{"id":31251,"date":"2020-08-14T10:34:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T10:34:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31251"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:33:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:33:38","slug":"5-consigli-di-esperti-per-dimenticare-una-persona-con-cui-non-sei-mai-uscito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-consigli-di-esperti-per-dimenticare-una-persona-con-cui-non-sei-mai-uscito\/","title":{"rendered":"5 consigli di esperti su come dimenticare una persona con cui non si \u00e8 mai usciti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non si pu\u00f2 perdere qualcuno che non si \u00e8 mai avuto, giusto? Stronzate.<\/p>\n

Getting over a guy you\u2019ve never been in a real relationship with is sometimes even more difficult than moving on from an actual break-up. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you are in love with the man you\u2019ve never had anything with or you are stuck in some kind of an almost relationship\u2014the point is the same; he ti ha spezzato il cuore anche se non siete mai usciti insieme <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sai che devi salvarti e smettere di spezzarti il cuore. Sai che devi allontanarti e lasciarti andare, ma il tuo cuore continua a resistere.<\/p>\n

That is why we are here to give you the most efficient tips on getting over someone you\u2019ve never been in a relationship with. Just follow them and I can assure you that he\u2019ll be gone from your head and heart in no time.<\/p>\n

Iniziare a guardare le cose come sono realmente<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

The first thing you need to do if you really want to get over someone you\u2019ve never been in a relationship with is look at the truth directly in the eye, no matter how painful or harsh it might be for you.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 non c'\u00e8 altro modo di affrontare la realt\u00e0, a meno che non la si accetti, giusto?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me trying to tell you that you aren\u2019t entitled to suffer in any way for this guy or that you are crazy for even thinking about him.<\/p>\n

This is just me asking you to see things for what they really are and accept that they probably won\u2019t ever change.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014even though you don\u2019t want to hear this, the fact is that this man doesn\u2019t care for you.<\/p>\n

Or at least that is his emotions aren\u2019t deep enough to enter a relationship with you.<\/p>\n

No, he won\u2019t change his mind over time. No, he won\u2019t realize that you are the one for him and regret treating you badly.<\/p>\n

E questo non \u00e8 qualcosa che si dovrebbe sprecare la propria vita ad aspettare.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think about everything that could have been<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve accepted the harsh reality, it\u2019s time to understand that you are mostly crying over everything you two didn\u2019t experience.<\/p>\n

You are crying over the fact that you could never call this man your boyfriend, over all the trips you didn\u2019t go on together and over all the memories you didn\u2019t create.<\/p>\n

Nella tua mente, pensi che tutto sarebbe stato perfetto tra voi due se lui ti avesse dato una possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014it wouldn\u2019t have been.<\/p>\n

Stai solo romanzando le cose e pensando a tutto ci\u00f2 che avrebbe dovuto o potuto essere.<\/p>\n

Even though I completely understand your thinking, you also need to understand that none of this is real and it\u2019s time you stop fantasizing about it.<\/p>\n

So instead of obsessing over this potential future that you\u2019ve imagined next to this guy and instead of trying to look for reasons why it could have never worked between the two of you, focus on the present moment.<\/p>\n

Focus on the fact that you don\u2019t have him and forget about all of your plans, dreams and hopes with him because they are obviously not achievable.<\/p>\n

Smettere di idealizzare questa persona<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando si ha una relazione con qualcuno, si vedono anche i suoi lati negativi.<\/p>\n

Si vedono tutte le piccole cose che ci infastidiscono e tutti i tratti della personalit\u00e0 che vorremmo cambiare, anche se li amiamo.<\/p>\n

Ma questo \u00e8 qualcosa che non hai mai avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di sperimentare perch\u00e9 non hai mai vissuto accanto a quest'uomo. Ed \u00e8 per questo che lo state idealizzando.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che non avete mai avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di stancarvi di questa persona. \u00c8 sempre stato una persona irraggiungibile per te ed \u00e8 per questo che non hai mai superato la fase delle farfalle.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, se volete davvero dimenticarlo, dovete togliervi gli occhiali rosa.<\/p>\n

Devi pensare a tutti i difetti di questo ragazzo e concentrarti su questi ogni volta che inizi a rimpiangere di non essere stata con lui.<\/p>\n

Tagliare tutti i legami<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, il processo di guarigione e di superamento non potr\u00e0 mai iniziare se siete ancora in contatto con quest'uomo. Ecco perch\u00e9 dovete tagliare i ponti con lui il prima possibile.<\/p>\n

E quando vi dico di tagliare tutti i ponti, dico sul serio.<\/p>\n

Non contattatelo pi\u00f9, liberatevi di tutto ci\u00f2 che vi ricorda lui, smettete di frequentare i luoghi che conoscete dove potreste incontrarlo e, almeno per un po', smettete di parlare con i suoi amici, cercando di ottenere quante pi\u00f9 informazioni possibili su di lui.<\/p>\n

I know that this isn\u2019t easy. But it is something that has to be done and it is the only way for you to let time heal your wounded heart and do its magic.<\/p>\n

Concentrare tutte le energie su se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019ve done all of the steps mentioned above but there is no significant difference?<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ve removed this man from your life physically but he is still very present in your mind.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t seem to stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 esattamente il motivo per cui \u00e8 necessario reindirizzare tutto questo energy you\u2019ve been wasting on him<\/a> a se stessi.<\/p>\n

Concedetevi qualche giorno per elaborare il lutto e poi iniziate a lavorare su voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Start doing the things you like doing, start pleasing yourself and most importantly\u2014start loving yourself the way you loved him.<\/p>\n

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You can\u2019t lose someone you never had, right? Bullshit. Getting over a guy you\u2019ve never been in a real relationship with is sometimes even more difficult than moving on from an actual break-up. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you are in love with the man you\u2019ve never had anything with or you are stuck in some…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":110368,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Expert-Tips-On-Getting-Over-Someone-You-Never-Dated-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31251","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31251"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31251\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110368"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31251"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31251"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31251"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}