{"id":29482,"date":"2020-06-06T09:10:12","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T09:10:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29482"},"modified":"2021-12-15T21:28:02","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T21:28:02","slug":"7-cose-da-fare-quando-i-vostri-partner-non-sono-bravi-a-mandare-messaggi-ma-sono-bravissimi-nella-vita-reale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-da-fare-quando-i-vostri-partner-non-sono-bravi-a-mandare-messaggi-ma-sono-bravissimi-nella-vita-reale\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose da fare quando il vostro partner non \u00e8 bravo a mandare messaggi (ma \u00e8 bravissimo nella vita reale)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Avete conosciuto un ragazzo fantastico e vi state divertendo un mondo, ma lui \u00e8 un vero e proprio anti-talento quando si tratta di mandare messaggi.<\/p>\n<p>When the two of you are together, everything\u2019s perfect but when it comes to texting, you always have to wait for him to reply or you receive one-word replies.<\/p>\n<p>This is really annoying and you have every right to feel \u2018betrayed\u2019. But you have to understand that guys usually don\u2019t use texting as a means of connecting with someone.<\/p>\n<p>Lo usano per organizzare riunioni o per un semplice scambio di informazioni.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t understand that this pisses you off because they don\u2019t see it the way you see it. And that is why you should never question his affection for you or think that he\u2019s deliberately ignoring you.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste invece cercare di capirlo e di trovare un compromesso con lui, se necessario.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>Here are 7 tips that will help you deal with your partner\u2019s bad texting skills:<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t overwhelm him with texting<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93443\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you see that he\u2019s really bad at texting but great in real life, you should never force him to answer you or overwhelm him with a hundred messages in his inbox.<\/p>\n<p>If you do that, he will feel that you\u2019re forcing him to do something he doesn\u2019t like or he\u2019s simply not good at.<\/p>\n<p>Always give him space so that he doesn\u2019t feel cornered or imprisoned by you.<\/p>\n<p>Riducete i messaggi al minimo e scrivetegli solo per questioni e accordi importanti o quando avete davvero bisogno di lui e non vedete l'ora di parlargliene di persona.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t take it to heart<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa che si mangia le unghie\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Try to understand that you have a great guy in your life but he\u2019s just not that into texting, which shouldn\u2019t influence the quality of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let your emotions manipulate you into believing that this is a real catastrophe because it is not and you know it too.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are simply not good at some things or they don\u2019t enjoy it the same way as you do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vederlo di persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93445\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che guarda gli occhi dell&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La cosa migliore da fare in questa situazione \u00e8 continuare a vederlo di persona il pi\u00f9 spesso possibile. \u00c8 un'alternativa molto migliore degli sms e vi aiuter\u00e0 a mantenere i nervi saldi.<\/p>\n<p>Prenotate alcuni argomenti che vorreste discutere con lui e scriveteli su un foglio di carta, se necessario, in modo da poterli ricordare in seguito.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll never get bored and you will take your relationship to another level.<\/p>\n<p>Avrete sempre qualcosa di interessante di cui parlare, che arricchir\u00e0 il tempo trascorso insieme.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chiamatelo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93446\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che parla al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t wait to see him, you can always call him and talk to him about everything that comes to your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Anche questa \u00e8 un'ottima alternativa agli sms e potrete sentire la sua voce e il suo sorriso.<\/p>\n<p>And he will also enjoy it because calling has more benefits and it\u2019s healthier for your relationship than texting.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Parlatene con lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93447\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che guarda una donna \" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve tried everything and you still cannot accept this misfortune of him being bad at texting, you should consider talking to him about it.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t raise your voice or freak out about it.<\/p>\n<p>Just stay calm and put everything into words nicely so that he doesn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re blaming him for something.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you\u2019re not mad at him but you would like him to try to work on his texting skills.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t confuse his being bad at texting with his affection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93448\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna che messaggia a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-motivi-per-cui-non-ti-scrive-mai-per-primo-ma-risponde-sempre-quando-gli-mandi-un-messaggio\/\">Sta aspettando che gli mandi un messaggio prima<\/a>? What if he doesn&#8217;t like me?<\/em> Don&#8217;t let such and similar questions interfere with your romance.<\/p>\n<p>Non confondete mai il suo problema con gli sms con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-da-sapere-se-il-vostro-partner-ha-difficolta-a-dimostrare-affetto\/\">il suo affetto per voi<\/a>. It\u2019s obvious that he really likes you and wants to be with you because he wouldn\u2019t bother showing it in real life if this wasn\u2019t so.<\/p>\n<p>Being bad at texting is another type of problem and you should never question his feelings for you if he doesn\u2019t answer you immediately or if he replies with one word.<\/p>\n<p>E se continuate a costringerlo a convalidare i suoi sentimenti per voi, rovinerete la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abbracciatelo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93449\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che abbraccia un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Invece di vederlo come un problema, dovreste abbracciarlo! \u00c8 una grande opportunit\u00e0 per trascorrere pi\u00f9 tempo all'aria aperta e dedicarsi a diverse attivit\u00e0 con il proprio partner.<\/p>\n<p>You will have more energy and you will feel more stress-free because you won\u2019t be frustrated over him not texting you back.<\/p>\n<p>You should embrace it because you\u2019ll have more fun in life and you\u2019ll spend more quality time with your partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93442\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 cose da fare quando il vostro partner non \u00e8 bravo a mandare messaggi (ma \u00e8 bravissimo nella vita reale)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, you\u2019ve met a great guy and you\u2019re having the time of your life but he\u2019s a real anti-talent when it comes to texting. When the two of you are together, everything\u2019s perfect but when it comes to texting, you always have to wait for him to reply or you receive one-word replies. This is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93450,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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