{"id":29503,"date":"2020-07-06T11:13:50","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T11:13:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29503"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:58:55","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:58:55","slug":"per-favore-smettete-di-regalare-la-vostra-energia-alle-persone-sbagliate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/per-favore-smettete-di-regalare-la-vostra-energia-alle-persone-sbagliate\/","title":{"rendered":"Per favore, smettete di regalare la vostra energia alle persone sbagliate"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lei \u00e8 tutt'altro che una sciocca. Sei una donna intelligente, indipendente, sveglia e autosufficiente. Sai quanto meriti e conosci il tuo valore.<\/p>\n

So, what exactly is the problem? Why do you keep letting the wrong people in and giving them your heart? Why do you keep wasting your time and energy on those who don\u2019t deserve it?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 permettete agli altri di esaurirvi e di prosciugare tutta la vostra energia positiva? Perch\u00e9 continuate ad aggrapparvi a qualcuno, quando sapete benissimo che dovreste lasciarsi andare<\/a>?<\/p>\n

I know that cutting off toxic people from your life isn\u2019t easy. That breaking all ties with someone who\u2019s been around for years means stepping out of your comfort zone. I know you are scared of doing all of this, even when you know it is the only option you have.<\/p>\n

But I am here to tell you that it\u2019s time for you to scegliete voi stessi al posto di tutti gli altri.<\/b> And most of all, I am here to tell you that you are strong enough to do it, even if you don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Please, understand that it\u2019s time for you to smettete di occuparvi degli altri pi\u00f9 di quanto loro si occupino di voi.<\/b> Remember that someone\u2019s efforts are the only reflection of their love for you.<\/p>\n

If a guy acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, it is probably the truth and you better start believing him.<\/p>\n

And this goes for everyone else in your life as well. You are not everyone\u2019s mother and making others feel good and rearranging their lives is not your duty.<\/p>\n

Invece di cercare di migliorare qualcun altro, concentratevi sul diventare la migliore versione possibile di voi stessi. Lavorate per rendervi felici, perch\u00e9 questa \u00e8 l'unica responsabilit\u00e0 che avete e che dovete a voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Smettere di amare le persone sbagliate pi\u00f9 di quanto si ami se stessi. Anzi, smettete di amare chiunque pi\u00f9 di quanto amiate voi stesse.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Infine, mettete voi stessi al primo posto e smettete di dare la priorit\u00e0 a chi vi tratta come una seconda scelta.<\/p>\n

Iniziate invece ad apprezzare il vostro tempo e i vostri sforzi e tutti quelli che vi circondano vi seguiranno. Iniziate a rispettarvi e a darvi l'amore che vi aspettate dagli altri.<\/p>\n

Smettere di inseguire gli uomini sbagliati e smettere di implorare la loro attenzione o il loro amore<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

The moment you see that a guy is playing mind games with you and the moment you see he is trying to make you go after him, understand that he isn\u2019t worthy of your trouble.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 l'uomo giusto vi dar\u00e0 tutto il suo amore, senza che dobbiate chiederlo.<\/p>\n

Vi dar\u00e0 tutte le sue attenzioni e non vi far\u00e0 mai sentire indesiderate o non amate. E se il vostro uomo non \u00e8 cos\u00ec, lasciatelo perdere, anche se fa male.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Smettere di cercare di <\/b>aggiustare le persone rotte<\/b><\/a> who don\u2019t want to heal.<\/b> You need to understand that there are some people who are incapable of loving and it is not your job to ty to save them because you\u2019ll never succeed in doing so.<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019ll just end up being dragged into their darkness and they\u2019ll end up damaging you.<\/p>\n

Smettete di aspettare un cambiamento che non arriver\u00e0 mai.<\/b> You are a big girl now and you know that sadly, sometimes your love isn\u2019t enough for those who are incapable of loving, regardless of its magnitude or depth.<\/p>\n

So, stop making excuses and stop justifying someone mistreating you. He doesn\u2019t love you in his own special way and he isn\u2019t emotionally damaged\u2014he is a jerk who keeps on breaking your heart and it\u2019s about time you accept this.<\/p>\n

Smettete di permettere agli altri di infettarvi con la loro tossicit\u00e0 e negativit\u00e0.<\/b> Stop thinking about everyone else\u2019s problems, especially when these people couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I know that you are an empatico<\/a> who can\u2019t stay immune to the  misfortune of others.<\/p>\n

But you need to understand that you can\u2019t be everyone\u2019s shoulder to cry on and that you don\u2019t have the ability to repair all the damage in this world.<\/p>\n

So che siete forti, ma siete anche solo un essere umano. Non sei una superdonna che pu\u00f2 sistemare tutto da un giorno all'altro.<\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, tenete la vostra energia per voi stessi. Perch\u00e9 una volta che vi mettete nei guai, il<\/b>re won\u2019t be anyone to give you a hand. There won\u2019t be anyone you can count on and you\u2019ll understand that you are on your own.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that is when you\u2019ll understand that you need all the inner strength you can get.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ll understand that you are the one who has to pick up the broken pieces of herself and that you are the one who has to put herself back together, without anyone\u2019s help. That is when you\u2019ll understand that you can\u2019t rely on anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n

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You are anything but a fool. You are an intelligent, independent, smart and self-sufficient woman. You know how much you deserve and you know your worth. So, what exactly is the problem? Why do you keep letting the wrong people in and giving them your heart? Why do you keep wasting your time and energy…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":94663,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Please-Stop-Giving-Your-Energy-Away-To-The-Wrong-People.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29503"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29503\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}