{"id":29494,"date":"2020-04-06T09:26:03","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T09:26:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29494"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:17:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:17:08","slug":"6-motivi-per-cui-non-si-puo-essere-solo-amici-di-una-persona-che-si-e-amata-un-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-cui-non-si-puo-essere-solo-amici-di-una-persona-che-si-e-amata-un-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivi per cui non si pu\u00f2 essere 'solo amici' di qualcuno che si \u00e8 amato un tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Essere o non essere? Rimanere amici di qualcuno che si amava un tempo o, piuttosto, non farlo? \u00c8 una domanda inevitabile che invade la nostra mente dopo una rottura.<\/p>\n

Sometimes we\u2019re not even aware of it and we subconsciously consider the idea of staying friends with them because we\u2019re afraid of completely losing them from our life.<\/p>\n

When love \u2018shuts down\u2019, it somehow comes naturally to us to think about friendship with the person with whom we once shared everything.<\/p>\n

Ma nella maggior parte dei casi, questa non \u00e8 una buona idea come potrebbe sembrare.<\/p>\n

Staying friends with someone you once loved means erasing the past that the two of you share together and not wanting to do anything with them that is not related with \u2018being friends\u2019 (except if you\u2019re friends with benefits).<\/p>\n

6 motivi per cui non si pu\u00f2 essere 'solo amici' di qualcuno che si \u00e8 amato un tempo<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Avete bisogno di tempo per elaborare il lutto<\/h2>\n

\"amico<\/p>\n

The number one reason why you can\u2019t be solo amici<\/a> \u00e8 perch\u00e9 avete bisogno di tempo per elaborare il lutto.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether your partner is the one who initiated the break-up or perhaps you, you simply need some alone time to understand the situation and heal properly.<\/p>\n

E se rimarrete amici con loro, non potrete mai guarire se stessi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Non sarete mai in grado di vivere in pace e armonia con voi stessi perch\u00e9 la decisione di rimanere amici con loro vi perseguiter\u00e0.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been intimate<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Intimacy is something we shouldn\u2019t take for granted because it is a powerful force that connects us with another human being.<\/p>\n

And once you\u2019re connected, it is hard to disconnect. It is hard to forget the smell of their hair, the way they kiss or hug.<\/p>\n

Once you share your heart and intimacy with someone, they automatically become a part of you and that is why it is almost impossible to all of a sudden shift to the \u2018just friends\u2019 label.<\/p>\n

You will always have some d\u00e9j\u00e0 vus and they will always remind you of what the two of you used to have.<\/p>\n

Non sarete in grado di andare avanti<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se decidete di rimanere loro amici, non riuscirete mai ad andare avanti. Rimarrete nel passato e nel presente allo stesso tempo.<\/p>\n

And the more you go forward, the more you\u2019ll be pulled back.<\/p>\n

You will never be able to find your true self and erase your past because you\u2019ll be too busy thinking about what went wrong.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe far ingelosire il vostro nuovo partner<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Rimanere amici del vostro ex potrebbe influenzare notevolmente il vostro nuovo potenziale partner.<\/p>\n

They could become jealous and start questioning whether you\u2019ve gotten over them or not. And it will influence them to behave possessively even though they\u2019re not that kind of a person.<\/p>\n

They will never be 100% sure that you\u2019ll not change your mind and reunite with them and that will cause stress and unnecessary arguments with your new, potential partner.<\/p>\n

Sarete costantemente sulle montagne russe emotive.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Se rimanete amici di una persona che un tempo amavate, preparatevi a vivere una costante altalena di emozioni.<\/p>\n

Avrete sentimenti contrastanti su tutto.<\/p>\n

Le loro azioni vi ricorderanno i vostri momenti felici insieme e vi faranno mettere in dubbio la validit\u00e0 della vostra decisione di separarvi.<\/p>\n

Le emozioni sono davvero complicate e il nostro cervello non dimentica mai nulla.<\/p>\n

Anche una sola parola pronunciata in precedenza pu\u00f2 scatenare in voi certe emozioni e farvi sentire smarriti e confusi. \u00c8 perch\u00e9 il vostro cervello non capisce che \u00e8 finita.<\/p>\n

Il vostro cervello \u00e8 programmato per apprezzare le cose che vi piacevano prima e questo \u00e8 il motivo per cui i vostri sentimenti possono emergere quando meno ve lo aspettate.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll be in a constant labyrinth of questioning everything.<\/p>\n

Le persone potrebbero farsi un'idea sbagliata\"famiglia<\/h2>\n

I vostri amici e familiari potrebbero confonderlo con il vostro tentativo di ricongiungervi a loro e per questo inizieranno a farvi domande inutili.<\/p>\n

Dimostrare loro che le vostre intenzioni sono esclusivamente amichevoli non li rassicurer\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 davvero frustrante quando devi convalidare ogni tuo passo e pensiero a loro.<\/p>\n

To you, \u2018just friends\u2019 might mean something completely different to what they are imagined and in this case, staying away from your ex would be a much better alternative.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

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To be or not to be? To stay friends with someone you once loved or, rather, not to? It is an inevitable question that invades our mind after a break-up. Sometimes we\u2019re not even aware of it and we subconsciously consider the idea of staying friends with them because we\u2019re afraid of completely losing them…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":73995,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Be-Just-Friends-With-Someone-You-Once-Loved.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29494"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29494\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163609,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29494\/revisions\/163609"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/73995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}