{"id":29638,"date":"2020-09-09T14:23:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T14:23:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29638"},"modified":"2022-03-23T12:16:05","modified_gmt":"2022-03-23T12:16:05","slug":"7-modi-per-reagire-al-trattamento-silenzioso-nella-vostra-relazione-di-coppia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-per-reagire-al-trattamento-silenzioso-nella-vostra-relazione-di-coppia\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi per reagire al trattamento silenzioso nella vostra relazione di coppia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il trattamento silenzioso<\/a> \u00e8 ignorare deliberatamente il partner perch\u00e9 non siete d'accordo su qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 trattarsi di un piccolo litigio, ma anche di qualcosa di serio come il tradimento o il dare per scontati. Ma la cosa fondamentale \u00e8 che non \u00e8 affatto piacevole e si pu\u00f2 addirittura parlare di una sorta di abuso emotivo.<\/p>\n

Because if your partner doesn\u2019t want to talk to you and make things right, it means they feel you are not worthy of their efforts. They want you to hurt as much as you can and they will do everything to see you like that.<\/p>\n

E in questa situazione, ci sono alcune cose che potete fare per rispondere al trattamento silenzioso che il vostro partner vi sta riservando.<\/p>\n

1. Individuare la radice del problema<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se si individua la radice del problema, forse si pu\u00f2 prevenire il trattamento silenzioso<\/a> la prossima volta. Se sapete quale comportamento fa arrabbiare il vostro partner, saprete come comunicare con lui la prossima volta.<\/p>\n

Non sto dicendo di rinunciare ai vostri sogni solo perch\u00e9 questo rende triste il vostro uomo, ma se sentite di aver commesso un errore, potete correggerlo. Poich\u00e9 bisogna essere in due per ballare il tango, anche il vostro partner dovr\u00e0 fare uno sforzo.<\/p>\n

2. Indossare il cuore sulla manica<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Al giorno d'oggi le persone tengono le loro emozioni nel profondo, ma questa \u00e8 la cosa peggiore che si possa fare.<\/p>\n

If you want to prevent the silent treatment, you need to talk to your partner. Don\u2019t be the one who will run after him if he hurts you but when things calm down, sit and talk to him openly.<\/p>\n

Ditegli come vi sentite e fate in modo che lui faccia lo stesso. Questo \u00e8 un ottimo modo per creare un legame pi\u00f9 profondo tra voi due e portare la vostra relazione a un livello completamente nuovo.<\/p>\n

3. Raggiungere un compromesso<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Le relazioni sono un lavoro duro, ma sta a voi vedere se il vostro partner ne vale davvero la pena<\/a>. Se litigate per piccole cose, cercate di parlare con lui e di trovare un compromesso. Scommetto che entrambi volete far funzionare le cose, quindi non c'\u00e8 bisogno di un trattamento silenzioso.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, both of you will feel bad and you won\u2019t solve anything. Instead of ignoring each other, open up and talk about all those things that make you feel bad. If you love each other, you will understand each other as well.<\/p>\n

4. Ritagliatevi del tempo per rinfrescarvi entrambi.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you were a victim of the silent treatment, don\u2019t jump into a discussion with your partner right away but rather give him time to cool off. You will also need some time to think about what happened and if you can get over it.<\/p>\n

If you discuss the problem right away, you will just yell at each other because of your hurt emotions and you won\u2019t solve anything. But if you take some time to calm down, maybe you can save your relationship.<\/p>\n

La domanda \u00e8 se anche il vostro partner lo vuole e se \u00e8 disposto a cambiare, dopo tutto.<\/p>\n

5. Comunicare in modo educato<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

There are different types of communication and if you talk to your partner like you are still mad at him, you won\u2019t solve anything. If you were hurt so much, you can separate but at least do it with dignity.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fight and don\u2019t swear because you will only make things worse in that way.<\/p>\n

Good communication is key to a successful relationship so that is what you need to strive for. And if you don\u2019t get a positive answer from your partner, at least you will know it wasn\u2019t your fault.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t do things you are not comfortable with<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There are things some partners will want but if you are not okay with it, don\u2019t accept it. Don\u2019t let your guy blackmail you just because you love him. That is not an act of love but an act of cowardice.<\/p>\n

So, never say that you are sorry if you think you weren\u2019t guilty of the fight and always keep your dignity. Remember that couples need to make an effort and if you are the only one doing it, then it really doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

7. Stabilite delle regole che vadano bene per entrambi.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Se amate davvero il vostro partner e se avete analizzato tutti i problemi che avete, allora stabilite delle regole che vadano bene per entrambi.<\/p>\n

Non sto dicendo che dovete inchinarvi di fronte a lui, ma se \u00e8 pronto a far funzionare le cose, allora dategli una possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

If things don\u2019t work out in the end, at least you will know that it wasn\u2019t because of you. If it can be saved then it is great and if not, I guess it wasn\u2019t meant for you to be together. Please bear in mind that when one door gets closed, other ones get opened!<\/p>\n

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The silent treatment is deliberately ignoring your partner because you are not on the same page regarding something. It can be some mini fight but it can be something serious like cheating or taking them for granted. But the bottom line is that it is not nice at all and it can even be called…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":116834,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29638","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Ways-To-React-To-The-Silent-Treatment-In-Your-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29638","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29638"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29638\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116834"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29638"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29638"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29638"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}