{"id":31291,"date":"2020-05-14T13:49:39","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T13:49:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31291"},"modified":"2022-01-24T12:24:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T12:24:44","slug":"differenze-fondamentali-tra-il-vero-amore-e-una-semplice-cotta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/differenze-fondamentali-tra-il-vero-amore-e-una-semplice-cotta\/","title":{"rendered":"Le principali differenze tra il vero amore e una semplice cotta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes, when you fall for a person really hard, you\u2019re left unsure if it\u2019s amore vero <\/a> you\u2019re feeling or whether it may be just a passing crush.<\/p>\n

It can be really hard to differentiate between the two because they both consume you and leave you with butterflies in your stomach\u2014the only difference being that one will likely pass.<\/p>\n

But how do you know when it\u2019s love, when it\u2019s just a crush, and how to act on it? I know. It\u2019s a real puzzle, but there are ways to help you decipher this eternal mind boggle and act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcune differenze fondamentali che vi aiuteranno a distinguere il vero amore da una semplice cotta!<\/p>\n

1.<\/b> When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>La cosa che vi attrae di quella persona sar\u00e0 un certo aspetto fisico o un tratto, come gli occhi, il sorriso, la personalit\u00e0 estroversa, le tette o una voce straordinaria.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>, there won\u2019t be just one thing that makes them so appealing.<\/p>\n

Everything about them will be so alluring and inviting, and you won\u2019t be able to pinpoint just one thing.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the big difference. When you\u2019re in amore <\/a>, you will be attracted to this person as a whole package, and you won\u2019t even notice certain little things because you\u2019ll be able to see the entirety of their amazingness.<\/p>\n

In a crush, you\u2019ll find them attractive or intriguing because of a certain thing, but there won\u2019t be that grand feeling of overwhelming attraction and connection as is the case with love.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

2.<\/b> When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>sentirete l'irrefrenabile bisogno di impressionarli costantemente e di mostrarvi nella migliore luce possibile.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll only wear your best clothes, you will always have your face perfectly made up, and you will watch your every move, sometimes even stooping to tiny lies in order to make the best impression.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>Vi sentirete perfettamente a vostro agio nell'essere esattamente chi siete in ogni momento.<\/p>\n

There won\u2019t be pressure to always look your best and be careful what you say.<\/p>\n

Vi farete vedere da loro per chi sei <\/a>e non ci sar\u00e0 da fingere.<\/p>\n

Either they will love you for you or you\u2019re out. Playing pretend will not interest you with this guy.<\/p>\n

Real love makes you feel good about yourself, no matter what you\u2019re wearing and how you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 l\u00ec per sollevarvi e per amarvi per la vostra straordinaria persona in ogni momento.<\/p>\n

Con una cotta, sarete costantemente costretti a vestirvi di tutto punto e a comportarvi al meglio, perch\u00e9 il pensiero che questa persona vi veda nel vostro accogliente abbigliamento casalingo vi spaventa.<\/p>\n

3.<\/b> When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>I vostri argomenti di discussione saranno dolci, si limiteranno a sfiorare la superficie, senza approfondire le questioni importanti, come i sentimenti, la famiglia e le vostre ambizioni di vita.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be too comfortable talking about the big stuff, about everything that goes on inside your head, and your biggest fears and insecurities. This just won\u2019t be that type of a thing.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>Vorr\u00e0 discutere con lui delle cose pi\u00f9 intriganti e complesse. Niente sar\u00e0 off limits e potrete parlare per ore, senza mai stancarvi.<\/p>\n

You will call him on the phone, and it will be the most beautiful part of your day that you\u2019ll never wish would end.<\/p>\n

Lui conoscer\u00e0 il vero voi e voi condividerete volentieri con lui le profondit\u00e0 della vostra mente.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il modo principale per distinguere tra i due. Ci\u00f2 di cui parlate con questa persona dice molto sul futuro che potreste avere o meno.<\/p>\n

Ti va bene raccontargli i tuoi segreti pi\u00f9 profondi o non ti senti a tuo agio se sa troppo? Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, si tratta di una cotta e passer\u00e0.<\/p>\n

When you meet somebody who will make you feel like it\u2019s real love, you will be over the moon to share your entire self with him.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

4.<\/b> When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>, you will constantly feel like you\u2019re in a hurry. The excitement and the rush will constantly consume you, and you will always feel like time is running out.<\/p>\n

The moment you\u2019re in will always feel so fleeting, and you will be scared of it passing, which will stem from the insecurity of not knowing if it will happen again.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>, you won\u2019t feel the need to rush anything. You will be at peace, not hurrying anywhere.<\/p>\n

Love takes time to build, one step at a time, and you\u2019ll know it won\u2019t run off anywhere.<\/p>\n

You will allow it to grow while you nurture it with love, care and patience. Love is not a race, and you will be understanding of it. It\u2019s always there, and you will feel secure in it.<\/p>\n

If you feel insecure and like it\u2019s going to vanish if you don\u2019t dedicate every second to it, it\u2019s probably not love. Love never makes you feel rushed and unsure.<\/p>\n

It builds your self-esteem and makes you comfortable with taking your time. Anything worth having is not supposed to be forced. If it is, it\u2019s probably not real love.<\/p>\n

5.<\/b> When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>, you\u2019ll be kind of obsessed with him, but not in a good way.<\/p>\n

Vi dimenticherete dei vostri amici e della vostra famiglia e avrete questa malsana ossessione di passare ogni minuto con lui.<\/p>\n

It will ruin your social life, and you will be in too much of a heightened state to notice what you\u2019re doing. It will consume you, in the worst way possible.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>Vi avviciner\u00e0 molto, ma avr\u00e0 anche un impatto positivo sulle relazioni con le persone pi\u00f9 care.<\/p>\n

Vorr\u00e0 la loro approvazione e la loro opinione. Vi interesser\u00e0 cosa pensano di lui perch\u00e9 per voi sono ugualmente importanti.<\/p>\n

Non li trascurerete mai e permetterete loro di dare il loro onesto contributo.<\/p>\n

A crush makes you momentarily forget what\u2019s important and disregard those who truly matter to you.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be completely yourself, and you will hate yourself for it later on when the dust settles.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in love, the support of your friends and family will mean everything. You will care about everyone getting along and lifting each other up.<\/p>\n

\"famiglia<\/p>\n

6.<\/b> When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>Il pensiero del confronto vi spaventa molto. In caso di litigio, avrete sempre la sensazione che questo possa significare la vostra fine, quindi vi sentirete costantemente insicuri ed eviterete di discutere a tutti i costi.<\/p>\n

This means you\u2019ll never be able to be one hundred percent yourself, as you will always try to avoid disagreements by agreeing with things you normally wouldn\u2019t agree with.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>Capirete che a volte \u00e8 normale che ci siano attriti tra voi due e che occasionalmente si verificheranno dei disaccordi.<\/p>\n

It only means you both care enough to fight for each other, and you\u2019re not scared of opening yourself up to the fullest and being vulnerable.<\/p>\n

In love, there will always be tiny quarrels and discussions. But you will know that it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s the end.<\/p>\n

Significa solo che avete delle cose da risolvere, ed \u00e8 esattamente quello che farete.<\/p>\n

You will never fear that being open and honest will lead to your relationship\u2019s doom.<\/p>\n

Sarete un fronte unito, capace di affrontare i problemi pi\u00f9 grandi che vi si presenteranno.<\/p>\n

7.<\/b> When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>, you will get easily jealous and possessive. If he takes too long to reply or if he hasn\u2019t called that day, you\u2019ll feel a little crazy and mad at him.<\/p>\n

It will really bug you not hearing from him for a few hours, as you will be sure he\u2019s with someone else or doing something he shouldn\u2019t be doing.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>, you will feel a sense of peace and trust. You won\u2019t go crazy if he doesn\u2019t immediately get back to you because you have the utmost trust in him.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t go into panic mode if you haven\u2019t heard from him<\/a> for half a day because you know he\u2019ll call or text as soon as he gets a chance.<\/p>\n

Love brings you peace, serenity and faith in each other. You don\u2019t go attacking him for the smallest things, and you don\u2019t let your mind get the better of you.<\/p>\n

When you feel okay and at peace when he\u2019s away and not able to text at all times, it\u2019s real love you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n

Una cotta vi far\u00e0 impazzire senza motivo e la vostra gelosia sar\u00e0 al massimo.<\/p>\n

\"Le<\/p>\n

\"Le<\/p>\n

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