{"id":31153,"date":"2021-01-01T08:57:11","date_gmt":"2021-01-01T08:57:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31153"},"modified":"2024-10-30T11:26:48","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T10:26:48","slug":"questanno-smettete-di-scappare-dallamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questanno-smettete-di-scappare-dallamore\/","title":{"rendered":"Quest'anno, smettete di fuggire dall'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019ve been hurt too many times in the past, the only natural thing to do is for you to look for ways to protect your scarred heart from experiencing any more emotional pain.<\/p>\n

It is normal that you are ready to do whatever it takes just to prevent yourself from going through the same kind of hell you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve been broken and wounded by the ones you\u2019ve trusted the most, it is perfectly natural to put your guard up and to become careful when it comes to the people you let in. It is normal to stop seeing the good in people and to become the negative and bitter person you swore you\u2019d never be.<\/p>\n

After all that you\u2019ve been through, one can\u2019t judge you for losing your faith in love.<\/b><\/p>\n

The fact is that the ones you\u2019ve loved the most and the ones you were convinced loved you back have done you the most harm, so consequently you think that the only way to keep yourself safe from all that pain is to rinunciare all'amore <\/a> del tutto.<\/p>\n

Senza nemmeno esserne consapevoli, si ha paura dell'amore.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Costruite spesse mura intorno alla vostra anima, mettete una corazza d'acciaio intorno al vostro cuore e alzate la guardia, convinti che questo sia l'unico modo per salvarvi.<\/b><\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo a te.<\/p>\n

You convinced yourself that pushing people away and not allowing yourself to have meaningful relationships were the only choices you had if you didn\u2019t want to expose yourself to another heartbreak.<\/p>\n

With years, you\u2019ve changed completely. All of this abandonment trauma that you went through caused you to have serious trust issues and made you a different person.<\/p>\n

Ma quest'anno vi prego di smettere di chiudere il vostro cuore all'amore, perch\u00e9 questo vi sta lentamente distruggendo, senza che ve ne rendiate conto.<\/p>\n

Quest'anno vi prego di essere abbastanza coraggiosi da far entrare di nuovo l'amore nella vostra vita.<\/b><\/p>\n

So che avete paura, anche se forse non lo ammettete a nessuno, nemmeno a voi stessi.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

So che rimettersi in gioco fa una gran paura, perch\u00e9 si continua a pensare a tutte le cose brutte che potrebbero accadere e a tutte le conseguenze negative di questa situazione.<\/p>\n

Ma fidatevi di me e, per una volta, smettete di pensare troppo. Per una volta, smettete di pensare al peggio e per una volta abbiate fede.<\/p>\n

Abbiate fede nel fatto che non tutte le persone sono uguali e che arriver\u00e0 un uomo che vi aiuter\u00e0 a cancellare le vostre cicatrici e a sistemare il vostro cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n

That there will come a man who will give you all the love you deserve and a man who won\u2019t think that you are damaged beyond repair.<\/p>\n

Abbiate fede che Dio vi mander\u00e0 finalmente qualcuno degno di voi. <\/b><\/p>\n

Qualcuno che vi aiuter\u00e0 a raccogliere i vostri pezzi rotti e qualcuno che vi far\u00e0 credere di nuovo nell'amore.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto, abbiate fede nel potere dell'amore. Abbiate fede nel fatto che vi aiuter\u00e0 a guarire e che vi aiuter\u00e0 a tornare a essere la persona che eravate prima che accadessero tutte queste cose brutte.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not advising you not to listen to your gut or to give access to just about anyone who wants to enter your life.<\/p>\n

I am not telling you to fight for love which doesn\u2019t exist or to beg for it.<\/p>\n

No, vi chiedo solo di essere pi\u00f9 aperti. Vi chiedo di abbassare la guardia e di smettere di pensare di essere <\/b>non destinato ad essere amato<\/b><\/a>, just because you\u2019ve been through a lot.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vi chiedo di scegliere l'amore al posto dell'odio. Di scegliere il perdono al posto del risentimento. Di liberarvi finalmente dal vostro passato e di essere abbastanza coraggiosi da entrare nel vostro luminoso futuro.<\/p>\n

To stop allowing all the pain you\u2019ve experienced to define you and to stop letting it cage you. Perch\u00e9 l'unica persona a cui fate del male privandovi dell'amore siete voi.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014even if you let love back in your life, it doesn\u2019t mean that you are safe from any negativity or potential pain.<\/p>\n

Yes, there is a possibility that you\u2019ll run into some bad people who will want to hurt you all over again.<\/p>\n

But there is also a big possibility that finally, you\u2019ll find someone who is meant to be yours. That you\u2019ll find your soulmate and the missing piece of the puzzle.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno che render\u00e0 la vostra vita molto pi\u00f9 bella e che vi aiuter\u00e0 a capire che ogni vostro colpo di fulmine \u00e8 avvenuto per un motivo.<\/p>\n

Someone who will give you the love you can\u2019t even imagine exists.<\/p>\n

E sono abbastanza sicuro che valga la pena correre questo rischio.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Quest'anno,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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