{"id":2927,"date":"2020-03-05T11:12:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T11:12:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2927"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:01:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:01:33","slug":"fottiti-per-averle-fatto-credere-di-essere-quella-non-amabile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fottiti-per-averle-fatto-credere-di-essere-quella-non-amabile\/","title":{"rendered":"Fottiti per averle fatto credere di essere quella non amabile"},"content":{"rendered":"

A volte siamo tutti difficili da amare. Tutti abbiamo giornate buone e cattive e va bene cos\u00ec. Quello che non va bene \u00e8 che tu la faccia sentire come quella non amabile. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It wasn\u2019t OK to make her walk through life thinking she doesn\u2019t deserve love because of who she is. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

You didn\u2019t know how to love her, so you blamed it on her.<\/b> You couldn\u2019t keep up with her, so you had to play the victim, and she had to be the damaged one. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

The secret is, she is more than lovable\u2014you just weren\u2019t the one.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

You say she had an attitude. She didn\u2019t.<\/b> She just didn\u2019t want to let you dim her voice.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

She wouldn’t keep quiet just because you needed her to shut up. If you were wrong, you ought to know you were wrong. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You say she made trouble out of nothing. She didn\u2019t. <\/b>Ha creato problemi quando tu facevi lo stronzo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

She wouldn\u2019t tolerate your games nor did she allow you to make a fool out of her. It\u2019s OK for you to go out with your friends\u2014it\u2019s not OK not to return her calls or ignore her texts for hours. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You say she was always busy. She wasn\u2019t. <\/b>Stava solo inseguendo i suoi sogni. Ha sempre avuto tempo per te.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

She answered your calls, she texted back whenever you were the first one to text her, and she had the time to listen to your drama. It\u2019s just that she devoted a lot of time to her career and that bugged you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"donna<\/p>\r\n

You wanted her to be dependable on you so you could run her life. That\u2019s why you had the need to make her feel guilty for being so damn good in what she was doing. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You say she didn\u2019t give you enough attention. She did.<\/b> Era lei a organizzare le cene. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Era lei a scegliere il film da guardare e a tirarti sempre fuori di casa. Conosceva tutti i vostri gusti e le vostre antipatie. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

She clicked with your friends and she had a solution for every single problem of yours. In case she didn\u2019t, she was there to listen and take care of you. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Dici che era impossibile amarla. Forse per te. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

Because you didn\u2019t put enough effort in your relationship. She wasn\u2019t lovable because you couldn\u2019t handle her.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

But she wasn\u2019t unlovable. <\/b>Era la persona pi\u00f9 facile da amare. Voleva la vostra attenzione e la vostra comprensione. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Voleva che ti impegnassi di pi\u00f9 e che la accettassi per quello che era. <\/span>You didn\u2019t need to change her. She was just fine the way she was.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Volevate adattarla ai vostri schemi.<\/span> Ma sarebbe un vero peccato.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Because she\u2019ll be loved by someone who knows how to love her. <\/b>Along the way, she\u2019ll meet somebody who won\u2019t think the world spins around him.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

She\u2019ll find somebody who\u2019ll make her feel like she\u2019s the whole world to him. Fortunately for her, you are not that guy.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Perch\u00e9, tra voi due, <\/span>voi<\/span><\/i> erano quelli non amabili.<\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n

\"Fottiti<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019re all hard to love sometimes. We all have good and bad days and that\u2019s OK. What\u2019s not OK is you making her feel like the unlovable one. It wasn\u2019t OK to make her walk through life thinking she doesn\u2019t deserve love because of who she is. You didn\u2019t know how to love her, so…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":119661,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2927","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Screw-You-For-Making-Her-Think-Shes-the-Unlovable-One-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2927","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2927"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2927\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119661"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2927"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2927"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2927"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}