{"id":31430,"date":"2020-05-17T08:57:12","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T08:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31430"},"modified":"2022-02-24T00:52:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T00:52:53","slug":"7-motivi-per-cui-state-ancora-lottando-per-andare-avanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-state-ancora-lottando-per-andare-avanti\/","title":{"rendered":"7 motivi per cui state ancora lottando per andare avanti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ok, vi siete lasciati e ormai dovresti sapere cosa fare della tua vita.<\/p>\n<p>Ma il problema \u00e8 che non avete idea di cosa fare e in quale direzione andare.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do, you are still obsessed with your ex, and you can&#8217;t stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do you can&#8217;t move on, and here are some reasons why this happens to you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Lo vedete tutti i giorni<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95523\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-tree.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in piedi accanto all&#039;albero\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-tree.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-tree-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 difficile dimenticare una persona che si \u00e8 amata o che si ama ancora in quel modo.<\/p>\n<p>Ci vuole un po' di tempo da soli, ma se lo vedrete ogni giorno, sar\u00e0 ancora pi\u00f9 difficile dimenticarlo e andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni giorno che lo vedrete, vi torneranno in mente i vecchi ricordi e comincerete a pensare di dargli un'altra possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you should stay away from him and try not have any contact with him. That is the only way you can move on.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le sue cose vi ricordano lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95524\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-holding-hands-on-the-face.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna preoccupata che si tiene le mani sul viso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-holding-hands-on-the-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-holding-hands-on-the-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-holding-hands-on-the-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you haven&#8217;t gotten rid of his mementos, it is about time to do that.<\/p>\n<p>If you leave all of his stuff near you, you are risking it reminding you of him all the time. And because of that, you won&#8217;t have enough space to move on.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you won&#8217;t have any space at all.<\/p>\n<p>You will be stuck in that almost relationship you don&#8217;t want to be a part of, and you won&#8217;t be happy.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you need to get rid of everything that reminds you of him and start a new chapter of your life free from all those memories.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You still can&#8217;t believe it is over<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95525\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t accept the fact your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-major-red-flags-show-relationship\/\">la relazione \u00e8 finita<\/a>Sar\u00e0 cos\u00ec difficile per voi andare avanti e trovare la vostra felicit\u00e0 altrove.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you are still holding onto something that is not real anymore and that makes a huge problem in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Because you can&#8217;t accept it is over, you are still hoping you will be together after some time.<\/p>\n<p>Semplicemente sentite che non \u00e8 questo il modo in cui la vostra relazione dovrebbe finire e continuate a sperare che le cose migliorino.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il dolore dura pi\u00f9 a lungo di quanto si pensi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95527\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Perdere un fidanzato \u00e8 come perdere una persona molto importante della propria vita. \u00c8 un uomo con cui avete condiviso tutto e ora vi sentite male perch\u00e9 \u00e8 finita.<\/p>\n<p>State attraversando tutte le fasi del lutto, ma poich\u00e9 si trattava di un grande amore, il processo dura un po' di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>And because of that, you are struggling to move on. You simply can&#8217;t leave the past where it belongs and turn to the future.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Stai ancora fantasticando su voi due...<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95528\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste con pensieri profondi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You feel that at times you don&#8217;t give a damn about your ex, but at other moments, you would kill to be with him one last time.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t think clearly, and as soon as you see a happy couple on the street, you start fantasizing it could be the two of you.<\/p>\n<p>Poi iniziate a fare progetti per il vostro futuro e a immaginare come potreste vivere una bella vita insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Ed \u00e8 questo che vi rovina e vi impedisce di andare avanti. E questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 di cui avete davvero bisogno in questo momento.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You didn&#8217;t get closure<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95529\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-skinny-woman-standing-by-the-balcony-door.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna magra in piedi davanti alla porta del balcone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-skinny-woman-standing-by-the-balcony-door.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-skinny-woman-standing-by-the-balcony-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-skinny-woman-standing-by-the-balcony-door-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not getting closure is something that can affect you a lot. If you didn&#8217;t get what you wanted, it is impossible to move on.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t move on and decide to start something new if you haven&#8217;t finished your last relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, prima di fare qualsiasi tentativo, assicuratevi di sapere perch\u00e9 vi siete lasciati.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta risolti tutti questi problemi, non avrete pi\u00f9 problemi e sarete in grado di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-cose-che-succedono-quando-finalmente-si-supera-una-relazione-interrotta\/\">finalmente andare avanti<\/a> come meritate.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Provi ancora dei forti sentimenti per lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95530\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-top.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna preoccupata seduta sul tetto\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-top-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-top-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Forse una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti che vi impedisce di andare avanti \u00e8 il fatto che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/odio-il-fatto-di-non-aver-ancora-voltato-pagina-con-te-2\/\">provi ancora qualcosa per lui<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you can&#8217;t get over him so easily, and you feel you haven&#8217;t finished with him. If you still love him, then talk and see if you can be together.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you decide you won&#8217;t be together, at least you will talk and solve some things.<\/p>\n<p>Almeno saprete di aver fatto tutto il possibile per salvare il salvabile. E sapendo questo, sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 facile andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pinterest-7-Reasons-You-Are-Still-Struggling-With-Moving-On.jpg\" alt=\"7 motivi per cui state ancora lottando per andare avanti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pinterest-7-Reasons-You-Are-Still-Struggling-With-Moving-On.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pinterest-7-Reasons-You-Are-Still-Struggling-With-Moving-On-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pinterest-7-Reasons-You-Are-Still-Struggling-With-Moving-On-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pinterest-7-Reasons-You-Are-Still-Struggling-With-Moving-On-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, you two broke up, and by now you should know what to do with your life after all. But the catch is that you have no idea what to do and in which direction to go. No matter what you do, you are still obsessed with your ex, and you can&#8217;t stop thinking about&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":95532,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Reasons-You-Are-Still-Struggling-With-Moving-On.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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