{"id":31028,"date":"2020-12-09T10:57:41","date_gmt":"2020-12-09T10:57:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31028"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:38:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:38:34","slug":"ecco-la-dura-verita-se-ti-avesse-amata-non-ti-avrebbe-lasciata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-la-dura-verita-se-ti-avesse-amata-non-ti-avrebbe-lasciata\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco la dura verit\u00e0: se ti amava, non ti avrebbe lasciato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Essere lasciati indietro<\/a> by the person you love the most is heartbreaking and one of the most painful things you can go through\u2014there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n

But what is even more devastating is accepting that the reason this person walked away from you was because he simply didn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n

Because let\u2019s face it\u2014the last thing you want to admit is that the love you feel is unrequited, even though it is the only truth.<\/p>\n

So instead of admitting this to yourself, you keep finding justification for this guy\u2019s actions and behavior.<\/p>\n

Invece di accettare la verit\u00e0, continuate a trovare scuse per il fatto che si \u00e8 allontanato da voi.<\/p>\n

Continui a mentire a te stessa per continuare ad amarlo e per continuare a sperare che lui torni da te, come se non fosse successo nulla.<\/p>\n

Well, I hate to be the one to break it to you because I know this is the last thing you want to hear and something you are trying to run away from but this man doesn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n

So anche che, nel profondo, siete ben consapevoli di questa dolorosa realt\u00e0, ma invece di guardarla negli occhi, passate tutto questo tempo a mettere a tacere quella vocina nella vostra testa che vi sta dicendo la dura verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014your ex might have loved you in the past or he might have had some feelings for you but it is more than obvious that he has stopped loving you, or that he doesn\u2019t love you enough or the way you love him.<\/p>\n

Because the one who loves you doesn\u2019t abandon you. Everything else is empty excuses.<\/p>\n

No, he doesn\u2019t need time to get his shit together. No, he hasn\u2019t left you because he realized you were too good for him. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, it wasn\u2019t the wrong timing. No, he isn\u2019t <\/b>emotivamente non disponibile<\/b><\/a> o una fobia per gli impegni.<\/b><\/p>\n

He simply doesn\u2019t care enough to fight for your relationship. He doesn\u2019t care enough to stay by your side through thick and thin and to do his best to resolve any issues the two of you might have.<\/b><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 quando un vero uomo ti ama, rester\u00e0 al tuo fianco, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Si batter\u00e0 accanto a voi per far funzionare le cose e far\u00e0 del suo meglio per superare tutti gli ostacoli che voi due potreste trovare lungo il cammino.<\/p>\n

Quando un uomo vi ama, \u00e8 disposto a fare certi sacrifici per il bene della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 pronto a spostare le montagne per il vostro amore e non c'\u00e8 niente e nessuno che possa impedirgli di farlo.<\/p>\n

Quando un vero uomo vi ama, vi ama allo stesso modo, al meglio e al peggio. Ti capisce e diventa il tuo migliore amico e non solo il tuo amante.<\/p>\n

This man doesn\u2019t even think of walking away when the smallest inconvenience appears. Instead, he sees the two of you as partners in crime and he knows better than leaving his teammate behind.<\/p>\n

When you are with a real man, he will do everything in his power to always find a reason to love you and he\u2019ll never think you are not lovable.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never compare you with other women because he could never picture himself next to anyone else except you.<\/p>\n

For this man, leaving isn\u2019t even an option, despite all the hardships the two of you might encounter. He knows that love needs hard work and backing out is never something he even considers doing.<\/p>\n

But let\u2019s face it\u2014your ex isn\u2019t this man and he could never have the capacity of becoming him. Instead, he was a coward who abandoned you at first glance of trouble.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, ti ha dimostrato che non \u00e8 mai stato e non sar\u00e0 mai degno del tuo amore.<\/p>\n

Yes, it\u2019s hard getting over him but you need to understand that you are crying over someone who never deserved you. That you are putting your life on hold for someone who moved on a while ago.<\/p>\n

And most importantly, you need to realize that you are actually lucky that you\u2019ve gotten rid of this immature boy. That you should thank him for leaving you and per averti spezzato il cuore<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because if he hadn\u2019t done this, he wouldn\u2019t have opened a path to this man who will come into your life and who will show you what true love is. <\/b><\/p>\n

He wouldn\u2019t have made room for a man who will stay by your side through good and bad times and for a man who is meant to be your happily ever after.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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