{"id":30724,"date":"2020-05-04T13:55:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T13:55:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30724"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:40:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:40:30","slug":"6-modi-per-affrontare-un-fidanzato-poco-romantico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-modi-per-affrontare-un-fidanzato-poco-romantico\/","title":{"rendered":"6 modi per affrontare un fidanzato poco romantico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve expected a boyfriend who will surprise you with romantic dinners with candles, romantic weekend getaways, serving you your favorite breakfast in bed or giving you \u2018I love you\u2019 poems.<\/p>\n<p>And instead, you\u2019ve got someone whose biggest romantic gesture is to hold your hand and share the last two spoons of ice cream with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s disappointing and at the same time frustrating, and you cannot blame him for being unromantic because romance is not something you\u2019re born with.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s something you acquire through time, so don\u2019t think it\u2019s something unattainable.<\/p>\n<p>If you give it some time, stay patient and follow these 6 tips on how to cope with the situation you\u2019re in, I assure you that everything will fall into place.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ditegli cosa vi aspettate da lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85784\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia sorridente che parla in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro ragazzo \u00e8 un'anima poco romantica, dovete capire che non ha idea di cosa significhi essere romantici.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, non potete aspettarvi che sappia cosa deve fare o come deve comportarsi per esprimere il suo lato romantico.<\/p>\n<p>La cosa migliore che potete fare \u00e8 dirgli quali sono le vostre aspettative, e questo lo aiuter\u00e0 a capire come funzionano le cose nel mondo romantico.<\/p>\n<p>Questo gli far\u00e0 aprire gli occhi e finalmente sapr\u00e0 cosa deve fare per rendervi felici.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t equate his unromantic side with his affection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85785\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"Il ritratto di sensualit\u00e0 coppia che si bacia in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever let his unromantic side make you question his affection for you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s necessary for you to understand that he cares about you and he loves you, but he has some problems with expressing this with romantic gestures.<\/p>\n<p>Prima ve ne rendete conto, pi\u00f9 facile sar\u00e0 per voi affrontare il problema.<\/p>\n<p>Unromantic people simply see things differently than others because they don\u2019t have a feeling for what\u2019s romantic and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco perch\u00e9 dovete essere la sua guida e mantenere la pazienza il pi\u00f9 a lungo possibile.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with your relationship or your partner; it just needs some time and effort.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t judge him or compare him with others (more romantic partners)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una donna sorridente che guarda un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La cosa peggiore che possiate fare \u00e8 confrontare il vostro ragazzo con altri fidanzati o con i vostri ex che erano pi\u00f9 romantici di lui.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 davvero doloroso per lui sentirlo e pensate a come vi sentireste voi se lui vi dicesse la stessa cosa.<\/p>\n<p>Il confronto con gli altri non far\u00e0 altro che prolungare la situazione e ferire i suoi sentimenti.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro obiettivo \u00e8 quello di aprirgli gli occhi e condurlo in una direzione romantica, non di ferirlo nel frattempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Show him how it\u2019s done<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna sdraiati sul letto a mangiare la pizza\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve explained what you expect him to do, show him how it\u2019s done.<\/p>\n<p>Servitegli la sua colazione preferita a letto, organizzate una cena romantica o pensate a qualcos'altro che gli mostri come dovrebbe essere.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta che avr\u00e0 visto i vostri esempi, sar\u00e0 in grado di collegare i punti e di copiare le vostre azioni (che \u00e8 comunque un progresso nella giusta direzione) o di pensare a qualcosa di pi\u00f9 innovativo (che avverr\u00e0 col tempo). Qualunque cosa decida di fare, siate orgogliosi dei suoi piccoli passi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere pronti al compromesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85792\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sorridente seduta sul pavimento che gioca alla console di gioco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Also, be ready to do things that you\u2019ve perhaps avoided doing in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro ragazzo \u00e8 appassionato di videogiochi, provate a sedervi accanto a lui e chiedetegli di spiegarvi come giocate a un determinato gioco. Godetevi il tempo trascorso insieme.<\/p>\n<p>You can always create a romantic atmosphere regardless of the activities you\u2019re engaged in.<\/p>\n<p>And when he sees that you\u2019re ready to compromise and go out of your way to be part of something he really enjoys doing, he will also be ready to do such things for you.<\/p>\n<p>Non sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/real-men-dont-make-excuses-they-make-an-effort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">trovare scuse<\/a> that he doesn\u2019t know how to prepare a romantic dinner or similar.<\/p>\n<p>Far\u00e0 di tutto per rendervi felici, perch\u00e9 sa che questo significa per voi quanto i suoi giochi significano per lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Apprezziamo i suoi sforzi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si abbraccia in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Always remember to acknowledge his efforts because he will need your support and give him the green light that he\u2019s doing something right.<\/p>\n<p>Appreciating means telling him that you\u2019re proud of his progress and everything he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t need to be something big to let him know that he\u2019s done it right.<\/p>\n<p>Riconoscete ogni singola cosa che fa e che ha a che fare con il romanticismo, e lui far\u00e0 del suo meglio per continuare a farlo.<\/p>\n<p>After all, all the greatest things need practice, and this isn\u2019t an exception.<\/p>\n<p>Se continuerete a sostenere con costanza il vostro partner nel suo percorso di trasformazione, rimarrete sorpresi da ci\u00f2 che sarete in grado di realizzare insieme.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 modi per affrontare un fidanzato poco romantico \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve expected a boyfriend who will surprise you with romantic dinners with candles, romantic weekend getaways, serving you your favorite breakfast in bed or giving you \u2018I love you\u2019 poems. And instead, you\u2019ve got someone whose biggest romantic gesture is to hold your hand and share the last two spoons of ice cream with you&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":85796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30724","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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