{"id":29848,"date":"2018-12-12T09:47:27","date_gmt":"2018-12-12T09:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29848"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:02:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:02:46","slug":"che-si-fotta-perche-gli-piaci-ma-non-abbastanza-da-impegnarsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/che-si-fotta-perche-gli-piaci-ma-non-abbastanza-da-impegnarsi\/","title":{"rendered":"Che si fotta perch\u00e9 gli piaci, ma non abbastanza da impegnarti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you\u2019re <\/span>in amore<\/span><\/a> or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no room for anything in between.<\/span><\/p>\n

But what happens when the one you\u2019re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn\u2019t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but he doesn\u2019t want a relationship? Why would he show interest and then bail on you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Capisco la tua frustrazione. Pu\u00f2 essere cos\u00ec confuso quando qualcuno \u00e8 cos\u00ec attento nei tuoi confronti, ti fa sentire cos\u00ec amata e poi si tira indietro e ti fa da fantasma per un po'. Pu\u00f2 essere cos\u00ec impegnativo cercare di decifrare cosa possa possedere un uomo per comportarsi in modo cos\u00ec crudele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Regardless of how much it kills you not knowing and trying to get to the bottom of his behavior, don\u2019t waste your precious time and nerves on figuring out somebody who clearly has no idea <\/b>cosa vuole<\/b><\/a> and cannot appreciate a good thing, even when it\u2019s standing right in front of him.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you want the honest truth, here it is. Yeah, he likes you \u2013 just not enough to commit to you. And screw him for that!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ecco perch\u00e9 torna sempre strisciando da te dopo la rottura. Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 evidente che ama la vostra compagnia, ma non abbastanza da farne un impegno permanente.<\/span><\/p>\n

F*ck anyone who treats you like you\u2019re not enough!<\/b><\/p>\n

Che vada a farsi fottere per aver trascorso un weekend fantastico con te e poi essersi rifiutato di rispondere alle tue chiamate per tutta la settimana successiva.<\/span><\/p>\n

Che si fotta per averti detto quanto sei fantastica e poi averti tirato per le lunghe per settimane.<\/span><\/p>\n

Che vada a farsi fottere per aver mandato un messaggio notturno in cui dice che gli manchi tanto, ma si rifiuta di dare un'etichetta alla vostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Che vada a farsi fottere per aver fatto zero sforzi, dopo averti assicurato di voler stare con te, <\/span>ma questa volta per davvero<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve experienced enough lies and tricks from him to expect nothing more than empty words substantiated by occasional professions of affection, which usually translates to sex and a few scattered texts.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re better than <\/b>una visita di cortesia<\/b><\/a>Ricordate che, a prescindere da quanto sia bravo come amante o da quanto riesca a convincervi a perdonarlo per la miliardesima volta. Quando \u00e8 troppo \u00e8 troppo. Fanculo.<\/b><\/p>\n

The most important thing here is to know better than to take it personally. You should know by now that it most definitely isn\u2019t you. It\u2019s him. It\u2019s not your fault that he can\u2019t appreciate you for the amazing woman that you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

Never change who you are for someone who won\u2019t know how to appreciate you either way. Never change how you see yourself due to somebody not being able to see you in your full glory. And never let someone diminish your worth by treating you like you\u2019re only what he makes of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re hurting right now. But the reason for that is not because you\u2019re losing the guy who\u2019s right for you because he\u2019s not.<\/span><\/p>\n

The reason you\u2019re hurting is because your ego has been rocked by his inconsistent pattern of behavior. Don\u2019t let that faze you too much. He\u2019s not important enough to shatter your self-confidence.<\/b><\/p>\n

This sucks, sure. But you can\u2019t force people into feeling things that aren\u2019t there. As brutal as it is to hear this, it\u2019s true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che potete fare \u00e8 apprezzare coloro che conoscono il vostro valore e lasciare andare chi vi fa sentire meno di loro.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re a smart, badass, sexy specimen of a human being. And no temporary man can prove you otherwise. Let that f*cker go, and make yourself available for when the right guy comes along.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Che<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you\u2019re in love or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no room for anything in between. But what happens when the one you\u2019re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn\u2019t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29849,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/jonas-svidras-1215372-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29849"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}