{"id":31439,"date":"2020-01-17T10:03:28","date_gmt":"2020-01-17T10:03:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31439"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:00:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:00:43","slug":"tutto-cio-che-voglio-davvero-e-un-amante-che-sia-anche-il-mio-migliore-amico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tutto-cio-che-voglio-davvero-e-un-amante-che-sia-anche-il-mio-migliore-amico\/","title":{"rendered":"Tutto ci\u00f2 che voglio davvero \u00e8 un amante che sia anche il mio migliore amico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avere qualcuno con cui condividere i propri pensieri pi\u00f9 intimi e profondi - e sentirsi a proprio agio e sicuri nel farlo - \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che rappresenta la vera intimit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dare il mio corpo a qualcuno \u00e8 molto intimo e significativo, ma avere quella persona non solo come amante ma anche come <\/span>migliore amico<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 ci\u00f2 a cui ambisco veramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finding a lover isn\u2019t that hard of a job anymore. It\u2019s relatively easy to find a person who would want to sleep with you and then disappear from your life. That is the sad reality we\u2019re living in.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma trovare una persona che voglia restare e condividere la vita con voi in tutti i suoi alti e bassi \u00e8 la parte pi\u00f9 difficile.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Condividere il letto con qualcuno e avere un'avventura occasionale \u00e8 facile. Molti uomini e donne vorrebbero avere l'opportunit\u00e0 di passare una notte di eccitazione e piacere senza alcun impegno e senza che i sentimenti possano ostacolarli.<\/span><\/p>\n

But I want more. I want a lover who will understand how my body works and take his time with me, knowing we\u2019ve got our whole lives ahead of us. I want to connect with him on more than just a physical level.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want somebody will know how my mind works. A man who will be attracted to my intellectual side just as much as my physical one.  I want to be able to share my soul with him. I want him to be my passionate lover who is at the same time the best friend I\u2019ll ever have.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio qualcuno che <\/span>essere presenti<\/span><\/a> when I cry on the kitchen floor, feeling completely lost and misunderstood. I want him to wipe away my tears and tell me it\u2019s going to be okay because he\u2019s here.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio che si giri verso il mio lato del letto nel momento in cui si sveglia e mi dia un enorme bacio sulle labbra, svegliandomi nel modo pi\u00f9 piacevole possibile.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Voglio che rida di quanto sono buffi i miei capelli al mattino e li scompigli in modo carino, e che mi dia un bacio significativo sulla fronte prima di alzarsi per andare al lavoro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio un amante che mi chieda a che ora esco dal lavoro, in modo che possa venire a prendermi perch\u00e9 ha programmato un'intera serata per noi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio guardare le partite di calcio con lui, bere birra e ridere a crepapelle perch\u00e9 riesce a farmi ridere fino a farmi quasi pisciare addosso.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want us to travel together. I want us to explore as much of the world as possible. I want us to have that relationship where we love nothing more than being in each other\u2019s company because we get each other on a whole new level that nobody can quite understand.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want him to feel like I\u2019m one of his closest buddies, who he can go out with, laugh for hours on end with, play darts with and make fun of each other, and then make out for 5 minutes straight because he\u2019s so freaking attracted to me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I want a best friend type of relationship in which we are so open with each other that there is literally nothing we can\u2019t talk about, but at the same time, where we can just spend a whole weekend in bed together, snuggling, watching TV, making out and feeling perfectly content.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want him to send funny texts to me all the time that will make me laugh out loud while I\u2019m at work and make me feel so happy that I have this man to come home to.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want him to miss me so much while I\u2019m on a work trip that he won\u2019t let me out of his sight the moment I get back, wanting to hear all about it, and then spend the night in bed, up until the early hours of the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio tutto. Voglio ridere con lui. Voglio essere un'idiota totale con lui e voglio che mi conquisti con un solo sguardo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio che sia <\/span>la mia persona<\/span><\/a>, il mio amante e il mio migliore amico in tutto l'universo con cui posso condividere tutta la mia vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Having somebody you can share your most intimate and deepest thoughts with\u2014and feel comfortable and secure while doing so\u2014is what true intimacy represents. Giving my body to someone is very intimate and meaningful, but having that person as not just a lover but also a best friend is what I truly strive for. Finding a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":31440,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sweet-ice-cream-photography-624496-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31439"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31439\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}