{"id":30343,"date":"2021-10-01T09:51:07","date_gmt":"2021-10-01T09:51:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30343"},"modified":"2024-10-28T20:48:11","modified_gmt":"2024-10-28T19:48:11","slug":"prometto-di-lasciarti-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/prometto-di-lasciarti-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Nel 2025, prometto di lasciarti andare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L'anno nuovo \u00e8 un'occasione per ricominciare da capo. \u00c8 il momento dei propositi per il nuovo anno e delle nuove promesse.<\/p>\n<p>But this year, I won\u2019t be making any special resolutions. And I won\u2019t be making any promises to others, only to myself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quest'anno prometto di lasciarti finalmente andare. Di lasciarti nel passato, dove appartieni, e di voltare pagina nella mia vita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>In 2025, I promise that I\u2019ll stop missing you and that I\u2019ll learn how to live without you.<\/b> That you\u2019ll stop being the first thing that goes through my mind when I wake up and the last image I see when I am trying to go to sleep.<\/p>\n<p>I promise that I\u2019ll stop looking at our old photos and that I\u2019ll stop replaying the songs that remind me of you. I promise myself that I won\u2019t be rereading your old texts, wishing for those good times to come back. That I\u2019ll block your number, unfollow all of your social media accounts, delete all of our pictures and throw away all of your stuff.<\/p>\n<p>In 2025, I\u2019ll stop waiting for you to come crawling back and I\u2019ll finally understand that I am better off without you. <b>I\u2019ll stop putting my life on hold, while you are somewhere out there, living yours, as if I never existed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108917\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che fa il bagno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll stop hoping that it\u2019s you calling me every time I hear my phone ring and I\u2019ll stop expecting you to show up at my doorstep, telling me that you\u2019ve realized your mistake and that you can\u2019t live without me. Telling me that you\u2019ve finally seen what you lost and that I am the only one you could ever love.<\/p>\n<p>I promise to stop waiting for you to come to your senses and to get your shit together and I\u2019ll accept that you\u2019ll always remain the same insensitive jerk you\u2019ve always been.<\/p>\n<p>Prometto di smettere di aspettare che tu ti assuma la responsabilit\u00e0 delle tue azioni e che tu mi dia la chiusura che cerco disperatamente. Che mi dia le scuse che non ho mai ricevuto e che mi rassicuri che sono importante.<\/p>\n<p>Next year, there won\u2019t be any more of those horrible, sleepless nights in which I think about all the things that went on and about everything that could have been of us. There won\u2019t be anymore crying over the things we didn\u2019t accomplish and any more wondering why you left me just like that.<\/p>\n<p>Quest'anno prometto di trovare la forza di perdonare. Prometto di perdonarti per tutto il dolore che mi hai causato, anche se non me lo hai mai chiesto. Prometto di liberarmi di tutti i rancori e risentimenti e di liberarmi da te.<\/p>\n<p>Ma soprattutto nel 2025, <b>Mi perdoner\u00f2 per averti amato.<\/b> For trusting that you\u2019d stay by my side until the end of time, for making excuses for your shitty behavior just so I could keep on loving you and for justifying your every move.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108924\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa fuori\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I will forgive myself for being a fool who thought you could change and for wasting so much time on someone who never deserved me. For giving you so many second chances and for hoping that eventually, you\u2019d get on the right track.<\/p>\n<p>Nel 2025, vi lascio andare. <b>Sto lasciando andare tutti i nostri ricordi e tutte le <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/to-the-girl-who-always-falls-for-potential\/\"><b>il vostro potenziale<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> Sto lasciando andare le mie speranze di poterti aggiustare o salvare e sto finalmente accettando la dura verit\u00e0 che non siamo mai stati destinati a stare insieme.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quest'anno prometto di rinunciare a te e di andare avanti con la mia vita. Quest'anno ti dico il mio addio definitivo e ti cancello dal mio cuore e dalla mia mente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In 2025, I will be strong enough to save myself from loving you. I am taking off my rose-tinted glasses and I am seeing you for who you\u2019ve always been and myself as the person I was before you entered my life and before you shattered my heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ecco perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amare-abbastanza-lasciarsi-andare\/\">Prometto di amare me stesso<\/a> pi\u00f9 di quanto ti abbia mai amato. Apprezzare e rispettare me stessa abbastanza da non lasciarti pi\u00f9 entrare e smettere di aggrapparmi a te.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Nel 2025, prometto di trovare il coraggio di guarire il mio cuore spezzato e di salvarmi.<\/b><\/p>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Nel 2025, prometto di lasciarti andare \" class=\"wp-image-176890\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The New Year is an opportunity to start things clean and fresh. A time for New Year\u2019s resolutions and new promises. But this year, I won\u2019t be making any special resolutions. And I won\u2019t be making any promises to others, only to myself. This year, I promise to finally let you go. To leave you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":176891,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30343","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30343","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30343"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30343\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176892,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30343\/revisions\/176892"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176891"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30343"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30343"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30343"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}