{"id":29453,"date":"2020-11-05T14:03:50","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T14:03:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29453"},"modified":"2022-01-19T11:03:06","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T11:03:06","slug":"anche-se-non-riuscite-a-dimenticarlo-del-tutto-imparerete-a-vivere-senza-di-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anche-se-non-riuscite-a-dimenticarlo-del-tutto-imparerete-a-vivere-senza-di-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Anche se non riuscite a dimenticarlo del tutto, imparerete a vivere senza di lui"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sono sicuro che non \u00e8 una cosa che vorreste sentire in questo momento, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che a volte non si riesce a dimenticare la persona che si amava un tempo. Rimane sempre una piccola parte di voi e, a volte, non tornate mai alla persona che eravate prima.<\/p>\n<p><b>No, this doesn\u2019t mean that this person was <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-eri-la-mia-anima-gemella-eri-solo-la-mia-lezione\/\"><b>la tua anima gemella<\/b><\/a><b>. It doesn\u2019t mean that you won\u2019t find a man you\u2019ll love more than you loved him and it certainly doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life missing him the way you miss him now.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che a volte la persona a cui tenevi cos\u00ec tanto ti cambia per sempre. In un certo senso la si ricorda sempre, per quanto si cerchi di cancellare dalla memoria il fatto che sia mai esistita.<\/p>\n<p>E anche quando si pensa che quest'uomo sia solo una parte del passato e che sia ormai dimenticato, la sua immagine appare proprio davanti agli occhi, dal nulla. Si sente la sua colonia da qualche parte in lontananza o si vede qualcuno che gli assomiglia e tutte le farfalle tornano.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ci sono alcuni cuori infranti che rimangono sempre bloccati da qualche parte nel profondo di voi e non c'\u00e8 semplicemente nulla che possiate fare al riguardo. Quando si tratta di alcuni uomini, ci si chiede per sempre cosa sarebbe potuto essere di voi due e non si riesce mai a dimenticarli del tutto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste a casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But one thing is for sure\u2014you learn to live without them, sooner or later. And this is exactly what will happen with this guy as well.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014there is a possibility that you never forget all about him. But before you know it, he\u2019ll no longer be the first or the last thing that goes through your mind every single day.<\/p>\n<p><b>Before you know it, you\u2019ll get used to his absence and you won\u2019t crave his presence anymore. You\u2019ll get used to this person not being a part of your life. And <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/andra-bene-anche-senza\/\">you\u2019ll be OK without him<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll start smiling without any particular reason. You\u2019ll hear his name and your heart won\u2019t skip a beat the way it used to.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll stop looking for him on the other side of the bed and your sheets will lose his scent. You won\u2019t think he is calling you every time your phone rings and you\u2019ll stop expecting his text every minute of every day. You&#8217;ll accept the fact that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-ha-bloccato-cosa-significa\/\">ti ha bloccato<\/a> e vederla come la cosa migliore che vi sia capitata da un po' di tempo a questa parte.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One of these nights, you won\u2019t even notice that you didn\u2019t cry yourself to sleep. You\u2019ll look forward to a new day, even though you\u2019ll know that he won\u2019t be in it.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll take off your rose-tinted glasses and you\u2019ll see this man for who he\u2019s really been all of this time. You\u2019ll stop idealizing him and you\u2019ll finally see all of his flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123040\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta sul letto schiena contro schiena\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/couple-sitting-on-bed-back-to-back-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll accept that it was for the better that things turned out the way they did. You\u2019ll accept that you would probably never be happy around this guy, you\u2019ll see all of your incompatibilities and differences and you\u2019ll realize that you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/anche-se-non-era-destinato-a-durare-per-sempre-speciale\/\">weren\u2019t meant to last forever<\/a>. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll accept the fact that he\u2019s gone and that he isn\u2019t coming back. You won\u2019t expect to see him on your doorstep, asking for forgiveness and just like that\u2014you\u2019ll stop waiting for him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Just like that, you\u2019ll stop counting the days which have passed since his departure. You\u2019ll stop measuring the time before and after him and you won\u2019t feel like a part of you is missing just because he is not there by your side.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Potreste pensare a lui il giorno del suo compleanno o del vostro anniversario. Potreste rattristarvi quando sentite che si \u00e8 sposato, pensando a come sarebbe dovuto essere il vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll probably spend the next few hours replaying your relationship in your head every time you see him pass by you.<\/p>\n<p>Ma guarirete. Sopravviverete e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-di-forza-che-hai-ufficialmente-voltato-pagina-con-il-tuo-ex-tossico\/\">andare avanti<\/a>. The pain won\u2019t be all-consuming the way it is now and your heart won\u2019t ache forever\u2014I promise you that. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Anche se non riuscite a dimenticarlo del tutto, imparerete a vivere senza di lui\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am sure that this is not something you want to hear at this point but the truth is that there are times when you never get over the person you once loved. They always keep a small part of you and sometimes, you never go back to the person you used to be. No,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":123037,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Even-If-You-Dont-Get-Over-Him-Completely-Youll-Learn-To-Live-Without-Him-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29453"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29453\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123037"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}