{"id":30273,"date":"2018-12-17T20:30:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-17T20:30:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30273"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:39:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:39:53","slug":"la-verita-brutalmente-onesta-sul-perche-non-si-riesce-mai-a-conquistare-il-ragazzo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-verita-brutalmente-onesta-sul-perche-non-si-riesce-mai-a-conquistare-il-ragazzo\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 brutalmente onesta sul perch\u00e9 non riuscite mai a conquistare un ragazzo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi chiedete sempre perch\u00e9, in qualche modo, vi ritrovate sempre single. Ogni volta che incontrate un potenziale nuovo interesse amoroso, la fiamma si spegne prima ancora di aver avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di accendersi. Non riuscite mai a tenervi stretto un ragazzo abbastanza a lungo da poterlo definire il vostro fidanzato e accettate sempre qualsiasi scusa banale abbia per lasciarvi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anche quando si incontra un ragazzo con il quale si hanno molte cose in comune e le conversazioni sono incredibilmente stimolanti, la propria <\/span>chimica testuale<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 fuori scala e tu sei cos\u00ec sessualmente attratta da lui, ma sembra che non sia mai abbastanza per durare. Perch\u00e9, oh, perch\u00e9 va sempre a finire cos\u00ec?<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re baffled and annoyed! It\u2019s not like you\u2019re not a catch! You\u2019re good-looking, you\u2019re ambitious and you are not superficial. You have good values and you\u2019re kind to the people around you. So, what gives?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too serious.<\/b><\/p>\n

Think about it. You may still feel too young for marriage and kids but you\u2019re also too old for meaningless conversations and superficial values.<\/span><\/p>\n

At this point in your life, you\u2019re serious. Serious about your intentions with a significant other and serious about commitment. You no longer crave trivial chats through text but want a phone call from him asking how your day went.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want someone who\u2019s going to call you at 2 AM, drunk off his ass, screaming into your ear, very clearly wasted but rather a guy who\u2019s going to call at that ungodly hour to tell you he misses you and he can\u2019t wait to get home.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non cercate pi\u00f9 qualcosa di debole o vago, ora volete il vero affare. Un impegno. E i ragazzi lo percepiscono.<\/span><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, some men are intimidated as soon as they sense it and they\u2019re gone before you know it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Chiedete troppo.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have standards. You have needs. You no longer settle for anything half-assed. You are perfectly capable of dealing with their wants and needs but they can\u2019t seem to handle yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Chiedete il loro tempo. Sapete che \u00e8 importante passare del tempo insieme per poter crescere e legare come coppia. Chiedete interesse. Devono potervi chiedere della vostra giornata, senza che dobbiate ricordarglielo voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

You demand trust. You want to be able to trust them when they\u2019re off doing their thing, the same way they know they can trust you. But they can\u2019t seem to return the favor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Never feel bad about needing commitment from a guy. A real relationship has to check all those boxes. If it doesn\u2019t, keep searching. <\/span>Un bravo ragazzo<\/span><\/a> deve esistere da qualche parte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete essere la loro priorit\u00e0.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t ask for the moon and the stars. You don\u2019t ask for them to have eyes only for you. All you want and deserve is a guy who is never going to make you feel like you come second.<\/span><\/p>\n

He can still have his life. He can still hang out with his buddies. But you need to be high up on that priority list as well. You\u2019re not here to beg for anyone\u2019s attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some guys just can\u2019t deal with that. They feel like going off the radar for a few days without checking in is okay and then they make you the crazy one for asking why they didn\u2019t at least text that everything was all right.<\/span><\/p>\n

The right guy will always check on you. He will never make you feel crazy for needing a healthy amount of communication. So don\u2019t give up due to immature jerks. <\/span>Un vero uomo<\/span><\/a> vi trover\u00e0 quando smetterete di cercarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meaningless flings don\u2019t interest you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You want a real conversation. You want to be able to confide in him and seek solace in his arms. You don\u2019t need a boy who\u2019s just going to nod at whatever you say and then go play video games.<\/span><\/p>\n

Volete una relazione. Una relazione di coppia. E alcuni uomini vogliono semplicemente un corpo sexy per quando si sentono soli. Se continuate a imbattervi in questi uomini, iniziate a cercare altrove.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are guys out there capable of giving you what you need out of a relationship. Just because you keep running into immature assholes doesn\u2019t mean a relationship is not meant for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ognuno di noi ha un percorso da seguire e il vostro \u00e8 ancora in corso. Siate pazienti e aspettate un uomo che vi veda tutte e che conosca il vostro valore. Nient'altro vale il vostro tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

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