{"id":31214,"date":"2020-09-11T14:06:34","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T14:06:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31214"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:37:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:37:53","slug":"troverai-lamore-quando-smetterai-di-cercarlo-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/troverai-lamore-quando-smetterai-di-cercarlo-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Troverete l'amore quando smetterete di cercarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s face it &#8212; we all want love. And not just any kind of love &#8212; we want an unconditional, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love that doesn\u2019t fade away with time.<\/p>\n<p>Vogliamo trovare la nostra anima gemella, il nostro incontro fatto in cielo, colui che \u00e8 destinato a essere nostro e la nostra persona per sempre, tutto in una sola persona.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t get me wrong &#8212; I am not saying that pursuit for love should be the only thing giving meaning to your existence nor that love is the only important thing in the world. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I am especially not telling you that you can\u2019t be complete on your own and that you need love to fulfill you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che, a un certo punto della nostra vita, tutti vogliamo trovare una persona speciale con cui condividerla.<\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno che faccia sembrare sopportabili tutte le nostre difficolt\u00e0 e risolvibili tutte le nostre sfide.<\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno solo per stare accanto a noi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/scegliete-un-partner-che-vi-prenda-quando-cadete\/\">per prenderci quando stiamo per cadere<\/a> e di tenerci la mano, dicendoci che tutto andr\u00e0 bene anche quando avremo perso ogni speranza.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120320 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una donna dai lunghi capelli castani con un cappotto bianco cammina per la strada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you are no exception. You are not afraid of being alone and you\u2019ve embraced your single life a while ago.<\/p>\n<p>You know what you want and are not a girl who is ready to settle for less so obviously, you don\u2019t even think of finding someone so you are not &nbsp;alone.<\/p>\n<p><b>Instead, you just want to find an ever-lasting connection, a man who\u2019s love will feel like home and a man who will always try his best to always <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/grazie-per-ricordarmi-sempre-come-si-sentono-le-farfalle\/\"><b>ti ricordano come si sentono le farfalle<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even though you don\u2019t want to lower your standards (and you shouldn\u2019t), you are not looking for a perfect man because you don\u2019t think of yourself as perfect either.<\/p>\n<p>Siete ben consapevoli delle vostre imperfezioni e volete solo che qualcuno vi accetti cos\u00ec come siete, senza cercare di cambiarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Volete solo qualcuno che vi capisca e che vi ricambi, a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno con cui invecchiare e che rimanga al vostro fianco nella buona e nella cattiva sorte.<\/p>\n<p><b>But this love you are waiting for isn\u2019t coming, as much as you keep searching for it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120321 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"una donna seduta sulla spiaggia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All you get are immature guys who don\u2019t appreciate everything you have to offer and who don\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>So naturally, you can\u2019t help but wonder what the problem is? You see all those happy couples everywhere you look and it appears like you are the only one who can\u2019t seem to find love.<\/p>\n<p>La colpa \u00e8 vostra? Siete destinati a morire da soli? Non siete destinati a essere amati?<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you one thing &#8212; love will come to you. And it will happen when you least expect it.<\/p>\n<p>Entrer\u00e0 nella vostra vita quando rinuncerete completamente ad essa e quando smetterete di cercarla.<\/p>\n<p>Succeder\u00e0 quando sarete davvero pronti e quando smetterete di scervellarvi per questo.<\/p>\n<p>Once you stop with the overthinking and once the desperation abandons you completely &#8212; thats when love will come.<\/p>\n<p>One morning, when you accept that you\u2019ll never find your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/qualcuno-di-speciale-verra-la-vita-non-dare\/\"> una persona speciale <\/a> , true love will knock on your door and it will bring you everything you\u2019ve expected and more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120322 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con un cappello in testa e gli occhiali da vista\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bisogna solo capire che nulla accade quando vogliamo che accada.<\/p>\n<p><b>The same is with love. Love has the perfect timing and if it still hasn\u2019t come to you, it just means you are not prepared for it yet.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, smettete di aspettare. Smettete di paragonarvi agli altri intorno a voi e smettete di essere ossessionati dal vostro stato di coppia.<\/p>\n<p>Lavorate invece duramente per diventare la migliore versione possibile di voi stessi. Dare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/tutto-lamore-che-avete-dato-vi-tornera-indietro-un-giorno\/\"> tutto questo amore <\/a> che avete nascosto a nessun altro se non a voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Per cambiare, siate egoisti. Concentratevi sul miglioramento e sul vizio di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><b>E, soprattutto, amate e rispettate voi stesse come vi aspettate che faccia un uomo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Invece di stressarvi e di pensare troppo al futuro, provate a seguire la corrente. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t analyze the past, don\u2019t overthink the future and live in the present moment.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Rilassatevi e lasciate che l'amore vi trovi, invece di cercarlo. Vi garantisco che uno di questi giorni lo trover\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120319 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Troverete l&#039;amore quando smetterete di cercarlo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s face it &#8212; we all want love. And not just any kind of love &#8212; we want an unconditional, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love that doesn\u2019t fade away with time. We want to find our soulmate, our match made in heaven, the one who is destined to be ours and our forever person all in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":120318,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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