{"id":30307,"date":"2018-12-18T08:48:33","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T08:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30307"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:38:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:38:36","slug":"amor-fati-la-bellezza-di-accettare-cio-che-ci-viene-dato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amor-fati-la-bellezza-di-accettare-cio-che-ci-viene-dato\/","title":{"rendered":"Amor Fati: La bellezza di accettare ci\u00f2 che ci viene dato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per tutti coloro che non sanno cosa sia l'amor fati, cercher\u00f2 di dare una spiegazione semplice. \u00c8 semplicemente accettare tutto ci\u00f2 che vi accade durante la vita.<\/p>\n

It means that even when bad things happen, like losing a family member or going through some bad things in your business or love life, you calmly accept and embrace it all. It means knowing that you can\u2019t affect some things and that by accepting them, you bring the peace you need into your life.<\/p>\n

L'amor fati \u00e8 stato reso popolare dal filosofo tedesco Friedrich Nietzsche, i cui studi hanno avuto un enorme impatto sulla filosofia occidentale. Inoltre, questo termine \u00e8 stato spesso ripetuto nell'opera di Marco Aurelio, per cui \u00e8 conosciuto in tutto il mondo.<\/p>\n

But today, I would love to show you what happens when you finally accept all that is happening to you. I want you to know what happens when the universe\u2019s guiding force takes you to the places you never thought you would ever go.<\/p>\n

Nella mentalit\u00e0 stoica, amor fati significa gestire con fermezza tutte le cose brutte che vi capitano e non lamentarsene mai. \u00c8 come se la vita vi schiaffeggiasse in continuazione e ogni volta che succede, voi porgete l'altra guancia.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che dicono essere una formula per la grandezza e, in questo modo, dimostrano che lo nascondono sempre agli altri.<\/p>\n

And even if this mindset is pretty extremist, some people still follow it. They don\u2019t want others to know that something bad has happened to them because they don\u2019t want to make their loved ones sad. They don\u2019t want others to think sono vittime<\/span><\/a> o che si dispiaccia per loro.<\/p>\n

There are a lot of examples that can show you how amor fati is similar to some things in your life. For example, when you get married and when you plan to have kids, you know in advance that it won\u2019t be easy but that it will be worth it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same with amor fati. If you accept it as a blessing and as something that can help you grow and become a persona migliore<\/span>sar\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 facile accettare tutte le cose negative e negative che vi accadono.<\/p>\n

Le persone che seguono queste regole dicono spesso che questo modo di vivere porta sempre un po' di eccitazione nella loro vita e che non \u00e8 noioso, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

Hanno sempre qualcosa di cui parlare e problemi da risolvere. Considerano ogni cosa negativa che accade come un messaggio o una sfida. E ogni volta che la situazione si complica, diventa ancora pi\u00f9 bella, perch\u00e9 scoprirete di quante cose siete capaci, quando reagite a una situazione del genere.<\/p>\n

The worst thing you can do is complain about your bad destiny because in that way, you won\u2019t change anything. You will just make things worse and in the end, you will end up frustrated and depressed.<\/p>\n

Dovreste invece accettare ci\u00f2 che vi accade, ma non come se fosse bello che sia accaduto. Dovreste accoglierlo come qualcosa di grandioso, come la notizia pi\u00f9 positiva che avreste potuto aspettarvi.<\/p>\n

Only then will you feel that you are totally free from all your problems. They won\u2019t be problems anymore, they will just be messages that will help you see your future clearly.<\/p>\n

Quando inizierete a considerare la vostra vita come una sfida da gestire, ne vedrete la vera bellezza.<\/p>\n

You will finally understand that all that worrying about things you couldn\u2019t affect was in vain and that you just did yourself harm by bothering your head with it.<\/p>\n

I know that it sounds a bit strange to embrace things that you didn\u2019t want to happen but you never know why God gives you something you don\u2019t want in your life. Maybe that is a lesson He is trying to teach you.<\/p>\n

Forse \u00e8 una specie di prova che dovete superare per diventare pi\u00f9 forti. Pu\u00f2 significare molte cose, quindi non rifiutate mai ci\u00f2 che arriva nella vostra vita, non importa quanto sia brutto. Cose del genere spesso ci preparano a qualcosa di meglio e da questo tipo di esperienze usciamo pi\u00f9 forti e pi\u00f9 intelligenti.<\/p>\n

Also, if you take a moment and look back, you will see that when you were younger you weren\u2019t so brave, whereas now you don\u2019t put up with any shit and you always stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n

That happens thanks to all those bad things that happened to you and taught you to handle problems as they appeared. If it wasn\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t know how to defend yourself in bad situations. You wouldn\u2019t feel good because you couldn\u2019t do anything good for yourself and you would start being depressed.<\/p>\n

And you will realize that amor fati is a real thing for you because in that way, you are accepting things that you can\u2019t change. It is something that teaches you to be a persona migliore<\/span><\/a> e di lavorare su se stessi.<\/p>\n

You will realize that the problems in your life aren\u2019t long-term and something that bothers you now won\u2019t probably bother you in a year or two. When you figure that out, you won\u2019t sweat the small stuff anymore and it will be easier to live your life in a quality way.<\/p>\n

Because to be honest, you don\u2019t have any other option. You can cry or scream but the pain won\u2019t go away. Problems won\u2019t go away. They will just be bigger because you don\u2019t know how to handle them.<\/p>\n

Ma se li accettate e aspettate di vedere cosa vi porter\u00e0 il futuro, allora state facendo la cosa giusta.<\/p>\n

Fidatevi di me perch\u00e9 so cosa sto dicendo. Ho vissuto queste cose e so come mi sono comportata in quelle situazioni. So che davo di matto di fronte a ogni piccolo problema che mi capitava e questo mi condizionava parecchio.<\/p>\n

That process lasted a long time and I saw the consequences of me losing my confidence. I wasn\u2019t happy anymore and I was thinking about my problems all the time. I couldn\u2019t focus on anything else and I realized I couldn\u2019t continue living like that.<\/p>\n

Poi mi sono arresa. Ho rinunciato a preoccuparmi. E nel momento in cui ho iniziato a farlo, mi sono sentita rinascere. Mi stavo liberando dalla roccia sotto cui avevo vissuto per tanto tempo. Ed \u00e8 stata una sensazione fantastica poter vivere di nuovo a pieni polmoni.<\/p>\n

I remember at first, the people around me were looking at me strangely since I behaved like I didn\u2019t have problems, even if I didn\u2019t know what to do with them. I saw that I couldn\u2019t do anything about that and I started being indifferent. And that was the best thing I did in my life.<\/p>\n

Sono diventata una persona senza problemi perch\u00e9 ho accolto ognuno di essi come una benedizione e un messaggio. Cercavo sempre di trovare il significato nascosto in essi e questo mi ha reso una persona pi\u00f9 intelligente e pi\u00f9 forte. Mi ha reso a prova di bomba per cose come l'ansia per la mia vita professionale e amorosa.<\/p>\n

Ero abbastanza paziente da aspettare che i problemi venissero risolti e ascoltavo sempre ci\u00f2 che il Cielo aveva da dire. E nella maggior parte dei casi ha risposto positivamente a tutte le mie preghiere.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For all of you who don\u2019t know what amor fati is, I will try to give a simple explanation. It is simply accepting all that happens to you during your life. It means that even when bad things happen, like losing a family member or going through some bad things in your business or love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":30311,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/radu-florin-648487-unsplash-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30307","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30307"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30307\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30311"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30307"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30307"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30307"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}