{"id":31327,"date":"2020-05-15T08:45:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-15T08:45:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31327"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:11:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:11:01","slug":"5-modi-per-sopravvivere-quando-lui-vi-lascia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-per-sopravvivere-quando-lui-vi-lascia\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi per sopravvivere quando lui vi lascia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Solo voi sapete come vi sentite. Nessuno pu\u00f2 essere paragonato a voi.<\/p>\n<p>Il tuo dolore \u00e8 solo tuo. Posso dirti che ti capisco, posso dirti che so come ci si sente, ma il tuo dolore e il mio non sono uguali.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, siamo stati entrambi lasciati a pezzi. S\u00ec, entrambi abbiamo provato l'orrore di qualcuno che si allontanava da noi. Ma lo abbiamo sentito in modo diverso.<\/p>\n<p>I can only tell you that it\u2019s going to pass. Soon, it will be all over with. I can tell you it hurt me like hell as well. I wanted my life to end, I felt foolish, played and betrayed. I felt unwanted.<\/p>\n<p><b>So che anche voi vi sentite cos\u00ec e voglio dirvi<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>resistere ancora un po'.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ci saranno giorni in cui penserete che la vostra lotta sia giunta al termine.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re just about to go out with your friends, you\u2019re getting dressed, but out of the middle of nowhere, all of a sudden, you don\u2019t want to go anywhere.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92558\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta da sola sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quella sensazione orribile vi consuma e tutto ci\u00f2 che volete fare \u00e8 tornare a letto.<\/p>\n<p>Ci saranno momenti in cui si affaccer\u00e0 nella vostra mente senza essere invitato.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see someone or something on the street that will remind you of him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be triggered by something small and silly and all the memories will come rushing back.<\/p>\n<p>Queste cose accadranno spesso e devono accadere. Non potete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/ti-prego-trovami-dopo-un-colpo-di-fulmine\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> superare un cuore spezzato <\/a> in a day. Sadly, you have to suffer, you have to hurt, but you\u2019ll get out of it stronger and smarter.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>But what you have to do is keep taking each day step by step, even if sometimes that step seems more like a crawl\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Piangere per tutto il tempo necessario<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange nella stanza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Permettete a voi stessi di crollare. Urlate, spaccate le cose, piangete.<\/p>\n<p>Fate quello che volete. Chiudetevi tra le vostre quattro mura e state da soli. Trascorrete tutto il tempo di cui avete bisogno completamente soli.<\/p>\n<p>Affronta i tuoi problemi e superali. Nessuno lo far\u00e0 per te.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciate che la vostra camera da letto diventi la vostra prigione e soffrite per tutto il tempo necessario. Maledici il mondo, maledici lui, maledici te stessa per aver permesso che ti disturbasse.<\/p>\n<p>Hit rock bottom, get to a situation where you don\u2019t have anything to lose, when you\u2019re at your breaking point, because you can only go up from there.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to be sad. In those moments of total despair, when you\u2019re fighting to get back to normal, you come to so many realizations.<\/p>\n<p>You realize that you\u2019re the only person guaranteed to give the love you deserve to yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Amare ogni centimetro del proprio corpo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna con capelli ricci in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re beautiful. Your body is perfect just the way it is. You\u2019re one unique person and there is no one else in the world like you.<\/p>\n<p>Why wouldn\u2019t you love yourself? Isn\u2019t that the most special thing about you, about all of us? We are all unique and irreplaceable.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t listen to anyone. Don\u2019t obsess over why he left you. Is it the way you look? Is it because you\u2019re not pretty enough for him?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 una stronzata. Cancellate tutti questi pensieri dalla vostra testa, perch\u00e9 sono completamente sbagliati.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Remind yourself that you\u2019re beautiful<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92562\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che si rilassa al sole\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Look deep into yourself and remember all the things you like about yourself. Remember all the things you\u2019re good at.<\/p>\n<p>Individuate tutte le cose diverse di voi.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll find the love you\u2019ve lost and the self-respect you\u2019ve misplaced somewhere deep inside you.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciate che risplenda di nuovo, che riveli tutti i vostri talenti e le vostre capacit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Ricorda che sei una bella persona.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rendi il tuo cuore di nuovo vivo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92563\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda felice che guarda lontano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Someone left you, someone walked away from you, but that is not how your story ends. It\u2019s just one chapter.<\/p>\n<p>Il lutto \u00e8 un altro e la guarigione \u00e8 uno dei periodi difficili che vi aspettano.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to fall in love again. You\u2019re not going to be sure he won\u2019t hurt you either but you\u2019ll love.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll give him everything you have, you\u2019ll go all-in, like you always do.<\/p>\n<p>Your heart will skip a beat when you are around him. You\u2019ll feel butterflies in your stomach. Love will find its way to you once again.<\/p>\n<p>You will feel alive again. And if you get hurt, you\u2019ll go through everything once again. And you\u2019ll become even better and stronger.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t mask your pain<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92565\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t pretend you\u2019re okay. Don\u2019t lie to others or yourself. I know you think you have to put on a fake smile because you have to be strong all the time.<\/p>\n<p>But that is not true. You don\u2019t have to be tough and you don\u2019t have to smile all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Se volete, comportatevi come vi sentite. Sii uno stronzo totale, arrabbiato, scontroso, triste. Siate come vi sentite.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to hide your pain. Don\u2019t try to hide your vulnerability. You\u2019re not a machine.<\/p>\n<p>Sei una donna. Sei una donna con il cuore spezzato. Siete una donna che soffre.<\/p>\n<p><i> For now, don\u2019t try to be anything else. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92557\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi per sopravvivere quando lui vi lascia\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Only you know how you feel. No one can compare to you. Your pain is only yours. I can tell you I understand, I can tell you I know how it feels, but your heartbreak and mine are not the same. Yes, we were both left broken. Yes, we both felt the horror of someone&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":92566,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31327","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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