{"id":30413,"date":"2020-02-19T19:45:04","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T19:45:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30413"},"modified":"2022-08-27T09:50:45","modified_gmt":"2022-08-27T09:50:45","slug":"le-cose-piu-dolorose-che-fanno-i-narcisisti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-cose-piu-dolorose-che-fanno-i-narcisisti\/","title":{"rendered":"Le 5 cose pi\u00f9 dolorose che ogni narcisista vi far\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

In circostanze normali, il risultato peggiore di un rottura sconvolgente<\/a> \u00e8 un cuore spezzato. A meno che non abbiate avuto una relazione con un narcisista.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not trying to claim that a broken heart isn\u2019t a big deal because it is definitely one of the most painful things all of us experiences.<\/p>\n

But narcissists don\u2019t stop at breaking your heart and the consequences of a relationship with them are much more severe.<\/p>\n

1. Diminuire il proprio valore<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

The first thing every narcissist tries to do from the start is diminish his victim\u2019s worth. And what is even worse is that at first, they do it without you even noticing it.<\/p>\n

You see, narcissists have a huge problem with low self-esteem. They don\u2019t feel good about themselves, even when they pretend to be the most confident person ever.<\/p>\n

And the only way in which they can feel equal to you is by dragging you down to their level. They know they can\u2019t control the independent, strong woman you are.<\/p>\n

Quindi, un narcisista ha il dovere di distorcere la vostra immagine di s\u00e9. Alimenter\u00e0 le vostre insicurezze e far\u00e0 di tutto perch\u00e9 vi consideriate meno, il pi\u00f9 possibile.<\/p>\n

2. Vi illumina con la luce del gas<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Un altro metodo che tutti i narcisisti utilizzano \u00e8 gaslighting<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quando un narcisista ti fa il filo<\/a>Ti fa mettere in dubbio la tua sanit\u00e0 mentale e cerca di convincerti che sei tu la pazza, quando in realt\u00e0 \u00e8 il contrario.<\/p>\n

Quest'uomo vi far\u00e0 dubitare delle vostre stesse parole e azioni. Mentir\u00e0, vi manipoler\u00e0 e cercher\u00e0 di convincervi di qualcosa che non \u00e8 vero, solo per farvi fare la figura del cattivo.<\/p>\n

Quest'uomo stravolger\u00e0 tutto ci\u00f2 che accade tra voi due finch\u00e9 non entrer\u00e0 completamente nella vostra testa e finch\u00e9 non inizierete a credere a ogni singola parola che dice.<\/p>\n

3. Farvi sentire in colpa<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t have a sense of responsibility. And even when they know they are the guilty one, they\u2019ll never admit it to anyone, let alone to their victim.<\/p>\n

Every narcissist has a way of making excuses for himself and justifying his toxic behavior. But he won\u2019t stop there\u2014he also wants to persuade you that you are the one to blame for everything wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, all'inizio siete ben consapevoli di come stanno le cose.<\/p>\n

Ma alla fine quest'uomo riesce a convincervi che siete voi la causa di tutti i problemi della vostra relazione e che siete voi a dover cambiare in meglio.<\/p>\n

Anche quando un narcisista si comporta come se si stesse prendendo la colpa, lo fa in modo contorto e malato.<\/p>\n

Anche quando chiede perdono e ammette di essere colpevole di aver fatto qualcosa, vi manipoler\u00e0 facendovi credere che siete stati voi a causarlo e a provocarlo per farvi del male.<\/p>\n

In the end, you start to think that you had it coming and that you deserved everything this man has been doing to you. And that was a narcissist\u2019s master plan all along.<\/p>\n

4. Cambiare l'essenza della propria personalit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

As it was already stated, narcissistic people don\u2019t stop at breaking your heart. No, they have the need to crush you completely and to break your spirit in every possible way as well.<\/p>\n

Dopo aver trascorso anni accanto a una persona di questo tipo, si fa fatica a riconoscersi, perch\u00e9 cancella ogni traccia della persona che si era prima che entrasse nella propria vita.<\/p>\n

Tu perdere se stessi<\/a> completamente in questa ricerca della felicit\u00e0 accanto all'uomo sbagliato.<\/p>\n

And when a narcissist sees that he\u2019s succeeded in his intentions, that is when he thinks he has won.<\/p>\n

Sa di essere riuscito a lasciare un segno indelebile nella vostra personalit\u00e0 e questo fa esplodere il suo ego a dismisura.<\/p>\n

5. Far perdere la fede<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Walking away from a narcissist is one of the most difficult things to do. And if this is something you\u2019ve been through, you know exactly what I am talking about.<\/p>\n

Ma guarire dopo un abuso narcisistico \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 difficile. Vedete, un narcisista vi fa perdere la fiducia negli uomini e nelle persone in generale.<\/p>\n

Quest'uomo le ha causato cos\u00ec tanto male che le viene naturale aspettarsi che tutti gli altri uomini della sua vita la trattino allo stesso modo.<\/p>\n

You think that everyone has the intention of breaking your heart and that there doesn\u2019t exist a man on this planet who will see your worth and who will love you for real.<\/p>\n

But the worst part is that narcissists make you lose faith in yourself. They convince you that you are the unlovable one and that you don\u2019t deserve to find true love.<\/p>\n

Ti fanno credere di essere un buono a nulla e ti fanno smettere di amarti davvero.<\/p>\n

\"Le<\/p>\n

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In normal circumstances, the worst outcome of a shattering break-up is a broken heart. Unless you were involved with a narcissist. Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not trying to claim that a broken heart isn\u2019t a big deal because it is definitely one of the most painful things all of us experiences. But narcissists don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":70726,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-5-Most-Hurtful-Things-Every-Narcissist-Will-Do-To-You.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30413","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30413"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30413\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163621,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30413\/revisions\/163621"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70726"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30413"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30413"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30413"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}