{"id":31187,"date":"2019-01-11T10:38:21","date_gmt":"2019-01-11T10:38:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31187"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:42:40","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:42:40","slug":"6-segnali-che-indicano-che-non-avete-ancora-accettato-la-vostra-rottura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-segnali-che-indicano-che-non-avete-ancora-accettato-la-vostra-rottura\/","title":{"rendered":"6 segni che non hanno accettato la rottura (ancora)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non \u00e8 facile accettare che la rottura sia avvenuta davvero, soprattutto se si \u00e8 frequentato una persona con cui si vedeva il proprio per sempre.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why most of us go through the phase of denial in which we decide to ignore the fact that the relationship is over for good, and we feed ourselves with the hope that something will miraculously change.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che potreste non essere nemmeno consapevoli di essere in fase di negazione. Inizia come un meccanismo di difesa che vi protegge da tutto il dolore che la rottura comporta.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you should check the signs and see if you have accepted your breakup.<\/p>\n<h2>1. L'idea di tornare insieme \u00e8 costantemente presente<\/h2>\n<p>Anche se lo neghereste pubblicamente, se qualcuno ve lo chiedesse, nel profondo sperate di risolvere le cose con il vostro ex e di tornare tra le sue braccia.<\/p>\n<p>You spend a lot of time contemplating how to change you ex\u2019s mind. You write them lengthy texts explaining why you two should be together again. You do what you can to make him see you should give this another go,and that\u2019s a pretty clear sign that you haven\u2019t accepted your breakup.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t and under no circumstances should <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-non-vuole-stare-con-te-non-costringerlo-a-restare-2\/\">costringere qualcuno<\/a> into the relationship or beg for a second chance. If he was on the same page with you, he would also reach out and a simple text saying: \u201cHi, how are you?\u201d would be all the push he needs to pursue you.<\/p>\n<h2>2. You can\u2019t stop stalking them on social media<\/h2>\n<p>You can\u2019t bring yourself to unfriend them on social media. You are interested in every new picture and status update they make. You are trying to find the clues and read the signs. and sadly, there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n<p>Avere accesso alla sua vita attraverso i social media vi d\u00e0 una falsa sensazione di vicinanza, e vi sentite ancora come se lui facesse parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>He is not sending you encrypted messages and the longer you browse through his social media accounts the more pain you\u2019ll be in. Don\u2019t do that to yourself. Delete and block, and let him gradually leave your system.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Ci si concentra solo sugli aspetti positivi della relazione.<\/h2>\n<p>When you look back, you only see the good days, happy moments and sweet things he did and you sweep all the bad and ugly in your relationship under the carpet and refuse to get it out. It\u2019s just too painful to deal with all of that mess, and it\u2019s easier to see the positive sides.<\/p>\n<p>Take a step back from your daydreams, and look at the reality. It wasn\u2019t all that great. You probably spent more days crying, worrying and stressing that you weren\u2019t happy.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make your ex into the Prince Charming he never was and admit to yourself that you deserve better.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Metti in pausa la tua vita<\/h2>\n<p>Molte donne lo sperimentano quando la relazione finisce. Si rendono inconsciamente disponibili alla prospettiva che lui torni nella loro vita.<\/p>\n<p>So they pass on business or life opportunities that are in front of them They say \u2018no\u2019 without thinking twice to anyone who asks them on a date. They live in the past, replaying everything that happened in their head instead of moving ahead.<\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself among some of these descriptions, it\u2019s time to wake up. It\u2019s time to realize that he\u2019s gone, and you are just beginning your life.<\/p>\n<h2>5. State cercando di far ingelosire il vostro ex<\/h2>\n<p>One more clear sign that you haven\u2019t fully accepted your breakup is that you still care what he thinks and how he feels.<\/p>\n<p>So you post pictures and selfies in which you look hot. You post things that make him think you have somebody else. You show up with some random guy at the place you know he\u2019ll be at, etc.<\/p>\n<p>State cercando di farlo ingelosire, in modo che si renda conto di ci\u00f2 che ha perso ed eventualmente lo faccia tornare indietro.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Sottovalutate la sua nuova relazione<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s unbelievably hard to grasp that your ex has moved on and started a new relationship with somebody new.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi cercate di sminuire il valore della loro nuova relazione dicendovi che finir\u00e0 presto, che lo sta facendo solo per dimenticarvi, che vi chiamer\u00e0 quando si sar\u00e0 stancato di lei e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, tutto ci\u00f2 che sta facendo \u00e8 inviarti un chiaro messaggio: la relazione tra te e lui \u00e8 finita e tu devi accettarlo.<\/p>\n<p>E anche se si stanca di quella nuova persona e anche se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cose-che-il-tuo-ex-vuole\/\">torna strisciando da voi<\/a>, you don\u2019t need someone like him in your life. The moment he decided to go after someone else is the moment he lost you for good.<\/p>\n<h2>Come accettare la rottura e andare avanti?<\/h2>\n<p>The first step of accepting your breakup is to admit to yourself that you are in denial. And that\u2019s also the trickiest part.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, you have to know that it\u2019s going to be everything but easy and that the quickest way to heal is to embrace the pain that comes with a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto avete bisogno di spazio. Dovete togliergli l'amicizia, bloccarlo ed evitarlo. Andare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/recupero-della-rottura-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto-per-90-giorni\/\">nessun contatto<\/a> \u00e8 la cosa migliore da fare. Dopo qualche mese, avrete una visione della vostra relazione passata molto migliore di quella attuale.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t get over somebody who is constantly present in your life. By keeping him close in any way, you are just prolonging your denial period.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-31193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/to-live-a-creative-life-we-must-lose-our-fear-of-being-wrong.-5-200x300.png\" alt=\"6 segni che non hanno accettato la rottura (ancora)\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/to-live-a-creative-life-we-must-lose-our-fear-of-being-wrong.-5-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/to-live-a-creative-life-we-must-lose-our-fear-of-being-wrong.-5.png 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It isn\u2019t easy to accept that the breakup actually happened, especially if you dated a person with whom you saw your forever. That\u2019s why most of us go through the phase of denial in which we decide to ignore the fact that the relationship is over for good, and we feed ourselves with the hope&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":31192,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31187","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/guys-flirting_lead-2.jpg",800,482,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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