{"id":30189,"date":"2018-12-17T08:40:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-17T08:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30189"},"modified":"2022-01-21T11:49:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T11:49:11","slug":"una-lettera-sincera-alluomo-che-amo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-sincera-alluomo-che-amo\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera sincera all'uomo che amo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi \u00e8 mai capitato di incontrare qualcuno e di sentirvi immediatamente connessi, come se le scintille volassero dal vostro corpo al suo e lo facessero tremare?<\/p>\n<p>That little voice inside your head kept whispering silently: \u201cThis is fate. This place between his arms is where I\u2019ve always supposed to have been.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s just a part of everything I feel when I am with him. That\u2019s why <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-alluomo-che-dio-mi-ha-promesso\/\">questa lettera \u00e8 indirizzata all'uomo che amo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Stavo per addormentarmi quando tutte queste emozioni mi hanno assalito e ho dovuto iniziare a scrivere. Ci sono cos\u00ec tante cose che voglio farvi sapere e che non ho mai avuto l'occasione di dire, quindi penso che sia giunto il momento di farlo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Per cominciare, voglio ringraziarti per avermi insegnato cos'\u00e8 il vero amore. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>All I felt for some other people before you doesn\u2019t even come close to what I feel for you now. Your presence in my life, your way of loving me, overshadowed all <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-cose-accadono-incontri-bravo-ragazzo-relazione-tossica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">quei periodi di tossicit\u00e0<\/span><\/a> of my life. Now they are just a memory that&#8217;s slowly fading away.<\/p>\n<p>You showed me that love doesn\u2019t have to be pushed, pulled and forced. It flows effortlessly when two people are on the same page. I wish I had realized that sooner. I would&#8217;ve spared myself a lot of heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p><b>Voglio che tu sappia che sono diventato la versione migliore di me stesso perch\u00e9 sono stato amato da te.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30199 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Voglio che tu sappia che sono diventato la versione migliore di me stesso perch\u00e9 sono stato amato da te.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because I was loved the right way to be more precise. You were the one who believed in me even when I wasn\u2019t able to do that myself. You turned my \u2018can\u2019ts\u2019 into \u2018cans\u2019. You are my inspiration.<\/p>\n<p>I am excelling at my job. I am earning more money, and I\u2019m planning on buying myself a car. I am learning new things. I am traveling and exploring the world close to me as well as parts which are a bit further away.<\/p>\n<p>Ho una vita sociale migliore e i miei amici e la mia famiglia vedono tutti i cambiamenti positivi che questa relazione mi ha portato. Anche loro sono grati perch\u00e9 sto con te e ti amano perch\u00e9 mi rendi felice.<\/p>\n<p>Non sono pi\u00f9 distratta dai miei obiettivi da qualcuno che semina insicurezze nel mio cuore e mi frena.<\/p>\n<p>Ora ho al mio fianco un uomo fiducioso e amante di se stesso che vuole vedermi prosperare, e sono cos\u00ec grata per questo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tears come rolling down my face sometimes, but don\u2019t worry. They are tears of joy because now I see that everything in my life was just a path to you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Penso che tutto doveva andare in questo modo. Ho dovuto passare attraverso tutto quello strazio e quel dolore per poter apprezzare tutta l'armonia e la felicit\u00e0 che ho ora.<\/p>\n<p>I was broken and bent more times than I can remember. And I am not just the love wrecks I survived. Life was so cruel and unfair to me at times that I thought that I wouldn\u2019t make it out alive.<\/p>\n<p>Ma l'ho fatto. Mi alzavo dal letto la mattina, indipendentemente da come mi sentivo. Sono andata avanti con tutte le mie forze perch\u00e9 sapevo, nel profondo, che alla fine di questa strada sarei stata ricompensata con l'amore.<\/p>\n<p><b>Grazie per essere una persona con cui posso davvero parlare. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Forse vi sembrer\u00e0 stupido e direte che sono pazza a ringraziarvi per una cosa cos\u00ec semplice, ma per me significa davvero molto.<\/p>\n<p>Mi piace il fatto di potermi rivolgere a te per qualsiasi cosa. Che posso parlare con te dei miei progetti per il futuro, dei miei sogni e dei miei problemi. Sono grata perch\u00e9 anche tu condividi i tuoi con me.<\/p>\n<p>My day lights up when you send a text asking how my day went. It\u2019s one of those little things that bring the greatest joy.<\/p>\n<p><b>Grazie per aver sopportato i miei piccoli drammi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30200 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Grazie per aver sopportato i miei piccoli drammi.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know I have those. I know I have moments when I snap at you for no reason or because you said something I didn\u2019t want to hear at that moment.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not your fault, and you can\u2019t read my mind. I know I can be a handful at times, but you are managing more than fine. You have your ways to calm me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Grazie per non averci permesso di andare a letto arrabbiati. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando litighiamo, facciamo del nostro meglio per fare pace. Certo, potremmo aver bisogno di qualche ora per raffreddare la testa e vedere le cose da una prospettiva diversa, ma riusciamo sempre a trovare una soluzione.<\/p>\n<p>Scendiamo a compromessi. Ci incontriamo a met\u00e0 strada perch\u00e9 mettiamo sempre il nostro amore davanti ai nostri problemi.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s never about who wins or loses the argument. We know that if we don\u2019t find the solution, we will both end up being the losers.<\/p>\n<p>I love that you apologize when you realize that you\u2019ve done something wrong. I love that you don\u2019t place the blame on me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Adoro quei momenti in cui ci svegliamo e siamo ancora mezzi addormentati, e tu ti avvicini a me solo per tirarmi pi\u00f9 vicino e <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ecco-cosa-significa-quando-un-ragazzo-ti-bacia-il-collo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>baciami il collo<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mi piace che l'affetto ti venga cos\u00ec naturale. Non devo mai chiedere un bacio o un abbraccio perch\u00e9 tu me ne dai in abbondanza.<\/p>\n<p>Ho a cuore ogni momento che trascorriamo insieme. Tutto ci\u00f2 che ad altri potrebbe sembrare insignificante, per me \u00e8 cos\u00ec speciale.<\/p>\n<p>I love when we watch movies together and how we comment on things. I love when you tickle me even though I am pretending I\u2019m upset, and I\u2019m begging you to stop. I love when you tuck me in. I love the way you are.<\/p>\n<p><b>Con te tutto sembra giusto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30202 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Con te tutto sembra giusto.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I guess that\u2019s what happens when you find yourself in a healthy and loving relationship. It all seems so natural and effortless.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because we both want each other. We both want this to work, and we are ready to do anything for it. It\u2019s because we both care deeply for one another. It\u2019s because we are on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>I guess that\u2019s what happens when love is true. You feel that you\u2019ve ended up where you\u2019re always supposed to have been. You find your home in one person that God sent to this planet just to find you.<\/p>\n<p><b>E ti sei preso il tuo tempo per trovarmi. Ti ho aspettato a lungo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E sai una cosa? Devo ammettere che \u00e8 valsa la pena aspettare e che alla fine sei arrivato proprio quando dovevi. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I always rolled my eyes when people would say: \u201cThe right one will come when you least expect him.\u201d I know now that they were right. But I have to be honest. I would have preferred if you had hurried up and come a bit sooner.<\/p>\n<p>Ma ora sei qui e niente di tutto questo ha importanza. Forse il tuo tempismo era giusto perch\u00e9 ero pi\u00f9 forte quando ti ho incontrato. Avevo imparato a volermi bene. Ero soddisfatta della mia vita e stavo per fare qualcosa.<\/p>\n<p>Hai solo aggiunto alla mia vita. Hai aggiunto alla mia felicit\u00e0. Hai aggiunto alla mia felicit\u00e0 e l'hai resa pi\u00f9 grande.<\/p>\n<p>I really am grateful for you, for us and for the chance to feel this way. Thank you for being your incredible self, and please, don\u2019t ever change. You are everything I ever wanted in life and more.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><em>To the man I love\u2026.<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>&#8230; with all my love. <\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>L.<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30195 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Una lettera sincera all&#039;uomo che amo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever met someone and felt instantly connected, like sparks were flying from your body to theirs and made it tremble? That little voice inside your head kept whispering silently: \u201cThis is fate. This place between his arms is where I\u2019ve always supposed to have been.\u201d Well, that\u2019s just a part of everything I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":30193,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-beverage-black-coffee-1410225.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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