{"id":30990,"date":"2020-07-09T09:09:53","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T09:09:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30990"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:33","slug":"i-veri-motivi-per-cui-gli-uomini-scelgono-il-vile-atto-del-ghosting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-veri-motivi-per-cui-gli-uomini-scelgono-il-vile-atto-del-ghosting\/","title":{"rendered":"I veri motivi per cui gli uomini scelgono l'atto vigliacco del ghosting"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il ghosting \u00e8 il modo peggiore di rottura<\/a> con qualcuno, tutto a causa di quel sentimento persistente che rimane nel nostro cuore a causa della mancanza di una chiusura.<\/p>\n

Gioca con la nostra testa, ci riempie di dubbi e distrugge la nostra autostima.<\/p>\n

Non si \u00e8 in grado di andare avanti con la propria vita perch\u00e9 ci si interroga continuamente su tutto, ci si chiede se si \u00e8 stati noi e non si sa come rimediare.<\/p>\n

You make all these excuses for him but deep down\u2026 you know it\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a really crappy dating habit that is plaguing today\u2019s society and here are some insightful reasons why men resort to this horrendous way of breaking our heart:<\/p>\n

1. \u00c8 semplicemente pigro<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

A volte i ragazzi sono cos\u00ec immaturi.<\/p>\n

He may have lost the interest he previously had in you and instead of being a man and letting you down gently, he\u2019ll stop any and all communication.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that he probably doesn\u2019t even see it as a problem.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll just stop answering and act as if it\u2019s the most normal thing in the world and move on to some other girl, while you\u2019re desperately trying to figure out what you did wrong.<\/p>\n

I ragazzi possono essere degli stronzi immaturi a volte.<\/p>\n

2. He doesn\u2019t have the balls to tell you how he feels<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Sometimes, guys are afraid of how we\u2019re going to react. As if women are some kind of time bombs that are going to explode when broken up with.<\/p>\n

Dai, dacci un po' di fiducia!<\/p>\n

So instead of dealing with their emotions and sending us a text saying they\u2019re not interested in continuing this, they\u2019ll disappear and hope we won\u2019t lose our shit at them.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s just easier to resort to fantasma<\/a> che dover rispondere alla nostra semplice domanda, chiedendosi cosa sia andato storto.<\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s keeping his options open<\/h2>\n

\"bel<\/p>\n

Guys have this deluded belief that if they don\u2019t technically end things with you, there\u2019s a chance later if they decide to hit us up again while searching for someone better.<\/p>\n

This is such a twisted way of thinking and keeping their options open, in case they don\u2019t find anyone better than you.<\/p>\n

They believe this to be okay since they never really broke it off in the first place. They just didn\u2019t text, call or reply.<\/p>\n

4. Vuole risparmiare i vostri sentimenti<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

A volte i ragazzi pensano che lasciarvi senza dire una parola vi far\u00e0 meno male che fare tutto il discorso della rottura.<\/p>\n

Come se stessero in qualche modo risparmiando i tuoi sentimenti.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 buffo, lo so, ma alcuni ragazzi ci credono davvero.<\/p>\n

Come se non avere una chiusura e stare l\u00ec a chiedersi cosa diavolo sia andato storto potesse in qualche modo essere meglio che sentire un motivo valido per cui vuole porre fine alle cose.<\/p>\n

In reality, this is all just about protecting his own feelings, rather than your own. He might actually believe that he\u2019s doing it for you but deep down, he\u2019s protecting himself.<\/p>\n

5. He just doesn\u2019t really care<\/h2>\n

\"ragazzo<\/p>\n

This is the worst kind of guy. One who truly doesn\u2019t give a shit about how he makes you feel.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be with you for as long as it\u2019s convenient for him but the minute he gets bored or finds someone else, he\u2019ll just leave without a word and not care how much it hurts.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that it will suck for you not having any closure but he just won\u2019t care to give it to you. Really classy.<\/p>\n

6. Non ha idea di cosa dire<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He is really bad at breaking up. He panics and doesn\u2019t know what to say as he will probably only make it worse, so he does the only thing he knows\u2014leaves without a trace.<\/p>\n

This kind of guy doesn\u2019t really want to hurt you and even though he definitely is making it hard on you, he\u2019s really just the type of guy who doesn\u2019t handle pressure of any kind well.<\/p>\n

It sucks, I know. And you should in no way feel sorry for him but hey, at least he\u2019s better than the guy who genuinely doesn\u2019t give a shit, right?<\/p>\n

7. Mancanza di tempo<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Ma questa \u00e8 solo la pi\u00f9 banale delle scuse. Un messaggio veloce \u00e8 letteralmente 20 secondi del vostro tempo.<\/p>\n

Forse sta annegando nel lavoro e negli obblighi, ma ogni uomo dovrebbe avere la decenza di chiudere le cose con grazia e rispetto.<\/p>\n

Se avete tempo di fare una pausa al lavoro, avete tempo per una chiamata o un messaggio. \u00c8 molto semplice.<\/p>\n

\"I<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ghosting is the worst way of breaking up with someone, all because of that lingering feeling that remains in our heart due to lack of closure. It plays with our head, fills us with self-doubt and destroys our self-confidence. It leaves you unable to move forward with your life because you are constantly questioning everything,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":120022,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Real-Reasons-Why-Men-Choose-The-Cowardly-Act-Of-Ghosting-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30990","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30990"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30990\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120022"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30990"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30990"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30990"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}