{"id":31447,"date":"2020-08-17T10:21:23","date_gmt":"2020-08-17T10:21:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31447"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:57:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:57:37","slug":"il-vero-amore-dovrebbe-guarire-non-ferire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-vero-amore-dovrebbe-guarire-non-ferire\/","title":{"rendered":"Il vero amore deve curare, non ferire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How many times have you heard someone saying: \u201c <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lamore-non-consiste-nel-rimanere-con-qualcuno-che-ti-fa-del-male\/\"> L'amore fa male <\/a> \u201d? And how many times how you believed it yourself?<\/p>\n<p>I did, too. I used to believe that love hurts like hell because when you\u2019re unable to fall asleep and wipe away all of your tears, when your heart is shattered into million tiny pieces, the only thing that seems logical is to say that love hurts.<\/p>\n<p>Vorrei che qualcuno mi avesse detto allora quanto mi sbagliavo completamente.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love doesn\u2019t hurt you. A person that doesn\u2019t know how to love hurts you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yes. It\u2019s the only truth in the whole, wide universe. Love doesn\u2019t bring you tears. A person that doesn\u2019t know how to make you happy does. Love doesn\u2019t make you feel less worthy. A person that doesn\u2019t know how to appreciate you does.<\/p>\n<p>Love is not something that enters your life and changes its meaning without you being consent. The type of love you accept from others determines the outcome. When something bad happens, it\u2019s silly to blame love for being harsh to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Il vero amore dovrebbe guarire, non ferire.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120216 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con lunghi capelli castani e occhiali guarda altrove\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-and-glasses-looks-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il vero amore \u00e8 bello e puro come un fiocco di neve in inverno. \u00c8 altruista, commovente, generoso e umile. \u00c8 cos\u00ec forte che \u00e8 in grado di spostare le montagne e, allo stesso tempo, \u00e8 fragile come una piuma.<\/p>\n<p>Per tutte le sue caratteristiche, il vero amore dovrebbe curare e non ferire. Dovrebbe portare il sorriso sul viso, l'amore in ogni poro del vostro essere, farvi sentire beati e in contatto con il vostro vero io.<\/p>\n<p><b>Whenever you start doubting the healing power of love, ask yourself whether the love you\u2019re accepting is true.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When your heart\u2019s been broken too many times, it\u2019s hard to believe in the healing power of love because you haven\u2019t had the opportunity to experience it yet. When your tears have been streaming down your face for too long, it\u2019s hard to believe in the healing power of love because you no longer trust anyone.<\/p>\n<p>All of the pain and struggle you\u2019re going through now is just a side effect of the person that didn\u2019t know how to love you. It\u2019s not love that has made you feel this way. Love, when it\u2019s true, never makes you doubt it for a single second.<\/p>\n<p><b>Il vero amore dovrebbe aprire gli occhi, non chiuderli.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>True love makes you realize that all this time, you\u2019ve been wasting your seconds on those who were never meant to stay. It shows you the difference between selfless love and selfish love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120214 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater.jpg\" alt=\"una donna dai lunghi capelli castani con un maglione grigio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-gray-sweater-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi fa sentire rinati perch\u00e9 ha il potere di cancellare tutti gli errori del passato e di impedirvi di ripeterli. Vi fa sentire amati per quello che siete veramente.<\/p>\n<p><b>Il vero amore dovrebbe essere beato e spontaneo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tutti quei gesti carini e romantici che si fanno per qualcuno per dimostrargli quanto lo si ama sono come il cibo per il vero amore. Amare una persona incondizionatamente significa sforzarsi di farle sorridere e di farla sentire speciale.<\/p>\n<p>Non ha nulla a che vedere con il numero di faccine che avete ricevuto sui vostri social network. Non ha nulla a che vedere con il numero di volte in cui qualcuno vi ha detto che vi ama.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/5-ways-in-which-he-will-show-that-you-are-his-one-true-love\/\"> Il vero amore <\/a> is in every spontaneous kiss you get from your loved one. It is in wiping tears from each other\u2019s faces, holding hands while you\u2019re sleeping, and never forgetting to let each other know how much you appreciate everything your partner does for you. True love is not jealous, selfish, poisonous, or toxic.<\/p>\n<p><b>True love knows someone\u2019s weaknesses, but it doesn\u2019t use them against them. It accepts them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vi aiuta a diventare la versione migliore di voi stessi, accettando ogni vostro difetto e stranezza. Vi d\u00e0 spazio per mostrare i vostri veri colori e non vergognarvene mai. Vi ispira, vi motiva e vi spinge a raggiungere la grandezza e la felicit\u00e0 finale.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120212 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con lunghi capelli biondi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Il vero amore rimane.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When something bad happens, true love doesn\u2019t hide itself. It\u2019s there with you, holding your hand and telling you that everything will be alright. True love is not afraid of being challenged because it knows that patience and persistence will make it win.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that true love is not supposed to hurt. True love is supposed to heal your wounds, accept your flaws, keep you safe, and love you unconditionally. And if it doesn\u2019t, it means you didn\u2019t find it yet.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120211 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/True-Love-Is-Supposed-To-Heal-Not-Hurt-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Il vero amore deve curare, non ferire\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/True-Love-Is-Supposed-To-Heal-Not-Hurt-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/True-Love-Is-Supposed-To-Heal-Not-Hurt-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/True-Love-Is-Supposed-To-Heal-Not-Hurt-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/True-Love-Is-Supposed-To-Heal-Not-Hurt-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/True-Love-Is-Supposed-To-Heal-Not-Hurt-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How many times have you heard someone saying: \u201c Love hurts \u201d? And how many times how you believed it yourself? I did, too. I used to believe that love hurts like hell because when you\u2019re unable to fall asleep and wipe away all of your tears, when your heart is shattered into million tiny&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":120210,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31447","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/True-Love-Is-Supposed-To-Heal-Not-Hurt-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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