{"id":29394,"date":"2018-12-05T09:14:27","date_gmt":"2018-12-05T09:14:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29394"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:14:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:14:02","slug":"7-modi-in-cui-sabotate-accidentalmente-la-vostra-relazione-di-coppia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-in-cui-sabotate-accidentalmente-la-vostra-relazione-di-coppia\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi in cui sabotate accidentalmente la vostra relazione di coppia"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. Control mode \u2018ON\u2019<\/h2>\n<p>\u00c8 naturale avere il controllo sulla propria vita, ma non si pu\u00f2 controllare la vita del partner o ogni piccola cosa che ci accade.<\/p>\n<p>Pensare troppo in anticipo e cercare di prevedere ogni possibile situazione \u00e8 troppo difficile da gestire per chiunque, e il vostro partner pu\u00f2 facilmente sentirsi oppresso a vivere secondo le vostre regole e i vostri desideri, cosa che alla fine lo far\u00e0 scappare dalle colline.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Spazzolare le cose sotto il tappeto<\/h2>\n<p>You expect things to sort themselves out. You don\u2019t want to deal with issues your relationship comes across. You just brush them under the carpet and pray that they\u2019ll magically disappear.<\/p>\n<p>They never do; they just get bigger and bigger as time goes by. Don\u2019t be afraid to face them. If you allow your problems to pile up, your relationship <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-segni-rivelatori-di-rottura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">si romper\u00e0 inevitabilmente<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Sempre a destra<\/h2>\n<p>Even though facing your problems is a good thing, you shouldn\u2019t create problems where they aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n<p>Your way of seeing and dealing with things doesn\u2019t always have to be right. Acknowledge the other person, and take their thoughts into consideration. Listen before you act, and try to see the bigger picture.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships are about togetherness, not about a division between who\u2019s right and who\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Confronto tra la vostra relazione e quella dei vostri amici<\/h2>\n<p>La vostra amica vi ha appena raccontato che il suo ragazzo le ha comprato un regalo fantastico o ha organizzato un viaggio per loro due, e voi sentite che il vostro ragazzo dovrebbe fare lo stesso. Cos\u00ec iniziate a sentire che vi manca qualcosa nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, that could be the only decent thing your friend\u2019s boyfriend did in their entire relationship while yours is thriving in some other areas already.<\/p>\n<p>Le persone sono diverse, le relazioni sono diverse. Cercate di non fare paragoni. Prestate pi\u00f9 attenzione alle piccole grandi cose che il vostro ragazzo potrebbe fare per voi ogni giorno.<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u201c An eye for an eye\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Revenge is never a good idea. If you\u2019ve talked things through with your boyfriend, if you\u2019ve decided to forgive him for something, leave it at that.<\/p>\n<p>There is no point in getting even, no matter how big or small his mistake was. Be the bigger person\u2014forgive. Because revenge is an endless circle, and there is no happiness there.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Esiste una cosa che si chiama essere troppo onesti<\/h2>\n<p>Troppo di una cosa buona vi porter\u00e0 sulla strada sbagliata. Anche se la sincerit\u00e0 \u00e8 sempre la strada migliore da percorrere, ci sono cose che \u00e8 meglio non dire.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner might mistake your brutally honest sentences for insults or attacks. It\u2019s ok to hold some things to yourself, especially the ones that can hurt your partner&#8217;s feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Appiccicosit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p>Met\u00e0 delle donne viene ingiustamente accusata di essere appiccicosa, e met\u00e0 lo \u00e8 davvero. Stabilite da che parte state e siate onesti con voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>You should have your own life and not everything should revolve around your partner. If you notice that you depend on him for all sorts of things or expect him to make you happy, you might be clingy, and it\u2019s time to change that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-29398 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 modi in cui sabotate accidentalmente la vostra relazione di coppia\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Control mode \u2018ON\u2019 It\u2019s only natural to have control over your own life, but you can\u2019t control your partner\u2019s life or every little thing that happens to you. Thinking too much ahead and trying to predict every possible situation will be too much for anyone to handle, and your partner can easily feel burdened&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":29397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29394","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/justin-chrn-1126631-unsplash-1.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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