{"id":2984,"date":"2017-07-31T10:49:42","date_gmt":"2017-07-31T10:49:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2984"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:30:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:30:53","slug":"giovane-moglie-amante-a-lungo-termine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/giovane-moglie-amante-a-lungo-termine\/","title":{"rendered":"Questo \u00e8 per una giovane moglie da una padrona a lungo termine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I never wanted to take him away from you. He came to me, all broken and tired, asking for some love. So, I gave him a shelter in my heart and my bed. I made all his bad dreams go away. He was so happy when he was with me but I saw in his eyes that he was not completely satisfied. I knew he was thinking about you all the time. About the pain he was doing to you. But at the same time, he didn&#8217; want to stop. I don&#8217;t know why he is cheating you with me. Maybe I have something that he misses about you. Maybe that is the one piece of the puzzle he needs to be completely happy. And he found it in me.<\/p>\n<p>I want you to know I didn\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/accept-second-one\/\">vuole essere il SECONDO.<\/a>&nbsp;I wanted to be the one and only but life didn&#8217;t give me that opportunity. So, I accept every invitation to be someone&#8217;s first choice even for one night. Because being the second one hurts me a lot.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Voglio che tu sappia che anch'io provo dei sentimenti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I am not a cold-blooded bitch like you think. I felt frustrated when he couldn\u2019t come because you were having your friends over. I was upset every time he canceled our meeting because the two of you had an emergency.<\/p>\n<p>Poi mi toglievo la biancheria di pizzo e spegnevo le candele. Facevo tutto questo in silenzio.<\/p>\n<p>In those moments, I became aware of the fact that I am the second one. Probably, I will always be in that position because I don\u2019t know how to be monogamous. It is in my genes and I can\u2019t do anything about it. A leopard can\u2019t change its spots.<\/p>\n<p>I am trying to fall in love with one man only but after some time I realize he is not the one I need. I start hating him for the things he does and the ones he doesn&#8217;t do as well. And I can&#8217;t get away of that circle because I am not doing anything to escape.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2986 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/joao-silas-84805.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che si abbraccia nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/joao-silas-84805.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/joao-silas-84805-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/joao-silas-84805-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/joao-silas-84805-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/joao-silas-84805-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mi piacerebbe cambiare e spero di riuscirci un giorno. Ma fino ad allora probabilmente andr\u00f2 a letto con ogni uomo che mi presta attenzione. \u00c8 triste, vero?<\/p>\n<p>Sai, il tuo uomo non \u00e8 stato l'unico a tradire la moglie con me. Molti uomini hanno attraversato la mia vita e tutti se ne sono andati con cicatrici emotive.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly speaking, I don\u2019t know why guys cheat.<\/p>\n<p>Non si tratta di macho che saltano da un letto all'altro, ma di mariti devoti e padri amorevoli. C'\u00e8 qualche ragione, a me sconosciuta, che li spinge a vendere il loro vero amore per un'avventura di una notte.<\/p>\n<p>But no matter how exciting it is to be a forbidden fruit, in the end, I get sick and tired of being the second one. Because every man in the end, chooses his wife, the mother of his kids and I always stay alone. They don&#8217;t care about my feelings and my needs since they were with me just to please theirs.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, voglio che tu sappia una cosa: se mai dovessi scoprire che ti ha tradito, per favore trattalo nello stesso modo in cui lui ha trattato te. Sar\u00e0 il suo campanello d'allarme e si render\u00e0 conto del tesoro che ha perso solo perch\u00e9 pensava con il pisello invece che con la testa.<\/p>\n<p>E io?<\/p>\n<p>Superer\u00f2 tutto questo da sola. Sono abbastanza forte da sopportare tutto il dolore e le lacrime dopo che mi avr\u00e0 lasciato per andare a confortarti. Non \u00e8 la mia prima volta e mi sono gi\u00e0 abituata a questi schiaffi che la vita mi d\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Trover\u00f2 un modo per uscire da questo inferno. E le cose andranno meglio per me.<br \/>\nThey have to be\u2026<\/p>\n<p>L'infranto<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I never wanted to take him away from you. He came to me, all broken and tired, asking for some love. So, I gave him a shelter in my heart and my bed. I made all his bad dreams go away. He was so happy when he was with me but I saw in his&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":2985,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2984","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/kiss-2277803_1920.jpg",800,556,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2984","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2984"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2984\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2984"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2984"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2984"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}