{"id":29996,"date":"2018-12-14T13:01:44","date_gmt":"2018-12-14T13:01:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29996"},"modified":"2022-02-23T11:16:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T11:16:41","slug":"come-credere-di-nuovo-nel-vero-amore-quando-si-e-stati-feriti-troppe-volte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-credere-di-nuovo-nel-vero-amore-quando-si-e-stati-feriti-troppe-volte\/","title":{"rendered":"Come credere di nuovo nel vero amore quando si \u00e8 stati feriti troppe volte"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s hard to believe in true love when all you have experienced was small loves devoid of real trust and respect for each other. It\u2019s hard to believe in amore vero<\/a> quando il cuore \u00e8 stato spezzato troppe volte.<\/p>\n

But, if we change our perspective on this, we will see that it is still there, waiting for you to discover it. Don\u2019t think that true love has vanished with your one, two or three mistakes. No. It\u2019s all in your mind.<\/p>\n

Se si sceglie di credere che il vero amore sia ancora qui<\/a> da qualche parte, lo sar\u00e0. Ma se scegliete di credere diversamente, sar\u00e0 difficile convincere il vostro cuore che non tutte le speranze sono perse.<\/p>\n

In order to start believing in the power of true love again, you need to change your perspective on how you\u2019re seeing things around you, and this is how you\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n

1. Comprendere il proprio passato<\/h2>\n

In order to start believing in the beauty of true love again, you need to think of your past and find those things and moments that hurt you. I know it\u2019s hard to go through all of this again, but you need to understand your past so that you can free your mind of any burden from your past.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re constantly thinking of the things that hurt you before, you will be unable to open your heart for true love to enter. Negative thoughts are extremely powerful and you should be careful about what you\u2019re letting to enter your mind.<\/p>\n

2. Credete di meritare di essere amati in modo disinteressato e di essere trattati come regine\/re.<\/h2>\n

Un'altra cosa da fare \u00e8 ricordare a se stessi che siete degni di amore<\/a>. Your past mistakes don\u2019t determine your will or who you really are. You deserve to be loved passionately and to be treated with appreciation and respect.<\/p>\n

You should never think differently because if you believe that you deserve to experience true love, then your heart will believe it, too. If someone has treated you poorly, this doesn\u2019t mean that every single one is going to do the same to you.<\/p>\n

No. Getting hurt happens to everyone and that is not the reason to stop believing in the things you used to believe before. That is not the reason to close your heart and think that you\u2019re not worthy of experiencing the blessings of true love.<\/p>\n

3. Riconoscere l'amore in tutto ci\u00f2 che si fa<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re unable to recognize love in everything you do, it will be hard for you to get the feeling of true love. There are many types of love and if you pay attention more closely, you will see it yourself.<\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 guardare i vostri programmi televisivi preferiti, \u00e8 cucinare il vostro cibo preferito, \u00e8 nutrire e coccolare il vostro animale domestico, \u00e8 fare cose che vi rendono felici. Una volta riconosciuti tutti questi piccoli amori, sarete a un passo da quello grande.<\/p>\n

If you start believing in the love that is visible, that surrounds you and follows you whatever you\u2019re doing, you will start believing in the love that is not here, yet. But, one day it will be. Just don\u2019t close yourself and dwell in the negativity of your thoughts because that is the main destructor of believing.<\/p>\n

4. Change your perspective (don\u2019t think that no one will ever love you)<\/h2>\n

If you keep repeating to yourself that no one will ever love you and that you will never experience this grand love everyone is talking about, the chances are that you won\u2019t. But, only because you believe it is so.<\/p>\n

Love yourself and true love will find you. Don\u2019t be so cruel on yourself because everything you think about yourself will reflect in your reality. Change your perspective on love. Don\u2019t see love as something unattainable because it is not.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t be afraid to open yourself to someone new<\/h2>\n

I understand that you\u2019ve been hurt before and now it\u2019s really hard for you to open yourself to someone new. Or if you succeed in it, the chances are that you\u2019re going to pull away after some time because you\u2019re afraid of getting hurt again. And that\u2019s completely understandable.<\/p>\n

But, you need to know that you\u2019ll never have a chance of believing in true love, let alone experiencing it if you keep being close to new things and new people. Always be opened because love is all about giving chances, respecting, adapting, compromising and believing in each other.<\/p>\n

So, even if it seems that the person you\u2019re seeing is probably not the love of your life, you cannot make conclusions too early because you\u2019ll ruin every single chance of believing in love again and believing that you\u2019ve found your potential true love.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s hard to believe in true love when all you have experienced was small loves devoid of real trust and respect for each other. It\u2019s hard to believe in true love again when your heart has been broken too many times. But, if we change our perspective on this, we will see that it is…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":29997,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/StockSnap_YEEUJSIGVP.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29996"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29996\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29997"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}