{"id":31225,"date":"2020-04-11T14:25:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T14:25:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31225"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:40:26","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:40:26","slug":"la-sincera-verita-sul-dare-una-seconda-possibilita-a-un-traditore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-sincera-verita-sul-dare-una-seconda-possibilita-a-un-traditore\/","title":{"rendered":"La sincera verit\u00e0 sul dare una seconda possibilit\u00e0 a un traditore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il tradimento \u00e8 una scelta. Nessuno \u00e8 obbligato a farvi passare tanto dolore, ferita e vergogna, eppure l'ha fatto.<\/p>\n

Il tradimento \u00e8 un atto malvagio e ogni persona che ne \u00e8 coinvolta dovrebbe uscire dalla vostra vita. Anche se si tratta di una persona molto vicina a voi.<\/p>\n

That makes it that much worse. Don\u2019t you think if they loved you so much, they would stop and think about what they\u2019re doing to you?<\/p>\n

Lasciate che questo sia chiaro.<\/b><\/p>\n

When cheating occurs, there are so many chances to stop. So many times when one or both parties are capable of just stopping the whole thing and realizing what a shitty thing they\u2019re about to do.<\/p>\n

And yet, it didn\u2019t happen. So next time you consider giving il tuo uomo <\/a> una seconda possibilit\u00e0 dopo aver distrutto la vostra anima con questo atto di disprezzo, pensateci due volte.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t want to think about you as he was doing it, so why do hell should you give him an opportunity to do it again?<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been put through the wringer by your partner traditore<\/a>, know that you\u2019re not alone. Find solace in the fact that there are so many of us out there struggling to cope with this.<\/p>\n

Trust someone who has been through this before, and after gave out more second chances than I can count, regretting it to the bone\u2026<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the ugly truth. They don\u2019t change. They never take responsibility for what they did, even though they try to make it seem as if they do.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Their perspective remains the same and they don\u2019t reform in any way. It\u2019s a futile battle, trust me, I\u2019ve witnessed it more times than I\u2019d like to admit.<\/b><\/p>\n

And let me tell you what they\u2019re too good at.<\/p>\n

Vi convinceranno facilmente con il loro affascinante sorriso di scuse, gli occhi da cucciolo e le parole giuste che avete bisogno di sentire per sentirvi rassicurati che si \u00e8 trattato solo di un momento di debolezza che non si ripeter\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Non solo non si assumeranno alcuna responsabilit\u00e0 per le loro azioni, ma elencheranno innumerevoli modi in cui sono stati costretti da voi e dal vostro comportamento.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t have enough time for them. You were too busy at work to nurture their fragile egos. You\u2019re always on their case, so they don\u2019t really have a choice but to find a girl who\u2019s going to be there.<\/i><\/p>\n

It’s easier for them to go out there and find comfort in the arms of another woman, instead of being a man, having balls and talking to their girl about whatever issue that is plaguing them.<\/p>\n

I traditori sono troppo bravi con le parole, tenetelo sempre presente.<\/p>\n

Sono i bugiardi pi\u00f9 vili e manipolatori che possiate avere intorno, che giocheranno con la vostra mente dopo avervi fatto un torto e vi spezzeranno l'anima addossandovi la colpa.<\/p>\n

Sono maestri nel vittimizzarsi e nel fare di voi il cattivo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Please be smart about this and don\u2019t let them lure you back into their world of toxic manipulation and giochi mentali <\/a> che vi far\u00e0 pi\u00f9 male che bene.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

They crushed you once, why let them go for round two? People who cheat don\u2019t understand the real meaning of love.<\/p>\n

The unconditional type of love, where there is mutual respect and where partners go through all kinds of crap together, but they don\u2019t let it break them.<\/p>\n

They are not afraid of a challenge, because they know for as long as they stick side by side, they\u2019re good.<\/p>\n

Cheaters aren\u2019t wired this way. Their outlook on love is a warped one, at best.<\/p>\n

Avere intorno la loro anima tossica non far\u00e0 altro che danneggiarvi ulteriormente e invitarvi a tornare in quel mondo velenoso da cui eravate cos\u00ec vicini a uscire.<\/p>\n

Staccate il biglietto e non guardate mai indietro. Se ha tradito una volta, potrebbe farlo di nuovo. Vi meritate di meglio di qualcuno a cui sta bene ferirvi cos\u00ec profondamente.<\/p>\n

Appreciate yourself enough to say \u2018<\/b>No<\/i><\/b>\u2019. You\u2019re too good for him anyway. <\/b><\/p>\n

Show him your strength and leave him with grace. Make him see what he\u2019s missing.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cheating is a choice. Nobody is forced into putting you through so much pain, hurt and shame, and yet, they did. Cheating is a malicious act and every person involved in it should be out of your life. Even if it was with someone really close to you. That makes it that much worse. Don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":75295,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31225","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-Honest-Truth-About-Giving-A-Cheater-A-Second-Chance.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31225","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31225"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31225\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31225"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31225"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31225"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}