{"id":30110,"date":"2020-11-15T19:14:35","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T19:14:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30110"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:32:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:32:10","slug":"se-la-ami-davvero-non-distruggerla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-la-ami-davvero-non-distruggerla\/","title":{"rendered":"Se la ami davvero, non distruggerla"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando una donna <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ecco-come-ci-si-apre-allamore-dopo-essere-stati-danneggiati-emotivamente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">apre il suo cuore all'amore<\/a> grazie a voi, sta uscendo dalla sua zona di comfort.<\/p>\n<p>Ignora tutte le sue paure e insicurezze e decide di fidarsi di voi, a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\n<p>She tears down the walls around her heart which she\u2019s been building for years and she lets you in all the way, even though she promised not to do that ever again.<\/p>\n<p>She decides to put her faith in you and to believe that you won\u2019t do her any harm.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando una donna ti ama, per quanto sia forte e autosufficiente, ti sta anche dando molto potere su se stessa. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ti sta dando tutta se stessa e con questo ti sta dando la possibilit\u00e0 di spezzare il suo cuore. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I<\/b><b>In un certo senso, ti sta dando l'opportunit\u00e0 di ferirla e di rovinarla.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118825\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"donna d&#039;affari che guarda lontano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>And it is just up to you if you\u2019ll take that chance.<\/b> It is up to you if you\u2019ll use her and take advantage of the fact that she is wearing her heart on her sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>Sta a voi decidere se amerete davvero questa donna. <b>But just remember one thing\u2014you don\u2019t destroy the ones you love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, per favore, <b>don\u2019t break her heart if you love her.<\/b> Because she\u2019s been through something like that in the past and she couldn\u2019t stand having another heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t make her beg for your attention.<\/b> Se la amate, dimostratele la profondit\u00e0 del vostro amore.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make her feel unloved or unwanted. Don\u2019t ruin her confidence and don\u2019t ever compare her to other girls.<\/p>\n<p>Se la amate, trattatela come se fosse l'unica donna con cui potreste stare.<\/p>\n<p>Dimostratele che vedete quanto sia unica e speciale e che siete orgogliosi di avere accanto a voi una donna cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118827\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna che beve un caff\u00e8 vicino alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat her like your last resort because she will always put you first. This girl ought to be your priority and the last thing she deserves is to be treated like a second choice.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t make her feel like your last resort or safety net.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t expect her to deal with your emotional baggage.<\/b> Don\u2019t expect her to be your personal savior and the one who will fix you, while you break her.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat her like a rebound relationship because she is much more than that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t treat her like <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-sprecare-il-suo-tempo-se-stai-cercando-qualcosa-di-temporaneo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>qualcosa di temporaneo<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> Quando questa ragazza fa entrare qualcuno, vuole che duri per tutta la vita.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t looking for just a good time and she isn\u2019t looking for meaningless relationships. Instead, she wants you to love all of her.<\/p>\n<p>She wants you to be her partner in every sense of that word and if this is something you can\u2019t offer her, please walk away in time, before you enter her heart completely.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118828\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"silhouette di donna che guarda il sole sulla spiaggia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t play games with her<\/b> perch\u00e9 lei capir\u00e0 subito le vostre intenzioni.<\/p>\n<p>No, she won\u2019t think of you as the bigger man if you pretend to be this tough guy who is incapable of loving because that will only chase her away.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to send her mixed signals because she doesn\u2019t have the time or the energy to waste on decoding you and your actions. Just be honest with her.<\/p>\n<p>There is no need for you to hold back your emotions or to hide your vulnerable side because I promise you that she\u2019ll never use them against you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t allow her to be <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ho-fatto-un-tentativo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>l'unico che ci prova<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> If you love her, make her feel that love. Show her that you care because it is the only way she\u2019ll believe you.<\/p>\n<p>This girl won\u2019t justify you for not treating her right because she knows that your love is shown through your efforts around her.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t make her chase you.<\/b> Because she never will. And it doesn\u2019t have anything to do with the fact that she doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118829\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna bionda che guarda lontano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vedete, questa ragazza conosce il suo valore e non permetterebbe mai a qualcuno di umiliarla facendola implorare per il suo amore.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t try to control her and don\u2019t try to manipulate her<\/b> because she knows who she is and she knows she doesn\u2019t need you, even though she loves you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s worked hard to become the woman she is today and she won\u2019t let anyone change her.<\/p>\n<p>E soprattutto, <b>if you love her, don\u2019t ever let her go.<\/b> Because trust me\u2014this is the girl you find once in a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>A girl like no other and a girl you\u2019ll be searching for in every other woman, if you happen to lose her.<\/p>\n<p>So please, do your best to keep her around. Because if you do, she\u2019ll show you what it means to be loved and she\u2019ll show you that she is worth it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118824\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se la ami davvero, non distruggerla\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><br \/>\n<!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a woman opens her heart to love because of you, she is stepping out of her comfort zone. She is ignoring all of her fears and insecurities and she decides to trust you, no matter what. She tears down the walls around her heart which she\u2019s been building for years and she lets you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":118826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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