{"id":2941,"date":"2020-08-02T11:52:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T11:52:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2941"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:30:06","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:30:06","slug":"al-ragazzo-che-ha-fatto-del-male-alla-brava-ragazza-mentre-stava-soffrendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/al-ragazzo-che-ha-fatto-del-male-alla-brava-ragazza-mentre-stava-soffrendo\/","title":{"rendered":"Al ragazzo che ha ferito la brava ragazza mentre stava soffrendo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Per salvare te stesso, l'hai respinta. Per paura di essere ferito, non le hai mai dato una possibilit\u00e0, una vera possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Hai fatto anche <i> come <\/i> prova. \u00c8 stato uno sforzo misero. <b>You didn\u2019t allow yourself to feel while she was the one experiencing the feelings for both of you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Hai lasciato che il tuo passato ostacolasse il tuo futuro.<\/b> Continuavi a guardarti indietro e a vedere in lei tutto ci\u00f2 che ti aveva ferito.<\/p>\n<p>She paid for every time your heart was broken. She was the one to carry all the pain at once\u2014all the pain you\u2019ve been through in the past, she lived all at once thanks to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>In Japan, broken objects are often repaired with gold. The flaw is seen as a unique piece of the object\u2019s history, which adds to its beauty. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She could\u2019ve been the very gold for your heart if you gave her the chance. She could\u2019ve patched it together with her love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in cappotto rosso che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Ti sei spaventato ogni volta che si \u00e8 avvicinata troppo a te.<\/b> You couldn\u2019t keep the distance forever. She proved to you she was different, but you still fought back as if she were your worst enemy.<\/p>\n<p>You made her feel like she was doing something bad when in fact she was only loving you. You made her feel like she was to blame for how the things are between the two of you\u2014it was never you.<\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be called only when you were drunk. <\/b> She didn\u2019t deserve all those after-tequila calls followed by you admitting you care.<\/p>\n<p>You could\u2019ve manned up and said all those things while you were sober. <b>You could\u2019ve come to her straightforward instead of letting the alcohol speak out of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be lied to.<\/b> You lied that everything was fine and you lied when you said \u2018it was nothing\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>It was everything, but you didn\u2019t let her see the real you, the raw you. You chickened out.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107094\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be hurt first before you got hurt.<\/b> You shouldn\u2019t have seen your relationship with her as a competition\u2014you wouldn\u2019t\u2019ve gotten out as a loser, but you were too blind to see it.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, avete scelto di essere il predatore solo per evitare di diventare la preda.<\/p>\n<p>Her only sin was falling for an emotionally broken man. But she didn&#8217;t know you were unavailable.<\/p>\n<p>Sapeva che eravate danneggiati e ha scelto di amarvi nonostante le vostre rotture, i vostri danni e i vostri difetti. e cosa ha ottenuto in cambio? Beh, \u00e8 stata spezzata.<\/p>\n<p><b>She deserved a chance, just a small try, even the tiniest effort would&#8217;ve done the cham. <\/b> You should\u2019ve given \u2018you\u2019 at least one chance, but a real one.<\/p>\n<p>Ci teneva davvero a te. Era pronta a rischiare. <b>Era pronta a innamorarsi di te.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E lei si \u00e8 innamorata di te. Ma invece di prenderla, l'hai lasciata cadere sulla sua faccia.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107095\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t deserve the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She didn\u2019t deserve to be led on for months and then be left empty-handed.<\/p>\n<p>She didn&#8217;t deserve all the empty promises you made, she didn&#8217;t deserve to be led into believing you two had a future while you were only using her to feel better, to feed your insecurities and to not be alone.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of using her and pushing her away, you should&#8217;ve let her in. She&#8217;d help you heal.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;d show you that there is more to love and life than you&#8217;ve already seen. She&#8217;d loved you the right way. But you were too guarded and too selfish to do that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ora hai fatto a lei tutto quello che \u00e8 stato fatto a te. Come ti fa sentire fare lo stesso danno che \u00e8 stato fatto a te? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t blame it on your past or the hell you&#8217;ve been through. Because you could&#8217;ve made it, if you only gave her a chance.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-ho-quasi-rotto\/\">Hai rotto una brava ragazza<\/a> and, darling, this one&#8217;s on you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107092\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Al ragazzo che ha ferito la brava ragazza mentre stava soffrendo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In order to save yourself, you\u2019ve brushed her off. Because of the fear of being hurt, you never gave her a chance, a real chance. You did even like try. It was a miserable effort. You didn\u2019t allow yourself to feel while she was the one experiencing the feelings for both of you. 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