{"id":29980,"date":"2020-05-14T10:37:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T10:37:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29980"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:58:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:58:40","slug":"8-passi-per-passare-da-amanti-ad-amici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-passi-per-passare-da-amanti-ad-amici\/","title":{"rendered":"8 passi per passare da innamorati ad amici"},"content":{"rendered":"

Diventare amici di una persona di cui si era innamorati \u00e8 estremamente difficile e non tutti sono in grado di riuscirci.<\/p>\n

Anche se volete essere amici con tutto il cuore, ci saranno sempre delle barriere da superare per riuscire a passare da amanti ad amici.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sure that you\u2019re ready to become friends with the guy you once loved, here are 8 steps that will help you in achieving it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t skip any of it because every single step is equally important if you want to build a true, unbreakable friendship.<\/p>\n

Double check that you don\u2019t have feelings for him<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Chiedetevi se provate ancora qualcosa per lui e se \u00e8 saggio iniziare a lavorare per diventare amici.<\/p>\n

Se avete qualche sospetto sui vostri sentimenti per lui, scartate l'idea di costruire un'amicizia con lui.<\/p>\n

Dovete essere completamente liberi dai sentimenti che provavate prima per lui.<\/p>\n

Only then will you be able to accomplish the transition from lovers to friends. Once you\u2019ve checked this, you can proceed to a step two.<\/p>\n

Prendetevi il tempo necessario<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t rush things. Even if you\u2019re sure that you don\u2019t have any feelings attached to him, this doesn\u2019t mean that you immediately ready to engage in any types of friendship activities with him.<\/p>\n

Datevi un po' di tempo per poter ricominciare da zero. Entrambi avete bisogno di un po' di tempo da soli per capire cosa \u00e8 successo e per superare i sentimenti non digeriti.<\/p>\n

Dovete imparare a essere di nuovo liberi per iniziare a diventare amici dopo gli amanti.<\/p>\n

Impostare le regole<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quando arriva il momento giusto, la prima cosa da fare \u00e8 stabilire delle regole. Dovete farlo insieme a lui perch\u00e9 entrambi dovete rispettarle.<\/p>\n

These can be rules regarding do\u2019s and don\u2019t and if someone fails at respecting it, you can think of some kind of a punishment that will prevent you from failing again.<\/p>\n

Quando si hanno dei limiti precisi, sar\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 facile affrontare tutto e non ci si dovr\u00e0 chiedere se \u00e8 il caso di dire qualcosa o meno.<\/p>\n

Saprete esattamente cosa ci si aspetta da entrambi e, se vi atterrete, diventerete amici in men che non si dica.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think of hooking up again<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, please don\u2019t even think of rimettersi con lui<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a real recipe for a catastrophe. Don\u2019t let your impulse rule your mind if you want to nourish a true friendship with someone you once loved.<\/p>\n

Lasciare andare gli eventi passati<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi di sbarazzarvi di tutti gli eventi passati della vostra relazione passata.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want your past to pop out every time you do something similar with him. If you\u2019re still living in the past, it will be really hard to focus on the present.<\/p>\n

Tutto vi ricorder\u00e0 quello che avevate un tempo e quando questo accade, la nostalgia \u00e8 inevitabile.<\/p>\n

And, nostalgia makes us do things we normally wouldn\u2019t consider doing.<\/p>\n

Azzerare le aspettative<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Another thing that you need to do is to reset your expectations. Don\u2019t stick to the same expectations you once had in your relationship because now it\u2019s a different story.<\/p>\n

You cannot be mad because he didn\u2019t reply to your text immediately because you are no longer in a relationship with him. If you want to be friends then you need act like that.<\/p>\n

You cannot blame him for some things that you\u2019ve blamed him for in the relationship as well.<\/p>\n

If you do, you\u2019ll destroy every single potential for becoming friends with him.<\/p>\n

Ricordate di essere disinvolti<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Always keep your hanging out as casual as possible. Don\u2019t go to some romantic places like you used to do when you were in a relationship.<\/p>\n

The best choice is to hang out in groups for a start because that way you\u2019ll avoid any possible awkward moments.<\/p>\n

Keeping it casual means behaving casual and enjoying each other\u2019s company. It means enjoying his company on a whole different level \u2013 friendship level.<\/p>\n

And once you master it, you\u2019ll most surely succeed in making the transition from lover to friends.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t pay attention to other people\u2019s opinions<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Dal momento in cui si decide di diventare amico del tuo ex<\/a>Dovete sapere che gli altri vi porranno delle domande, molte domande.<\/p>\n

E dovete essere pronti a ignorare tutto questo se volete rimanere fedeli a voi stessi e ai vostri desideri.<\/p>\n

\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Becoming friends with someone you were once in love is extremely hard and not everyone is capable of achieving it. Even if you want to be friends with all of your heart, there will always be some barriers that you need to overcome in order to succeed in making the transition from lovers to friends….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":94670,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/8-Steps-To-Make-The-Transition-From-Lovers-To-Friends.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29980"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29980\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}