{"id":30122,"date":"2018-12-15T19:51:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-15T19:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30122"},"modified":"2022-02-14T23:37:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T23:37:46","slug":"le-ragazze-piu-forti-hanno-padri-di-merda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-ragazze-piu-forti-hanno-padri-di-merda\/","title":{"rendered":"Le ragazze pi\u00f9 forti hanno padri di merda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si viene cresciuti da un padre di merda, si impara a prendersi cura di se stessi.<\/i><\/b> You don’t wait for people to help you to solve your problems but you do that on your own.<\/p>\n

And you don’t do that because you want to but because you have to. Because no matter whether you want to or not, there is nobody around to protect you and to take care of you. You need to do it all by yourself.<\/p>\n

Quando si \u00e8 cresciuti da un <\/i><\/b>padre di merda<\/i><\/b>, <\/i><\/b><\/a>si smette di credere nell'amore.<\/i><\/b> You don\u2019t think anyone could love you since the closest member of your family didn\u2019t love you. He didn\u2019t fight for you.<\/p>\n

He was never there for you, to tell you how proud he is for everything that you accomplished. So you don\u2019t understand how someone else, a total stranger, could embrace you and love you to infinity just the way you are.<\/p>\n

Quando si viene cresciuti da un padre di merda, si impara a porre dei limiti. <\/i><\/b>Non sopporterete le stronzate delle persone che vi circondano, anche se hanno solo una brutta giornata.<\/p>\n

You will cut off every problem with people as soon as they pop up and even if you will sometimes be rough with them, you won\u2019t feel bad about it.<\/p>\n

Because that is the only way you can function. That is your defense mechanism and you don\u2019t know any better. That is the real you.<\/p>\n

Quando si viene cresciuti da un padre di merda, si sente la mancanza dell'amore per tutta la vita.<\/i><\/b> E non importa quante persone vengano a darti tutto quello che hanno, ci sar\u00e0 sempre un buco nel tuo cuore, in attesa che qualcuno di speciale venga a riempirlo.<\/p>\n

There will be a void but unfortunately it will never be completely filled. You will always miss your father\u2019s love and affection and you will carry that sorrow with you tutta la vita<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

When you are raised by a shitty father, you will be convinced that you don\u2019t deserve love.<\/i><\/b> Because if your father couldn\u2019t love you, then something is wrong with you.<\/p>\n

And you will have low self-esteem your entire life, thinking it was all your fault. You will believe you are a failure and that because of this, even your father couldn\u2019t accept you the way you are.<\/p>\n

Quando si viene cresciuti da un padre di merda, si ha una visione diversa della vita.<\/i><\/b> Vedete le cose come sono e non come vorreste che fossero.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t daydream but you stick to what you can do with your own two hands. You never ask for help from anyone and you learn to stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n

Quando si viene cresciuti da un padre di merda, si impara a essere forti e indipendenti.<\/i><\/b> You don\u2019t ask for anyone\u2019s help and you handle your problems by yourself.<\/p>\n

You are your own best friend because you struggle to trust people. You don\u2019t want anyone you have to rely on because you do that for yourself the best. You are your own rock and you don\u2019t need anyone to save you.<\/p>\n

Quando si viene cresciuti da un padre di merda, si impara che la vita non \u00e8 facile.<\/i><\/b> Per questo motivo, decidete di essere il pi\u00f9 forte possibile. Ottenete tutto ci\u00f2 che volete in modo equo e non implorate mai nessuno di aiutarvi.<\/p>\n

Ti circondi di persone positive perch\u00e9 un uomo tossico \u00e8 stato sufficiente per tutta la tua vita.<\/p>\n

Quando si viene cresciuti da un padre di merda, si cerca in tutti i modi di essere il pi\u00f9 possibile diversi da lui.<\/i><\/b> You even change the way you take a drink just so someone won\u2019t say you are like your dad. You change from the root, with all your power, so people won\u2019t see how much alike you are.<\/p>\n

Quando hai un padre di merda, fai di tutto per essere la versione migliore di te stesso. Non perch\u00e9 lo vuoi, ma perch\u00e9 desideri che i tuoi figli non debbano mai passare quello che hai passato tu.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be anything similar to the one who created you and abandoned you. You want to be more than that.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be someone your kids would be ashamed of but rather a person they will be proud of.<\/p>\n

Christine is the author of \u2018Guardare negli occhi l'ansia e la depressione<\/span><\/a>\u2019, a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.<\/p>\n

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