{"id":31149,"date":"2020-06-11T08:52:44","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T08:52:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31149"},"modified":"2022-09-06T11:36:31","modified_gmt":"2022-09-06T11:36:31","slug":"5-cose-da-sapere-sul-bombardamento-damore-narcisistico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-da-sapere-sul-bombardamento-damore-narcisistico\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose da sapere sul bombardamento d'amore narcisistico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Avete mai sentito parlare del termine \"love bombing\"?<\/p>\n<p>In parole povere, \u00e8 una delle tecniche che i narcisisti usano per arrivare alle loro vittime in modo da bombardarle letteralmente con tutto il loro amore all'inizio della relazione, per poi toglierle tutto, una volta che vedono che lei \u00e8 agganciata.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si incontra per la prima volta un love bomber, si pensa che sia l'uomo dei propri sogni.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, you\u2019ve met someone who isn\u2019t afraid of expressing his true emotions and someone who is anything but a commitment-phobe.<\/p>\n<p>Quest'uomo vi d\u00e0 tutte le attenzioni di cui avete bisogno e si assicura che sentiate la profondit\u00e0 del suo amore in ogni momento.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92503\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia donna sorridente sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t make you question his intentions, doesn\u2019t play hard to get and he obviously doesn\u2019t enjoy the chase.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, gioca apertamente le sue carte ed \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che chiaro che \u00e8 pazzo di voi.<\/p>\n<p>E poi, all'improvviso, colui che pensavate fosse il vostro Mr. Perfect cambia. Diventa distante e misterioso o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/alluomo-che-mi-ha-lasciato-senza-dire-una-parola\/\">si allontana da lei, senza dire una parola.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Vi chiedete cosa sia successo. Avete fatto qualcosa di sbagliato per allontanarlo? Ha perso interesse all'improvviso? Era tutta una recita?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if any of this is familiar to you, then you\u2019ve definitely dealt with narcissistic love bombing. And here is everything you need to know about it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quasi tutti i narcisisti sono dei bombaroli d'amore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92504\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che bacia la donna sulla fronte\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-forehead.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-forehead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-forehead-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se siete alla ricerca di un segno che vi aiuti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-modi-per-individuare-il-manipolatore-narcisista\/\">Riconoscere un manipolatore narcisista<\/a>, questo \u00e8 quanto.<\/p>\n<p>Gli studi dimostrano che una delle caratteristiche pi\u00f9 comuni di tutti i narcisisti \u00e8 il bombardamento d'amore.<\/p>\n<p>It is actually quite simple\u2014all narcissists have trouble with their self-esteem level, even though they want things to be perceived differently.<\/p>\n<p>Sono quelli che lottano costantemente con le insicurezze mentre cercano di presentarsi come le persone pi\u00f9 sicure di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>E uno dei loro modi per rafforzare il proprio ego e affrontare i problemi di autostima \u00e8 cercare conferme dagli altri.<\/p>\n<p>The truth which all narcissists desperately want to hide from the world and from themselves is that they don\u2019t love themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco perch\u00e9 il narcisista ha bisogno che l'oggetto del suo affetto lo ammiri in ogni momento.<\/p>\n<p>Vogliono sentirsi amati e accettati e sono convinti che l'unico modo per farlo sia compiacere questa persona in ogni modo possibile.<\/p>\n<p>Once they see that they\u2019ve managed to win their victim over and once they see that this person is crazy over them, their sense of self-worth improves.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Correlato: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amore-bombardato-e-poi-fantasma\/\">La cruda verit\u00e0 sull'essere stati bombardati d'amore e poi uccisi<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It is a narcissist\u2019s way to control you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92505\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-love-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di innamorati in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-love-standing-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-love-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-love-standing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anche se si potrebbe pensare che aumentare il livello di fiducia sia il motivo principale per cui quasi tutti i narcisisti ricorrono al love bombing, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 ben diversa.<\/p>\n<p>I narcisisti utilizzano questa tecnica per manipolare le loro vittime e renderle emotivamente dipendenti da loro.<\/p>\n<p>A narcissist will do his best to make you get used to him giving you all of this love and the attention you\u2019ve been getting.<\/p>\n<p>Vi renderanno dipendenti dalla sensazione di qualcuno che vi tratta con tanta cura e apprezzamento.<\/p>\n<p>E quando vedono che siete agganciati, si tirano indietro. Ovviamente, a questo punto siete pronti a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di riavere questa sensazione.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 in questi momenti che si darebbe qualsiasi cosa pur di avere un'altra dose del loro amore.<\/p>\n<p>And this is when a narcissist starts to play with you, knowing that they\u2019ve reached their goal and knowing that they have control over you. Because that was their initial plan all along.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 tutto tranne che vero amore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92506\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-the-head.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che bacia la donna in testa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-the-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-the-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-kissing-woman-in-the-head-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando un narcisista inizia con il suo bombardamento d'amore, \u00e8 perfettamente naturale pensare che si tratti di un vero affare.<\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t be happier because after all of those heartbreaks, you\u2019ve finally found a man who treats you right, a man who thinks of you as the center of his universe and a man who loves you unconditionally.<\/p>\n<p>E anche quando l'eccitazione iniziale svanisce e il narcisista vi mostra i suoi veri colori, continuate a pensare che tutte le sue emozioni dell'inizio della relazione fossero reali.<\/p>\n<p>E tutto ci\u00f2 che si desidera \u00e8 che le cose tornino come prima, pensando che sia cos\u00ec che il vero amore dovrebbe apparire e farvi sentire.<\/p>\n<p>This is why it\u2019s important for you to understand that this was all nothing but a manipulation, as much as something like this is never easy to accept.<\/p>\n<p>You have to force yourself to not subconsciously search for this kind of love in every other man you meet because this isn\u2019t healthy and it was anything but true love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Un narcisista \u00e8 ben consapevole di ci\u00f2 che sta facendo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92507\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-hugging-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sorridente che si abbraccia in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-hugging-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-hugging-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-hugging-in-the-living-room-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un'altra cosa da sapere sul love bombing \u00e8 che i narcisisti lo fanno consapevolmente.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to justify them by thinking that they couldn\u2019t control the intensity of their emotions and don\u2019t lie to yourself by thinking that they really were head over heels for you when they acted the way they did.<\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t want to hear this but this was a part of the narcissist\u2019s plan all along and he didn\u2019t do any of&nbsp;t&nbsp;thesehings unaware.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, ha pensato ad ogni passo solo per renderti vittima della sua manipolazione e per farti diventare dipendente da lui.<\/p>\n<p>So please, don\u2019t blame yourself for falling into his trap because none of this is your fault.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">L'unico modo per affrontarlo \u00e8 allontanarsi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92508\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-walking-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"donna che cammina all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-walking-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-walking-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-walking-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Infine, se avete a che fare con qualcuno che ha usato il love bombing su di voi, dovete sapere che non si tratta di una persona con cui potete alla fine venire a patti.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 una persona che cambier\u00e0 strada, anche se promette e giura di farlo, semplicemente perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un manipolatore.<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, l'unico modo per <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/5-modi-in-cui-sono-riuscita-a-rompere-lincantesimo-di-un-narcisista\/\">break a narcissist&#8217;s spell<\/a> \u00e8 allontanarsi il prima possibile, per quanto possa far male.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete essere abbastanza forti da tagliare tutti i legami con questa persona, perch\u00e9 questa \u00e8 l'unica via per la vostra salvezza.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92510\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-To-Know-About-Narcissistic-Love-Bombing-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 cose da sapere sul bombardamento d&#039;amore narcisistico\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-To-Know-About-Narcissistic-Love-Bombing-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-To-Know-About-Narcissistic-Love-Bombing-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-To-Know-About-Narcissistic-Love-Bombing-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-To-Know-About-Narcissistic-Love-Bombing-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever heard about the term \u2018love bombing\u2019? To put it simply, it is one of the techniques narcissists use to get to their victims in a way in which they literally bomb you with all of their love right at the beginning of your relationship and then take it all away from you,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":92509,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31149","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-To-Know-About-Narcissistic-Love-Bombing.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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