{"id":30703,"date":"2020-04-04T09:22:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T09:22:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30703"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:09:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:09:58","slug":"10-segnali-di-allarme-che-il-vostro-partner-sta-rovinando-la-vostra-salute-mentale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segnali-di-allarme-che-il-vostro-partner-sta-rovinando-la-vostra-salute-mentale\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segnali di allarme che il vostro partner sta rovinando la vostra salute mentale"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando avete a che fare con una persona tossica, potreste non essere nemmeno consapevoli di tutti i modi in cui sta rovinando la vostra salute mentale.<\/p>\n<p>Sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/6-segni-forti-che-sei-un-maestro-manipolatore-dellamore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> maestri della manipolazione <\/a>rovinano gradualmente la vostra autostima, vi buttano gi\u00f9 per potervi controllare e manipolare.<\/p>\n<p>Non avranno problemi a convincervi che la colpa di tutto \u00e8 vostra e vi accuseranno di essere i responsabili del loro comportamento mentalmente violento.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look at the signs and if you find your partner in them, get away from him as soon as possible, before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti giustifichi per il suo comportamento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che beve caff\u00e8 da sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi trattano male quando siete in mezzo agli altri e peggiorano ulteriormente quando siete da soli; tuttavia, trovate sempre delle scuse per loro.<\/p>\n<p>Giustificate il loro comportamento schifoso dicendo che normalmente non sono cos\u00ec, che hanno solo avuto una brutta giornata, ecc.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, you are fooling no one\u2014well, maybe yourself because you see something in him that isn\u2019t there.<\/p>\n<p>In secondo luogo, cos\u00ec facendo, gli state inviando il messaggio che il suo comportamento \u00e8 tollerabile, quindi continuer\u00e0 a comportarsi cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti fa cadere intenzionalmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76643\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nYou can\u2019t remember when you had a happy moment that he didn\u2019t trash.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che vi sentite super eccitati per vedere i vostri amici o che siete al settimo cielo perch\u00e9 \u00e8 successo qualcosa di bello al lavoro, lui far\u00e0 del suo meglio per cercare di rendere le cose meno piacevoli.<\/p>\n<p>He can\u2019t stand that you are happy and that\u2019s why he will make fun of your accomplishments and try to decrease their significance.<\/p>\n<p>He is just bringing negativity into your life and you really don\u2019t need that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sta uccidendo il vostro spirito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ultimamente le vostre emozioni sono pi\u00f9 negative che positive. Piangete spesso, siete vulnerabili e le vostre insicurezze sono aumentate.<\/p>\n<p>If you are trying to find the cause of the problem, look at your partner. He might be the one that\u2019s making you feel low when he should lift you among the stars.<\/p>\n<p>In addition, if he doesn\u2019t notice or care that you are feeling down, there is no doubt about it\u2014he is the source of your messed-up emotions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 un libro chiuso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo preoccupato che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ha fatto cos\u00ec tanta fatica ad aprirsi con voi e a lasciarvi entrare che col tempo ha smesso del tutto di provarci.<\/p>\n<p>You never know where his head is at or what he is up to and it\u2019s making you lose the feeling of safety in the relationship, which makes you feel upset or even anxious.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sta imbrogliando<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76646\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda una donna bionda per strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t necessarily have to have sex with somebody else to make you feel like he is unfaithful.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe flirtare con altre donne, tenersi in contatto sui social media, confidarsi con loro o qualsiasi altra cosa che costituisca <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/il-micro-imbroglio-puo-essere-pericoloso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> micro-cheating <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Nel complesso, vi sentirete come se vi stesse prendendo in giro e vi stesse mancando totalmente di rispetto. Vi sentirete non apprezzati e stressati senza alcun motivo.<\/p>\n<p>Dovrebbe prestare pi\u00f9 attenzione a come ti fa sentire o non far pi\u00f9 parte della tua vita.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Spesso vi etichetta come troppo sensibili o irragionevoli.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76648\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste seduta da sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si comporta come se tu non lo avessi mai preso e che tu stia esagerando e facendo una tragedia per niente.<\/p>\n<p>Per lui l'attacco \u00e8 la miglior difesa, quindi preferisce svalutare i vostri sentimenti piuttosto che ammettere che \u00e8 lui a farvi stare male.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like he is denying you the right to feel what you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Fate attenzione perch\u00e9 questo pu\u00f2 davvero rovinare la vostra salute mentale generale, farvi perdere di vista i vostri sentimenti e prosciugarvi emotivamente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi sentite obbligati a cambiare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che distoglie lo sguardo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il suo comportamento vi fa sentire come se non foste abbastanza brave. Cos\u00ec fate del vostro meglio, cambiate, state in silenzio quando dovreste parlare, solo per tenerlo con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that change is not always for the better, especially when it\u2019s influenced by anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Assicuratevi di non perdere voi stessi nel tentativo di tenerlo con voi.<\/p>\n<p>The other person should treat you as their equal and accept you for who you are if he can\u2019t do that, he doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La fiducia \u00e8 scomparsa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76650\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che prova paura\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you met your old self, you wouldn\u2019t recognize her. Since your relationship started, you have been questioning your every move and you are scared to get out of your shell.<\/p>\n<p>Se state con qualcuno che vi fa sentire come se non foste abbastanza, che vi incolpa di tutto e mette a tacere la vostra voce, dovete uscirne il prima possibile.<\/p>\n<p>Nel peggiore dei casi, uomini come questi vi convincono che non valete nulla senza di loro.<\/p>\n<p>Questo tipo di comportamento \u00e8 manipolativo e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/essere-abbastanza-forti-da-allontanarsi-da-un-manipolatore-tossico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> altamente tossico <\/a> e dovreste stare il pi\u00f9 lontano possibile.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">L'intera situazione con lui sta danneggiando la vostra salute fisica.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che si guarda allo specchio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La mente e il corpo sono intrecciati e si influenzano a vicenda.<\/p>\n<p>Lo stress che state vivendo con un partner tossico roviner\u00e0 il vostro sistema immunitario. Sarete pi\u00f9 inclini a prendere un raffreddore, ad avere mal di testa o crampi allo stomaco.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che non vale la pena di perdere il proprio benessere, n\u00e9 mentale n\u00e9 fisico.<\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 la prova tangibile che il vostro partner non \u00e8 adatto a voi, indipendentemente da ci\u00f2 che provate per lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il senso di colpa vi consuma<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76652\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esaminate con attenzione la vostra relazione. \u00c8 possibile che siate sempre voi i colpevoli e che il vostro partner sia cos\u00ec innocente o che stia cercando di controllarvi?<\/p>\n<p>Anche se gli avete sempre coperto le spalle, dir\u00e0 che non c'eravate quando ne aveva pi\u00f9 bisogno, che gli siete mancati di sostegno e comprensione.<\/p>\n<p>You know that\u2019s not true so don\u2019t let him convince you otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>He has major issues so let him deal with them on his own and don\u2019t allow him to pollute your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 segnali di allarme che il vostro partner sta rovinando la vostra salute mentale\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you are dealing with somebody toxic, you might not even be aware of all the ways in which they are ruining your mental health. They are masters of manipulation , they gradually ruin your self-esteem, they bring you down so they can control and manipulate you. They will have no problem convincing you that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":76653,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30703","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30703","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30703"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30703\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76653"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30703"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30703"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30703"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}