aiutato ad affrontare i momenti pi\u00f9 bui e che hanno davvero contribuito ad alleggerire il mio cuore pesante e a farmi tornare la ragazza che sapevo di essere.<\/p>\n<p>Spero che possano aiutarvi come hanno fatto con me.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Iniziare a scrivere tutto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112016\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che scrive su appunti\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-writing-in-notes-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo semplice passo pu\u00f2 aiutarvi a lasciar andare tutte le emozioni che vi turbano e che non vi permettono di respirare facilmente.<\/p>\n<p>Quando trasferirete tutti i vostri pensieri su un foglio di carta, proverete un senso di sollievo e di conforto, perch\u00e9 siete riusciti in qualche modo a esprimerli e a spostarli dal vostro cuore a un luogo in cui non possono pesare pi\u00f9 di tanto.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ho imparato a mie spese che quando si reagisce con rabbia, si dicono cose che poi si vorrebbe non aver mai detto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Di solito si lascia che le emozioni prendano il sopravvento e si finisce per reagire in modo eccessivo e pentirsi subito dopo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>This is why it is smart to write down whatever is causing you distress, as when you\u2019re writing it, you are slowly <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/to-the-girl-who-is-learning-that-letting-go-doesnt-happen-overnight\/\"> lasciarsi andare <\/a> di essa, la mente \u00e8 pi\u00f9 chiara e meno propensa ad agire d'impulso.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, elaborate la situazione in modo sano e reagite da un punto di vista stabile e calmo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cercare di trovare una benedizione in ogni difficolt\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112017\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna seduta a pensare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-sitting-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si attraversano situazioni difficili che rendono difficile pensare e sentire con chiarezza, pu\u00f2 essere una vera e propria sfida vedere che da tutto questo pu\u00f2 nascere qualcosa di buono.<\/p>\n<p>In ogni tragedia, in ogni crepacuore e in ogni periodo difficile, c'\u00e8 una benedizione sotto mentite spoglie.<\/p>\n<p>It is not always easy to see it, and it can make you insane trying to find it, but it\u2019s there.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s important to just let yourself go through whatever you need to go through, in order to realize some things after it has passed.<\/p>\n<p>Queste benedizioni di solito arrivano sotto forma di epifanie che ti fanno capire esattamente perch\u00e9 quella cosa doveva accadere.<\/p>\n<p>Doveva insegnarvi qualcosa. Forse doveva farvi vedere la vostra forza e farvi capire quanto siete pi\u00f9 resistenti di quanto pensavate!<\/p>\n<p>Qualunque sia la lotta che state affrontando, siate aperti al fatto che vi insegni qualcosa.<\/p>\n<p>C'\u00e8 del buono in ogni situazione e quando si ha speranza, si \u00e8 sempre aperti alle cose buone.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Datevi il tempo di guarire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112018\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste e pensierosa seduta da sola sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t rush into anything. Don\u2019t ask yourself how long it will take you to heal from this.<\/p>\n<p>Each thing takes the time that is necessary to get back to a healthy place, and rushing it won\u2019t make it happen faster. It will only cause you more inner stress.<\/p>\n<p>Dare tempo al tempo. La guarigione \u00e8 un processo che richiede tempo e nessuno pu\u00f2 dirvi con esattezza il tempo che vi ci vorr\u00e0 per raggiungere il vostro obiettivo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/3-modi-per-dimenticare-qualcuno-che-non-ha-mai-saputo-amarvi\/\"> superare <\/a> qualcuno o per riprendersi da una tragedia.<\/p>\n<p>The heart has its tempo. It\u2019s going to be a process, so don\u2019t rush yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You know yourself better than anyone, and when you start feeling that weight is lifted from your shoulders, you will know you\u2019re on your way.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Agire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna che guarda lontano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando ci si trova in quel luogo sprofondato e ci si sente senza speranza e impotenti, la cosa pi\u00f9 semplice \u00e8 lasciarsi deteriorare.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t take any effort. You just stop trying, stop thinking and let it destroy you from the inside out.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la cosa pi\u00f9 coraggiosa \u00e8 agire. Prendere in mano la situazione. Siate voi a decidere che quando \u00e8 troppo \u00e8 troppo e iniziate a fare qualcosa che vi aiuter\u00e0 a stare meglio!<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sometimes, the smallest victories are the ones that end up making the biggest difference. You can\u2019t help everyone in this world, but look around you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Trovate una persona che sapete di poter aiutare e fatelo! Fate in modo che quella persona si senta meglio di come vi sentite voi in questo momento.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Questo vi far\u00e0 sentire incommensurabilmente meno ansiosi e vi lascer\u00e0 un senso di scopo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you are not enough or that your gift is not enough. It is!<\/p>\n<p>You are amazing, and you are capable of much more than you think right now. Don\u2019t let your heavy heart mess with your perception of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Being a contributor in somebody else\u2019s happiness will help lighten your heavy heart.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Condividi il tuo cuore pesante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112020\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che consola l&#039;amica triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nei momenti di tristezza e di dolore, la cosa peggiore che si possa fare per se stessi \u00e8 isolarsi e non far entrare nessuno.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it\u2019s the easiest thing to do\u2026 and that you don\u2019t feel like sharing nor are you able to explain the amount of sorrow you are feeling. So it\u2019s easier to keep it inside.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la cosa pi\u00f9 coraggiosa da fare \u00e8 chiamare un amico, un familiare o il proprio partner.<\/p>\n<p>Chiunque sia vicino a voi e sa che pu\u00f2 aiutarvi in questo momento difficile, senza bisogno di nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno che vorr\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-la-ami-sii-presente-per-lei\/\"> essere presenti <\/a> perch\u00e9 la vostra felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 importante per loro.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Siate coraggiosi nel chiedere aiuto. Condividete la vostra tristezza. Aiutate loro ad aiutarvi! Potreste trovare qualcuno che pu\u00f2 simpatizzare con voi perch\u00e9 ha vissuto la stessa cosa. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sharing is caring! It\u2019s not just a clich\u00e9. It\u2019s the truth.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando si riesce a fare il primo passo e a parlare con qualcuno senza trattenere nulla, \u00e8 la prova che si sta facendo molto meglio di quanto si pensi.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, date a qualcuno la possibilit\u00e0 di contribuire alla vostra felicit\u00e0 e di tornare in quel luogo sano.<\/p>\n<p>Leave yourself open to finding your light again, and don\u2019t let your heavy heart darken it.<\/p>\n<p>Questa sensazione che vi sta consumando passer\u00e0. Dovete solo superare la parte pi\u00f9 difficile, prima di ritrovare la vostra luce guida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112022\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi incredibili per alleggerire il vostro cuore pesante\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your mind is busy, it\u2019s not unusual to get overwhelmed and easily distracted, but the good thing about our mind is that it can always find a way to process things and let go at some point. But when it comes to your heart, it\u2019s not that simple. Our hearts are too tender. They&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":112021,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Incredible-Ways-To-Lighten-Your-Heavy-Heart-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29214"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29214\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112021"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}