{"id":30513,"date":"2020-11-14T08:45:20","date_gmt":"2020-11-14T08:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30513"},"modified":"2024-10-29T17:04:53","modified_gmt":"2024-10-29T16:04:53","slug":"questanno-lascia-andare-chi-non-e-pronto-ad-amarti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questanno-lascia-andare-chi-non-e-pronto-ad-amarti\/","title":{"rendered":"Quest'anno, lasciate andare chi non \u00e8 pronto ad amarvi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Che questo sia il momento della vostra vita in cui decidete che quando \u00e8 troppo \u00e8 troppo. Non restate in un posto dove non siete visti, apprezzati o amati.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t stay, because things will only get worse. I know it\u2019s a big decision and that it will be painful and hard but cut the cord that\u2019s holding you attached to him.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing you can say or do to change the way he is. He will always stay the same and he\u2019ll never be good enough for you.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Apri gli occhi, bambina, e vedilo per quello che \u00e8 davvero, non per quello che vuoi che sia. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Non trova quasi mai tempo per voi. Fa tutto per i suoi comodi. Significa tutto per voi, ma non per lui, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-segni-che-sei-solo-unopzione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sei solo un'opzione<\/a> and you know that deep down. It\u2019s killing you slowly.<\/p>\n<p>His games and this on-again, off-again thing you have with him is making you lose your sanity. You\u2019ve been on this emotional roller coaster ride for so long and it seems it will never stop until you decide to put a stop to it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Guardati allo specchio, bambina, meriti molto di pi\u00f9.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-113802 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"la ragazza si guarda allo specchio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Guardatevi bene e guardate quanto siete belli, quanto siete speciali, gentili e straordinari.<\/p>\n<p>Silence those voices that make you think you are not good enough, pretty enough, or smart enough and that they are the reasons why he doesn\u2019t give you the time of day.<\/p>\n<p>That couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto che ti tratti male ha tutto a che fare con lui e con la confusione che ha in testa e niente a che fare con te. Smetti di dubitare di te stessa. Smettete di concentrarvi sui vostri difetti e concentratevi sulle vostre perfezioni.<\/p>\n<p>You have many of them, don\u2019t toss them away so easily. Don\u2019t pretend that they are not important. Embrace your flaws as well and accept yourself because you are amazing just the way you are.<\/p>\n<p>See yourself with a whole different set of eyes, the ones that aren\u2019t polluted with his presence.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are not made for him babygirl, he doesn\u2019t know how to love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-113805 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl.jpg\" alt=\"il ritratto di una ragazza triste dai capelli rossi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you are all about love. You need someone who notices that and is not scared to love you back. Someone who isn\u2019t afraid to feel. Someone who is ready to be the man you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Quel qualcuno non \u00e8 lui. \u00c8 incapace di amare. Sa solo come prendere da te senza dare nulla in cambio. Gli importa solo di se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Accettatelo per quello che \u00e8, un capitolo di apprendimento della vostra vita che vi ha insegnato come non dovrebbe mai essere l'amore.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t confuse him for your forever person, he is nothing more than a tough lesson you had to learn so you could become stronger, wiser and learn to love yourself more.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sogna e crea, bambina. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Investite in voi stessi tanto quanto avete investito in lui e anche di pi\u00f9. Datevi il tempo di guarire, ma continuate sempre ad andare avanti; non importa quanto lenti o veloci siano i vostri progressi, ogni passo conta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-113806 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"fuori, sulla staccionata, siede una donna sorridente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow your relationship status to define you. Cherish the inner peace you have when you are alone instead of the mess he puts you through. Count on yourself like you could never count on him. Be your own rock. You got this.<\/p>\n<p>You can do whatever you put your mind to, just give yourself the same amount of energy, love and commitment he didn\u2019t value and see how your life starts changing for the better.<\/p>\n<p><b>Let go of the one who isn\u2019t ready to love you, babygirl. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lasciatelo andare, non importa quanto faccia male, perch\u00e9 la sua presenza nella vostra vita far\u00e0 ancora pi\u00f9 male. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/tempo-ammettere-di-meritare-di-piu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi meritate di meglio<\/span><\/a> di questo.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve that all-consuming, \u2018can\u2019t live without you\u2019 type of love and not the one you need to push and pull and force. That love is not true, it\u2019s only temporary.<\/p>\n<p>Iniziate quest'anno con una tabula rasa e liberi da lui. Fate spazio a qualcuno pi\u00f9 degno, a qualcuno che \u00e8 pronto per voi, a qualcuno che sar\u00e0 pazzo di voi.<\/p>\n<p>E non accontentatevi mai di meno.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Quest&#039;anno, lasciate andare chi non \u00e8 pronto ad amarvi\" class=\"wp-image-113807\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let this be the point in your life in which you decide that enough is enough. Don\u2019t stay somewhere you are not seen, appreciated or loved. Don\u2019t stay, because things will only get worse. I know it\u2019s a big decision and that it will be painful and hard but cut the cord that\u2019s holding you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":177113,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You_-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30513"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177114,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513\/revisions\/177114"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}