{"id":31424,"date":"2020-05-17T08:44:03","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T08:44:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31424"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:43","slug":"7-motivi-per-cui-ti-ha-lasciata-anche-se-ha-detto-di-amarti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-ti-ha-lasciata-anche-se-ha-detto-di-amarti\/","title":{"rendered":"7 motivi per cui ti ha lasciato anche se ha detto di amarti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gli uomini possono essere cos\u00ec complicati a volte. Non appena pensate di sapere cosa pensa e cosa prova per qualcosa, vi sorprende, ma in modo negativo.<\/p>\n<p>Un giorno pu\u00f2 essere tutto da favola e il giorno dopo pu\u00f2 venire da voi e dirvi che vuole lasciarvi. E poi dicono che le donne sono complicate!<\/p>\n<p>La maggior parte delle donne che conosco ha avuto sfortuna in amore, perdendo l'uomo che le aveva promesso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-painful-signs-he-is-not-your-happily-ever-after\/\">per sempre felici e contenti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Diceva loro che li amava, e poi scappava senza alcun motivo.<\/p>\n<p>The catch is that there was always a good reason, but they were blind in love and couldn\u2019t see the reality around them.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I am bringing top reasons men pull away even if they say they love you.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Ha avuto paura<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90228\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Couple-having-argument-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che discute sul divano di casa in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Couple-having-argument-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Couple-having-argument-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Couple-having-argument-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno dei problemi pi\u00f9 grandi in una relazione \u00e8 quando un ragazzo si blocca.<\/p>\n<p>Forse il vostro uomo si \u00e8 preoccupato di impegnarsi e ha capito che sarebbe stato meglio andarsene piuttosto che restare con voi.<\/p>\n<p>He probably saw that marriage is a big deal, and he didn\u2019t want to mess up his life, so he ran away.<\/p>\n<p>And that doesn\u2019t have anything to do with the fact that he loves you. He can love you more than anything, but his fear is stronger than anything else.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Non \u00e8 emotivamente pronto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90229\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo guarda pensieroso la prossima donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Forse il vostro uomo credeva di essere pronto per le cose serie, ma quando ha visto che una relazione seria porta con s\u00e9 tante cose nuove, ha deciso di mettere fine a tutto questo.<\/p>\n<p>Ha capito che sarebbe stato meglio lasciarvi piuttosto che darvi false speranze.<\/p>\n<p>And he can tell you or repeat that he loves you over and over again, but if he is not emotionally ready for something serious, he won\u2019t stay close for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 solo questione di tempo quando se ne andr\u00e0, senza darvi alcuna spiegazione.<\/p>\n<h2>3. The relationship doesn\u2019t move on as he would want it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90230\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-trying-to-defense-from-arguing-by-her-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che cerca di difendersi dalle discussioni della sua donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-trying-to-defense-from-arguing-by-her-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-trying-to-defense-from-arguing-by-her-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-trying-to-defense-from-arguing-by-her-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I ragazzi sono piuttosto sensibili quando si tratta di relazioni e di ci\u00f2 che possono aspettarsi da esse.<\/p>\n<p>So, if he doesn\u2019t like the way everything moves, chances are that he will leave it all.<\/p>\n<p>Scapper\u00e0 via da tutto quello che c'era tra voi due e lo dimenticher\u00e0 perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/segni-che-ha-paura-di-quanto-gli-piaci\/\">ha paura<\/a> that he won\u2019t be happy in life.<\/p>\n<p>Ha paura di finire con qualcuno che non \u00e8 perfetto per lui e che la sua vita sar\u00e0 mediocre. E questa \u00e8 la peggiore punizione possibile per lui.<\/p>\n<h2>4. La relazione \u00e8 diventata una tortura per lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90231\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"L&#039;uomo discute con la sua ragazza, seduta accanto a lui sul divano.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Forse il vostro uomo si trova in una fase della sua vita in cui ha semplicemente bisogno di ritrovare se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Forse ha bisogno di un po' di tempo per organizzare la sua vita e stabilire delle priorit\u00e0. E in tutto questo disordine, ci sei tu. Tu che vuoi amore e affetto.<\/p>\n<p>You who need him to make you feel safe and to protect you. And he doesn\u2019t know what to do with his life. So it is not a wonder that he wants to escape something like that.<\/p>\n<p>If he feels threatened, he won\u2019t stay in that kind of a relationship even if he says he loves you.<\/p>\n<h2>5. He doesn\u2019t see himself with you in the future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90232\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-while-leaning-on-wooden-wall.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con in mano una tazza di caff\u00e8 mentre si appoggia a una parete di legno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-while-leaning-on-wooden-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-while-leaning-on-wooden-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-while-leaning-on-wooden-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are probably thinking: why did he choose you in the first place if he doesn\u2019t see himself with you, right? Well, people change, and that is what happened to him as well.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason, he currently doesn\u2019t see himself with you in the future.<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn\u2019t mean he doesn\u2019t love you. He still thinks you are an amazing human being.<\/p>\n<p>He is just sincere enough to tell you he can\u2019t make you a priority currently.<\/p>\n<p>Forse cambier\u00e0 idea, forse alcune cose andranno a suo favore in seguito, ma in questo momento della sua vita, tutto ci\u00f2 che vuole \u00e8 stare da solo.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Pensa che lo stiate dando per scontato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90233\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"messa a fuoco superficiale di un uomo pensieroso seduto accanto a una donna in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maybe your man doesn\u2019t feel good in your relationship because he believes you are taking him for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Forse crede che lo stiate paragonando ad altri ragazzi e che stiate valutando se volete stare con lui in una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why he will leave you even if he loves you. And I know that you won\u2019t be able to understand that at first, but if you just walk in his shoes, you will see how he feels.<\/p>\n<p>Se sente che vi piace qualcun altro e che lo state dando per scontato, vi lascer\u00e0 e non torner\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<h2>7. La vostra vita sessuale non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 interessante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90234\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-couple-lying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"coppia premurosa sdraiata sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-couple-lying-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-couple-lying-on-bed-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-couple-lying-on-bed-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One thing that can make any guy leave you even if he loves you is a bad sex life. If things are not good underneath the sheets, then you can\u2019t expect him to be all glowing and happy.<\/p>\n<p>Il sesso \u00e8 una parte essenziale di ogni relazione, e dovrebbe essere buono come tutte le altre parti.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se il vostro uomo vede che le cose non sono pi\u00f9 come prima, \u00e8 probabile che se ne vada finch\u00e9 non cambia qualcosa.<\/p>\n<p>But if he wanted you just because of that, then you really don\u2019t need him in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Avrebbe dovuto innamorarsi della tua anima e non del tuo corpo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90226\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Reasons-He-Left-You-Even-If-He-Said-He-Loved-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 motivi per cui ti ha lasciato anche se ha detto di amarti\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Reasons-He-Left-You-Even-If-He-Said-He-Loved-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Reasons-He-Left-You-Even-If-He-Said-He-Loved-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men can be so complicated sometimes. As soon as you think you know what he thinks about and how he feels about something, he surprises you but in a negative way. It can be all fairytale one day and the next he can come to you and tell you he wants to break up. And&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":90227,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31424","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Reasons-He-Left-You-Even-If-He-Said-He-Loved-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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