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\u201cI’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.\u201d<\/em>\u2014Marilyn Monroe<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I\u2019m not your project. I can never be your little doll. I\u2019m not perfect, I know. I can be wild, free-spirited and hard to handle at times. But, I don\u2019t want you to fix me.<\/a> You can\u2019t put me in a box.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t you think we all deserve someone who will love us without pushing us to change?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t you think we all deserve to be accepted as we are and for who we are?<\/p>\n I am tired of people telling me what\u2019s best for me. No, that\u2019s not how you help me. Not at all.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need me. You just need me to need you. You want me to depend on your good decisions I should follow. But look, I\u2019m better than that\u2014even at my worst.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want you to fix me because I\u2019m not broken. Yes, I\u2019ve had bad experiences in the past. Yes, I was cheated on, betrayed, weak, hurt and heartbroken before. But, I\u2019m not your project. I need to make myself better, because that\u2019s the only way I can heal myself from everything bad that has ever happened to me. I need to be brave and strong. Actually, I am brave. I am courageous. And you need to stop making me feel weak.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want you to fix me because you need to fix yourself first. I don\u2019t allow you to fix me because the ones who wanted to do that were most often the ones who actually broke me.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want you to fix me; I want you to love me. I want you to embrace me despite all the flaws I have. I want you to hug me, not to scold me. I\u2019m already too harsh on me. I have been fighting with low self-esteem since I was a little girl. Please, don\u2019t make it worse.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t need you to judge me. Ho bisogno di un uomo<\/a> che mi far\u00e0 sempre notare i miei punti di forza, non quello che \u00e8 sempre pronto a farmi la predica e a darmi lezioni sulle mie debolezze.<\/p>\n