{"id":30106,"date":"2018-12-15T19:01:36","date_gmt":"2018-12-15T19:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30106"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:03:30","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:03:30","slug":"alluomo-che-non-era-quello-giusto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alluomo-che-non-era-quello-giusto\/","title":{"rendered":"All'uomo che non era quello giusto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ricordi la ragazza che ero prima che tu entrassi nella mia vita? La ragazza che ero prima di te mi ha distrutto<\/span><\/a>?<\/p>\n

Ricordate come credevo nell'amore? Come lo vedevo come una forza onnipotente in grado di sconfiggere tutto ci\u00f2 che lo ostacolava e che non poteva mai essere conquistato, solo se era abbastanza forte?<\/p>\n

E soprattutto, ricordi come pensavo che tu fossi l'uomo con cui avrei avuto quel tipo di amore? L'uomo che era destinato a essere mio?<\/p>\n

Ricordi come pensavo che fossimo anime gemelle e che quello che c'era tra noi fosse una cosa unica nella vita? Ricordi come ero convinto che tu fossi quello giusto per me?<\/p>\n

Well, guess what? After a lot of time and even more tears, I realized that you weren\u2019t. I realized that you were never my forever person and that we were never meant to be.<\/p>\n

For a while, even after you abandoned me, I really thought that I\u2019d lost the love of my life. And I think that hurt more than the fact that you left.<\/p>\n

Yes, I missed you but I was devastated by the thought that I would never find someone like you. By the thought that I\u2019d lost my other half and that I would never love someone the way I loved you.<\/p>\n

Once I realized that you were really gone for good, I was convinced that I\u2019d lost the love of my life when I lost you. Despite all the pain you put me through, I still held on to the beautiful memories.<\/p>\n

And I was still convinced that you were the best thing that could have ever happened to me. That I\u2019d missed out on my chance of being happy and that I would spend the rest of my life miserable, crying over you and lamenting our relationship.<\/p>\n

But then it hit me\u2014you are not the one. And you never were.<\/p>\n

Because if you were the one, you would\u2019ve never walked away from me, when I needed you the most. You would\u2019ve never left me and you would\u2019ve never broken my heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se tu fossi stato quello giusto, saresti rimasto al mio fianco in tutti i giorni difficili, in tutte le tempeste e in tutti i momenti difficili, proprio come avevi promesso. Invece, ti sei tirato indietro e mi hai lasciata sola.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"All'uomo<\/p>\n

Quindi, no, non sei mai stata quella giusta per me. Invece, non sei stato altro che una preziosa e dura lezione che ovviamente ho dovuto imparare.<\/p>\n

Because if it wasn\u2019t for you, I wouldn\u2019t know that I could make it on my own. I wouldn\u2019t know how powerful and strong I actually am and I wouldn\u2019t know how much I can actually take.<\/p>\n

If it wasn\u2019t for you, I wouldn\u2019t have realized that love shouldn\u2019t hurt. That una persona che ti ama non ti far\u00e0 mai del male<\/span><\/a> e non vi spezzer\u00e0 mai il cuore.<\/p>\n

I wouldn\u2019t have found out that people can spend years next to you, hiding their true colors. That a man can swear he loves you one day and then crush you to pieces the very next.<\/p>\n

If it wasn\u2019t for everything you did to me, I wouldn\u2019t have known how forgiving I actually am. I wouldn\u2019t know the importance of letting go and I wouldn\u2019t have learned how to move on with my life after someone turns it into a living hell.<\/p>\n

If it wasn\u2019t for you, I wouldn\u2019t have known that I won\u2019t stay broken. That I can always rimettermi in sesto<\/a> and that I don\u2019t need anyone to help me do that.<\/b><\/p>\n

I wouldn\u2019t have known that I am a complete person without anyone else and that I don\u2019t need a man to give my life meaning. I would never have put myself first and I would have never grown to love myself the way I did.<\/b><\/p>\n

If it wasn\u2019t for you, I wouldn\u2019t have known that there exists a better man than you, who will love me the way I deserve. I would\u2019ve never opened my heart to true love because I would have always remained convinced that your way of loving was the best and the only one that existed. And I would spend the rest of my life accontentarsi di meno<\/span><\/a>senza nemmeno saperlo.<\/p>\n

So, thank you for not being the one. And most of all\u2014thank you for showing me this in time.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"All'uomo <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Remember the girl I was before you came into my life? The girl I was before you destroyed me? Remember how I believed in love? How I thought of it as this omnipotent force which could defeat everything that stood in its way and which could never be conquered, only if it was strong enough?…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":30107,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30106","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/anika-huizinga-624632-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30106","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30106"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30106\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30107"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30106"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30106"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30106"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}