{"id":29260,"date":"2020-05-03T11:24:46","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T11:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29260"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","slug":"perdonare-se-stessi-per-le-volte-in-cui-si-e-dimenticato-il-proprio-valore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perdonare-se-stessi-per-le-volte-in-cui-si-e-dimenticato-il-proprio-valore\/","title":{"rendered":"Perdonarsi per le volte in cui si \u00e8 dimenticato il proprio valore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Siete ben consapevoli del fatto che il perdono \u00e8 una parte fondamentale del lasciar andare e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/this-is-what-moving-on-is-really-all-about\/\"> andare avanti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>With time, you\u2019ve learned that it is the only way to true liberation and to freeing yourself completely.<\/p>\n<p>And you keep forgiving the ones who have done you harm. You keep accepting the apologies you never got because you\u2019re a kind and loving person who can\u2019t stay resentful for long.<\/p>\n<p>But what about you? Why don\u2019t you treat yourself the same way? <b>Perch\u00e9 serbate rancore verso voi stessi? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Why don\u2019t you find the strength to forgive yourself?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 esattamente quello che dovreste fare.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to <b>perdonare se stessi per ogni volta che si \u00e8 permesso a qualcuno di spezzare il cuore.<\/b> Perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 mai stata colpa tua.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve always loved the best way you could and the ones who took advantage of your love are the only ones who should be ashamed of their actions.<\/p>\n<p><b>Per ogni volta che vi siete accontentati di meno di quanto meritavate.<\/b> Because now you know what you don\u2019t want from life.<\/p>\n<p>Ora sapete di essere tagliati per cose pi\u00f9 grandi e per persone di maggior valore.<\/p>\n<p>Perdonate voi stessi per aver fatto entrare le persone sbagliate e per non averle tagliate fuori in tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Per aver dato loro infinite seconde possibilit\u00e0 e per aver giustificato quelli che vi hanno fatto del male.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91813\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria in mente profonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per non aver saputo fare di meglio e per non aver imparato dagli errori del passato.<\/p>\n<p>Forgive yourself for all the times when you begged for someone\u2019s love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Per tutte le volte che hai permesso a qualche stronzo di farti chiedere perch\u00e9 non sei abbastanza e per esserti paragonata a tutte le altre ragazze della tua vita.<\/p>\n<p>Per ogni volta che hai inseguito qualcuno.<\/p>\n<p>For all the sleepless nights you spent trying to decode some guy\u2019s signals and trying to understand what he wanted from you.<\/p>\n<p>Per non sapere che un vero uomo non ti costringer\u00e0 mai a inseguirlo.<\/p>\n<p>Perdonate voi stessi per tutte le volte in cui avete sperato che qualcuno cambiasse e diventasse una persona migliore.<\/p>\n<p>Per non sapere che a volte <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-vostro-amore-non-puo-cambiare-un-uomo-finche-non-decide-di-farlo-lui-stesso\/\"> love isn\u2019t enough to make someone change <\/a> , fino a quando non decidono di farlo da soli.<\/p>\n<p>For all the times when you tried to save the people who didn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n<p>For trying to fix all those broken men and for not knowing that sometimes they aren\u2019t emotionally unavailable\u2014they are just assholes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perdonare se stessi per aver dato pi\u00f9 che ricevuto in cambio.<\/b> Per aver profuso tutti i vostri sforzi in relazioni che erano destinate a fallire.<\/p>\n<p>Per essere l'unico a provarci, senza ricevere alcun apprezzamento, se non altro. Per essere pronti a smuovere le montagne per le persone che non hanno mai mosso un dito per il vostro bene.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sulla sedia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>For every time you loved someone more than you loved yourself and for every time you didn\u2019t prioritize yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Per aver messo i bisogni degli altri davanti ai propri e per non essere stato egoista quando avresti dovuto esserlo.<\/p>\n<p>Stop blaming yourself for all the times you didn\u2019t appreciate yourself and for all the times when you allowed others to treat you the way they wanted.<\/p>\n<p>For all the times you didn\u2019t see that you matter and for all the times when you didn\u2019t see your true worth.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, be proud of the fact that you\u2019ve always worn your heart on your sleeve. Be proud of always being the good guy and for never hurting anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Ma soprattutto, <b>be proud of yourself for always doing your best. For always trying and for always taking a chance, even when maybe you shouldn\u2019t have.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Siate orgogliosi di voi stessi per essere sempre stati onesti e sinceri. Per il fatto che non siete mai stati <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-abbiate-paura-di-amare-di-nuovo-non-tutti-saranno-come-il-vostro-ex\/\"> paura di amare <\/a> o paura di mettersi in gioco, senza aspettarsi nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n<p><b>Be proud of your strength and power. Be proud of the fact that you\u2019ve survived every heartbreak and that you\u2019ve always managed to get up when they tried to knock you down. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, per favore, invece di incolparvi, prendete tutto quello che vi \u00e8 successo come una lezione preziosa e un'esperienza degna di nota.<\/p>\n<p><b>See each of your scars as a reminder of the things you went through and as a reminder that you\u2019ve always managed to rise and to pick up the pieces of your broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because trust me\u2014not many can do that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91818\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Perdonarsi per le volte in cui si \u00e8 dimenticato il proprio valore\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are very well aware that forgiveness is a crucial part of letting go and moving on. With time, you\u2019ve learned that it is the only way to true liberation and to freeing yourself completely. And you keep forgiving the ones who have done you harm. You keep accepting the apologies you never got because&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29260","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29260"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29260\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29260"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29260"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29260"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}