{"id":3086,"date":"2017-08-02T07:46:30","date_gmt":"2017-08-02T07:46:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3086"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:08:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:08:12","slug":"5-cose-che-non-si-rompono-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-non-si-rompono-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose da non fare MAI dopo una rottura"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00ec, sopravvivere a una rottura fa schifo. Ognuno la affronta in modo diverso.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, ci sono alcune cose che tendiamo a fare dopo una rottura che non fanno altro che danneggiarci, e dobbiamo liberarci di queste brutte abitudini.<\/p>\n<p>And no, by bad habits I don\u2019t mean you should give up that ice cream bucket and stop crying immediately.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono cose che si fanno a se stessi che sono anche peggio di queste.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Portare qualsiasi cosa all'estremo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s normal that at the beginning of the process, all we want to do is cry, sleep, eat, drink, go out, or anything else we feel like overdoing after a while.<\/p>\n<p>However, it\u2019s not okay if you\u2019re still in your dark room full of chocolate boxes and dirty tissues, watching all 10 seasons of your favorite TV show over and over again.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not okay that you get drunk every night so that you can\u2019t perform daily activities. It\u2019s not okay if you keep gaining weight because you\u2019re still eating away your pain.<\/p>\n<p>Fare qualcosa di estremo \u00e8 la cosa peggiore che si possa fare a se stessi. Alla fine si perde il senso del tempo e si dimentica chi si \u00e8 veramente.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get lost in these bad habits. Try to stay strong and survive the bad days. With a healthy mind and body, you will get out much stronger, even from a shitty experience such as a breakup.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Chiamare e mandare messaggi al vostro ex<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>STOP. IT. RIGHT. NOW. Block their number. Turn off your phone. Disconnect from the internet. Take some time and preoccupy yourself with something else. But, don\u2019t touch the damn phone and look for his number.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, you\u2019re just making things worse. You will need to go through a period of detox and you shouldn\u2019t make any contact with your ex.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s terribly difficult to fight this urge to stay in contact and to say just one more thing, but you will have to do it if you want to heal yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;Don\u2019t be STUPID, Do These 9 Things Instead Of Falling Back In Love<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Binge drinking<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Bere per dimenticare il dolore \u00e8 un modo comune di affrontare una rottura. Bisogna tenere presente che si tratta solo di una soluzione temporanea e che ci si sentir\u00e0 ancora peggio una volta disintossicati.<\/p>\n<p>L'alcol fa passare il dolore forse per una notte, ma il giorno dopo dovrete affrontare molti altri problemi oltre alla vostra rottura.<\/p>\n<p>Think about yourself and your health. It\u2019s easy to forget how important it is to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/every-woman-needs-self-care\/\">prendersi cura di noi stessi <\/a>when our world is falling apart. Tell that crazy best friend you don\u2019t want to go through another drunk night and that you should do something else.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Incolpare se stessi<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3090 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/pexels-photo-185939.jpg\" alt=\"Donna seduta sulle rocce vicino all&#039;acqua, appoggiata alla mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/pexels-photo-185939.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/pexels-photo-185939-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/pexels-photo-185939-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/pexels-photo-185939-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/pexels-photo-185939-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You need to stop blaming yourself for that horrible breakup whether you feel guilty because you broke someone\u2019s heart or you over think about what you did wrong <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-cosi-che-si-rovina-una-relazione-perfettamente-riuscita-2\/\">che hanno incasinato la vostra relazione<\/a>. Making yourself look like a bad guy won\u2019t help.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, dovreste pensare alla vostra precedente relazione come a una sorta di lezione sull'amore, e dovreste tirare le somme una volta che vi siete chiariti le idee.<\/p>\n<p>Ho detto una volta che la testa \u00e8 chiara, non ora che ti vedi come il tuo peggior nemico. Davvero, smettila. Se hai bisogno di aiuto, dovresti parlare con qualcuno che possa darti un buon consiglio e farti sentire meglio.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Alla ricerca di una chiusura<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When it\u2019s done, it\u2019s done. You don\u2019t need to go through any more drama. Sometimes, you\u2019re just torturing yourself by opening the wounds repeatedly. Your ex doesn\u2019t owe you closure.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete trovare la vostra tranquillit\u00e0 da soli. Entrambi dovreste <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/liking-the-child-you-love\/201611\/3-ways-put-past-relationships-behind-you-good\" rel=\"noopener\">lasciarsi alle spalle la relazione passata e andare avanti.<\/a> Don\u2019t waste time seeking answers anymore. Go and seek your next happiness.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/9-things-breakup-pick-move\/\">9 cose da fare dopo una rottura per risollevarsi e andare avanti<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yup, surviving a breakup sucks. Everyone deals with it differently. However, there are some things we tend to do after a breakup that do nothing but harm us, and we need to get rid of those nasty, bad habits. And no, by bad habits I don\u2019t mean you should give up that ice cream bucket&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":3089,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3086","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_OP8GTSIMX5.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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