{"id":29704,"date":"2020-06-10T09:18:54","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T09:18:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29704"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:29:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:29:54","slug":"il-fatto-che-ti-tratti-male-e-solo-un-segno-che-non-ama-se-stesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-fatto-che-ti-tratti-male-e-solo-un-segno-che-non-ama-se-stesso\/","title":{"rendered":"Il fatto che vi tratti male \u00e8 solo un segno che non ama se stesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Scommetto che era meraviglioso quando vi siete conosciuti. Ha fatto tutto secondo le regole. Chiamava e mandava messaggi regolarmente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti riempiva di attenzioni. Era gentile e dolce. Si \u00e8 impegnato. <\/span><\/p>\n

Proprio quando iniziavate a pensare di vivere in uno di quei romanzi d'amore perfetti, lui vi ha dimostrato che vi sbagliavate. <\/span><\/p>\n

His behavior changed so drastically. At first, he couldn\u2019t stand to be apart from you or to hear from you. Then all of a sudden, he completely ignored you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me when I say you had nothing to do with his behavior. It\u2019s not that he doesn\u2019t like you anymore. He did it because he doesn\u2019t like himself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A confident man, a man who loves himself, behaves differently. Even if he loses interest in a woman, he will tell her. If he\u2019s not ready for a relationship, he will be honest about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t string her along and treat her like she is the center<\/span> del suo universo solo per poterla poi gettare via come se non contasse nulla.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s not how a real man behaves. That\u2019s how<\/span> vigliacchi <\/span><\/a>e i manipolatori giocano.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he deliberately started your relationship with love bombing. He knew you will hold on to that perfect beginning when he starts mistreating you later on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sapeva che quei momenti perfetti con lui sarebbero stati sufficienti a farvi continuare a perdonarlo per ogni volta che vi avesse fatto un torto. Che sarebbero bastati a farvi sperare che lui sarebbe tornato a cambiare. Ma non lo far\u00e0 mai.<\/span><\/p>\n

Men like him don\u2019t change; they only get worse. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sadly, you are unable to see it right away. You can\u2019t grasp that someone who was so warm and loving to you can be so cold and heartless. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nonostante tutto, credete ancora nel bene che c'\u00e8 in lui. Continua a rivivere i momenti felici con lui e a tenerli stretti per tutta la vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Ti incolpi di tutto perch\u00e9 lui ti ha insegnato a farlo. \u00c8 sempre stato cos\u00ec abile e ha sempre interpretato il ruolo della vittima in modo meraviglioso.<\/span><\/p>\n

You truly started to believe that everything he says is the truth. And it\u2019s no wonder because he used every atom of his strength to lower your self-esteem. He needed to make you emotionally weak, so he could rule your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trust him when he says he loves you. He is incapable of love you because he doesn\u2019t love himself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If he treats you poorly, don\u2019t believe his declarations of love. Trust your tears. Trust your nervous breakdowns. Trust your feeling of helplessness that he is not the one for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trust his words because words don\u2019t mean much when <\/i><\/b>le azioni falliscono<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'unico che pu\u00f2 amarvi \u00e8 l'uomo che ama gi\u00e0 se stesso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Riverser\u00e0 su di voi tutto il suo amore, in modo disinteressato. Vi tratter\u00e0 bene, a prescindere da tutto. Certo, di tanto in tanto avrete delle divergenze, ma non vi far\u00e0 mai passare l'inferno. <\/span><\/p>\n

Un uomo che ama se stesso sar\u00e0 il vento sotto le vostre ali. Non gli passer\u00e0 mai per la testa di sminuirvi o di farvi sentire meno brave perch\u00e9 lui pensa tutto di voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see a man like this will make efforts not excuses. He will give as much as he takes. He will never make you feel alone. A man who loves himself will know how to love you, and that\u2019s the only truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, wait for him…find him… find yourself and acknowledge your worth. Don\u2019t allow anybody to treat you like you are unworthy. Don\u2019t settle for someone who treats you badly. That\u2019s not love… that\u2019s torture.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Il<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I bet he was wonderful when you first met. He did everything by the book. He called and texted regularly. He showered you with attention. He was gentle and sweet. He made efforts. Just when you started to think you are living in one of those perfect romance novels, he proved you wrong. His behavior…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":95325,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Him-Treating-You-Poorly-Is-Just-A-Sign-He-Doesnt-Love-Himself.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29704\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95325"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}