{"id":29834,"date":"2018-12-12T09:23:22","date_gmt":"2018-12-12T09:23:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29834"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:05:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:05:01","slug":"nel-mondo-delle-cose-istantanee-voglio-un-amore-che-duri-nel-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nel-mondo-delle-cose-istantanee-voglio-un-amore-che-duri-nel-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Nel mondo del tutto istantaneo, voglio un amore che duri nel tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Am I crazy for wishing for a love that lasts? Am I crazy because I believe it\u2019s still out there waiting for me? Maybe but I know that when it comes to love, I won\u2019t settle for anything less.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-bandiere-rosse-che-indicano-che-state-vivendo-una-relazione-temporanea\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relazioni temporanee<\/span><\/a>, casual hookups, and half loves are not for me. I see that everybody around me is behaving like that\u2019s something normal, that love should be like everything else\u2014instant and fleeting.<\/p>\n<p>But I don\u2019t agree. It shouldn\u2019t be like that. Love shouldn\u2019t mess with your mind and break your heart into pieces\u2026. it just shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I don\u2019t want a relationship that seems perfect at the beginning and lifts me up onto cloud nine when all is well but as soon as the first problems arrive, it knocks me down to the ground so hard that I can barely survive the fall. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Voglio vivere nella paura che la persona che mi piace scompaia non appena i miei sentimenti diventano pi\u00f9 profondi. Che le sue paure di impegno la facciano scappare il pi\u00f9 lontano possibile da me.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio una persona che rimanga con me. Qualcuno che rimanga a prescindere da tutto. Qualcuno che mi dica che non mi lascer\u00e0 mai e che si attenga alle sue parole.<\/p>\n<p>I want someone who won\u2019t run into the arms of someone else, someone who is \u2018easier\u2019 to love, instead of working on our issues, instead of fighting for me.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I don\u2019t want someone who treats love like it\u2019s something instant, something they can easily replace. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Voglio qualcuno che sappia che sono unica nel suo genere e che il rapporto che costruiremo insieme sar\u00e0 qualcosa di impossibile da sostituire.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio qualcuno che sappia che il vero amore vale ogni singolo sforzo che si fa perch\u00e9 si ricever\u00e0 molto di pi\u00f9 in cambio.<\/p>\n<p>Sono stufa delle persone che hanno sempre un piede fuori dalla porta. Hanno difficolt\u00e0 a rispondere a un messaggio o a presentarsi quando hanno detto che lo avrebbero fatto, quindi come posso dipendere da loro per qualcosa di pi\u00f9?<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need that in my life. I am sick of them playing with my feelings and making me question my self-worth.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio qualcuno che veda la vera me. Qualcuno che metta a tacere le mie insicurezze e mi tratti come se non ci fosse nessuno al mondo che apprezzi pi\u00f9 di me.<\/p>\n<p>I want someone who is bold enough to fight when things get rough. Someone who wouldn\u2019t even dream of leaving me alone. Someone who helps instead of making things even harder.<\/p>\n<p>Non cerco nulla di straordinario, voglio solo coerenza e impegno. Tutto ci\u00f2 che voglio \u00e8 amare ed essere ricambiata, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/signs-he-loves-you-deeply\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">onestamente, veramente, follemente, profondamente<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want someone who treats love like it\u2019s instant and as replaceable as everything else.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio qualcuno che sia pronto a muoversi lentamente e a costruire l'amore dalle fondamenta al tetto, mattone dopo mattone. Senza fretta e senza urgenza, perch\u00e9 non c'\u00e8 fine: il vero amore dura per sempre.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-29838 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Heres-Why-You-Attract-\u2018Wrong\u2019-Guys-According-To-Your-Zodiac-Sign-9-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Nel mondo del tutto istantaneo, voglio un amore che duri nel tempo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Heres-Why-You-Attract-\u2018Wrong\u2019-Guys-According-To-Your-Zodiac-Sign-9-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Heres-Why-You-Attract-\u2018Wrong\u2019-Guys-According-To-Your-Zodiac-Sign-9-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Heres-Why-You-Attract-\u2018Wrong\u2019-Guys-According-To-Your-Zodiac-Sign-9.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am I crazy for wishing for a love that lasts? Am I crazy because I believe it\u2019s still out there waiting for me? Maybe but I know that when it comes to love, I won\u2019t settle for anything less. Temporary relationships, casual hookups, and half loves are not for me. I see that everybody around&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":29837,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29834","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/davids-kokainis-1210480-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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