{"id":29382,"date":"2020-08-05T08:15:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T08:15:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29382"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:19","slug":"se-non-apprezzano-cio-che-portate-in-tavola-lasciateli-mangiare-da-soli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-non-apprezzano-cio-che-portate-in-tavola-lasciateli-mangiare-da-soli\/","title":{"rendered":"Se non apprezzano ci\u00f2 che portate a tavola, lasciateli mangiare da soli"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recentemente ho letto da qualche parte la seguente citazione: <b>I know what I bring to the table, and I\u2019m not afraid to eat alone.<\/b> Mi ci sono voluti due lunghi giorni per capire veramente il significato di questa citazione.<\/p>\n<p>La prima cosa che mi \u00e8 venuta in mente \u00e8 qualcuno che porta in tavola del cibo vero e proprio.<\/p>\n<p>He knows what he is bringing and because of that he\u2019s not afraid to eat by himself. He\u2019s not afraid of everyone leaving him because he knows the true worth of the nourishment he is bringing.<\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 una comprensione di base della citazione, ma quando si scava pi\u00f9 a fondo, ci si rende conto della sua vera bellezza. Pu\u00f2 essere applicata a qualsiasi cosa e il significato rimane lo stesso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se volete che gli altri vi apprezzino, dovete conoscere il vostro valore.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103013\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se non apprezzano ci\u00f2 che portate a tavola, lasciateli mangiare da soli\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 la prima cosa che dovete ricordare a voi stessi per capire il significato della citazione. Se necessario, rileggetela.<\/p>\n<p>Absorb it. Feel the beauty of it. This simple statement means that you need to know your worth (you need to know what you\u2019re bringing to the table) if you want others to appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p>Alcune persone hanno dimenticato quanto valgono e si danno per scontate, il che porta presto a deludere gli altri. Dovete capire che tutto parte da voi.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete rendervi conto del vostro valore e mostrarlo agli altri, in modo che sappiano che non possono prendersi gioco di voi.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you\u2019re not worthy of being respected and appreciated for who you are.<\/p>\n<p>Siete fantastici e siete abbastanza! E anche se la maggior parte di loro vi dice il contrario, contradditeli e dimostrate loro che non hanno ragione!<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the only one who knows what challenges you had to overcome in order to become who you are today. You\u2019re the only one who knows your ability to love, give and receive.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019re the only who can tell them that this is who you are, and they better appreciate it or you\u2019ll go with those awesome traits of yours somewhere else to someone else who will appreciate them.<\/p>\n<p><b>Stabilite dei limiti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Le persone commettono errori. Io commetto errori. Voi fate degli errori. Ed \u00e8 questo che ci rende umani.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to make mistakes, but you should also know when to apologize or when to say that it\u2019s enough.<\/p>\n<p>Se volete che gli altri vi rispettino, dovete stabilire i vostri limiti e rispettarli. Se qualcuno vi dice qualcosa di carino, ringraziatelo.<\/p>\n<p>But, if someone pisses you off, don\u2019t be nice to them. Show them your rage, and they will respect you.<\/p>\n<p>Show them that you\u2019re only human just as they are, but also show them that you\u2019re not just any kind of human.<\/p>\n<p>You are a human with a big heart, and that is what distinguishes you from the others. And if they don\u2019t appreciate your big heart, they are certainly not worth your time.<\/p>\n<p>Life\u2019s too short to waste time on people who are not worth your second. You should never make someone a priority who is not ready to simply be there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Dite loro che apprezzate troppo la vostra vita per sprecare il vostro tempo con persone come loro. Dite loro: <b>It\u2019s enough!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Devi imparare ad amarti per quello che sei.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103014\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"Se non apprezzano ci\u00f2 che portate a tavola, lasciateli mangiare da soli\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Avete una voce unica. Avete un modo unico di pronunciare certe parole.<\/p>\n<p>You have a unique way of walking, greeting people and smiling. There\u2019s not a single person in the world who shares your traits and abilities.<\/p>\n<p>You are you. And why would you let anyone tell you that you\u2019re not doing something right (if they don\u2019t have a valid reason for it)?<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 lasciare che ti facciano odiare per quello che sei? Che vi facciano desiderare di essere qualcun altro? Non c'\u00e8 giusto o sbagliato.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuno pu\u00f2 dirvi che il vostro modo di camminare e di comportarvi \u00e8 sbagliato, perch\u00e9 non gli \u00e8 permesso di giudicarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Siete una creazione vostra. Tutto ci\u00f2 che fate rappresenta la vostra mente unica, i vostri desideri e le vostre aspirazioni. Dovete imparare ad amarvi per quello che siete, perch\u00e9 siete fantastici.<\/p>\n<p><b>And if they don\u2019t appreciate what you bring to the table, let them eat alone.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If they don\u2019t appreciate you for who you are, don\u2019t change yourself. If they don\u2019t appreciate your efforts, stop trying.<\/p>\n<p>If they don\u2019t appreciate your love, give your heart to someone else. Just don\u2019t let them take you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them think that you\u2019ll do anything to make them happy. If you\u2019re not happy with something, leave.<\/p>\n<p>Dimostrate loro che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/perdonare-se-stessi-per-le-volte-in-cui-si-e-dimenticato-il-proprio-valore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> conoscere il proprio valore <\/a>, and if they don\u2019t respect it, leave them. Leave them because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/rotto-si-e-allontanato-abbastanza-bene\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> sei abbastanza bravo <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciateli perch\u00e9 avete i vostri standard e non cambierete voi stessi solo per placare la loro natura avida.<\/p>\n<p>And if they don\u2019t recognize your efforts and you\u2019re killing yourself to achieve something, leave them.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciateli perch\u00e9 sapete di aver dato tutto voi stessi e loro non sono ancora in grado di riconoscerlo.<\/p>\n<p>And when you give all of yourself, you have every right to expect that it will be noticed and that you\u2019ll receive something in return.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aspettate qualcuno che vi rispetti e vi piaccia per quello che siete.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Non dipendete da nessuno. Ricordate a voi stessi che siete una creazione unica e che meritate qualcuno che vi tratti con rispetto e che vi apprezzi per quello che siete.<\/p>\n<p>And if they don\u2019t appreciate you at your worst, they certainly don\u2019t deserve you at your best.<\/p>\n<p>Mostrate i vostri veri colori. Ballate, sorridete, mostrate la vostra rabbia e aspettate che qualcuno si accorga della vostra vera bellezza.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che voi non siete il vostro passato. Non siete le vostre decisioni sbagliate o i vostri errori.<\/p>\n<p>You are here, living in the present, and if you\u2019re reading this, it means you\u2019re aware of yourself, and you\u2019re not afraid to get inspired by things around you.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete il bene in tutti, ed \u00e8 per questo che dovreste aspettare qualcuno che veda lo stesso in voi.<\/p>\n<p>But, please, don\u2019t try to be perfect. Know that you don\u2019t have to be perfect in order to be loved and respected.<\/p>\n<p>Alle persone giuste piacerete per quello che siete. Accoglieranno le vostre imperfezioni e resteranno.<\/p>\n<p>Le persone giuste non se ne andranno mai, qualunque cosa accada, perch\u00e9 conoscono la bellezza di essere un essere umano imperfetto che vive in un mondo imperfetto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103015\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"Se non apprezzano ci\u00f2 che portate a tavola, lasciateli mangiare da soli\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently I read the following quote somewhere: I know what I bring to the table, and I\u2019m not afraid to eat alone. It took me two, long days to truly understand what this quote is about. The first thing that came to my mind is someone who is bringing actual, physical food to the table&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":103016,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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