No, you don\u2019t get that in real life.<\/b><\/p>\n
Nella vita reale, si affronta la propria merda da soli. Nessuno si esporr\u00e0 per salvarti.<\/p>\n
Affrontate le vostre battaglie e rischiate la vostra felicit\u00e0 prendendo le vostre decisioni. Non si ha idea se siano giuste o sbagliate, ma si commettono errori e si impara a non rifarli.<\/p>\n
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You see, all men are kind of emotionally unavailable. You know why? It\u2019s because all men are kind of scared to open up.<\/p>\n
Sono proprio come noi, hanno paura di farsi male.<\/p>\n
Alcuni lo nascondono con la loro durezza, altri con la prospettiva di un dio greco. Alcuni sono sfacciati, altri sono pieni di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n
Ma, in fondo, sono tutti emotivamente non disponibile<\/a> perch\u00e9 hanno paura di farsi male.<\/p>\n In fondo, sono stronzi emotivamente non disponibili, perch\u00e9 anche loro sono umani.<\/b><\/p>\n Quindi, prima di innamorarvi di un uomo emotivamente non disponibile<\/a>, and you will, keep in mind some of the following things and just maybe you\u2019ll find at least the image of true love everyone is talking about.<\/p>\n Quando in realt\u00e0 tutto ci\u00f2 di cui abbiamo bisogno \u00e8 qualcuno da cui tornare a casa, qualcuno che ci ascolti, qualcuno che ci rispetti e qualcuno di cui fidarci.<\/p>\n If you are lucky enough to find this, you\u2019ve found \u2018true love\u2019.<\/p>\n Ditegli esattamente cosa volete da lui. Ditegli che volete un marito premuroso, un buon padre e, soprattutto, un vero amico.<\/p>\n Ditegli che volete qualcuno che vi ascolti, che vi dia consigli quando ne avete bisogno.<\/p>\n Ditegli che volete un uomo che stia al vostro fianco e che agisca nella vostra relazione come un'unione di due persone che cercano di costruirsi la migliore vita possibile.<\/p>\n Dimostrategli che siete partner che devono aiutarsi a vicenda e lavorare insieme.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t get your hopes up, you can\u2019t get disappointed. Don\u2019t expect him to be emotionally mature.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t expect him to be a man of many words. If he keeps his distance and doesn\u2019t talk much about feelings, it\u2019s just who he is.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll have to accept that. But never try to change it, because it\u2019s impossible. It\u2019s who he is and you can\u2019t do anything about that.<\/p>\n If his behavior is a deal-breaker, then leave him but once again, and I can\u2019t stress this enough, don\u2019t ever try to change him because in the end, you\u2019ll end up destroying each other.<\/p>\n You have nothing to do with whether he changes or not. You can love him to the moon and back, you can promise him the stars from the sky and he\u2019ll stay the same.<\/p>\n You can threaten to leave him if he doesn\u2019t turn his life around and he will stay the same.<\/p>\n Non potete fare assolutamente nulla per cambiare la sua prospettiva e il suo modo di pensare e agire.<\/p>\n Se vuole cambiare, se non \u00e8 soddisfatto del suo comportamento, allora avete una possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n Still, it\u2019s going to be a bumpy road filled with denial, dedication and a lot of hard work on your part. Change is never easy, even if the person is willing to give it a try.<\/p>\n When you want to talk to him about something serious, don\u2019t go right at him.<\/p>\n Si sentir\u00e0 minacciato e non appena si render\u00e0 conto di dover abbassare la guardia e mostrare emozioni, far\u00e0 marcia indietro.<\/p>\n And you\u2019ll get one big nothing.<\/p>\n Se non c'\u00e8 comunicazione nel rapporto di coppia, questo relazione \u00e8 impostato per fallire<\/a><\/span>.<\/a> It is hard for every couple to be on the same page, especially couples who aren\u2019t one hundred percent true and honest with each other and their own feelings.<\/p>\n As I already said, he won\u2019t change. He is emotionally distant, he is unavailable and he will stay that way.<\/p>\n Forse, con il tempo, imparer\u00e0 a fidarsi di voi, ma il suo primo istinto, al primo segnale di difficolt\u00e0, \u00e8 quello di erigere le sue mura in alto e non far entrare nessuno, compresi voi.<\/p>\n You\u2019re actually learning how to be loved by a person you love twice as much.<\/p>\n You are well aware of what you’re getting into, so you have to be prepared to live a life without emotional support and crazy acts of love.<\/p>\n You\u2019re going to live an emotionally lonely life. Be prepared for that.<\/p>\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It has been a long time since I stopped believing in fairy tales. It was such a long time ago that I stopped hoping that one day a real man would come along and steal my heart and make it his for the rest of his days. I don\u2019t buy that crap anymore. I put…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":78344,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30789","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-You-Need-To-Know-Before-Loving-An-Emotionally-Unavailable-Man.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30789","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30789"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30789\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78344"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30789"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30789"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30789"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Siate perfettamente chiari su ci\u00f2 che volete da lui<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon\u2019t expect too much<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon\u2019t try to fix him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCercare di capire come comunicare con lui<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nImparare a convivere con un uomo emotivamente distante nella propria vita<\/h2>\n
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