{"id":31476,"date":"2020-09-18T08:37:22","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T08:37:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31476"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:49:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:49:03","slug":"ha-aspettato-che-tu-ti-dessi-una-regolata-ma-tu-lhai-scacciata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ha-aspettato-che-tu-ti-dessi-una-regolata-ma-tu-lhai-scacciata\/","title":{"rendered":"Lei ha aspettato che tu mettessi insieme le tue cose, ma tu l'hai cacciata via"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pensavi che ti avrebbe aspettato mentre tu impiegavi il tuo prezioso tempo a sistemare le tue cose?<\/p>\n<p>Sorry, but no. She\u2019s got better things to do! Life is not a movie.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not some romantic comedy in which the guy acts like a complete jerk the whole way through, and in the final 5 minutes he realizes what an asshole he was and wants to make amends.<\/p>\n<p>E la cosa peggiore? La ragazza ci casca sempre. <b> Beh, non questa ragazza!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t have time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/praticare-la-pausa\/\">mettere in pausa la sua vita<\/a> while you\u2019re busy deciding whether or not she\u2019s worth getting your act together.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t have time to feel like she\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/che-si-fotta-perche-gli-piaci-ma-non-abbastanza-da-impegnarsi\/\"> non sufficiente <\/a> for you to act the way she deserves and mull over your options while she sits there, wondering if you\u2019ll stay committed when you get it together and see how special she is.<\/p>\n<p>You see, people eventually get tired of having to fix someone all the time. For a while, she\u2019ll try. She\u2019ll give you the benefit of the doubt and hope she doesn\u2019t regret it.<\/p>\n<p><b>But the minute you show her that her effort and her kindness are in vain, she\u2019s out the door, and you\u2019re never seeing her again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s off finding somebody worthy of her time and her effort. She is nobody\u2019s fool. She has a life which she no longer plans putting on hold all because of some asshole who can\u2019t make up his mind.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-117520\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"il ritratto di una bella donna giovane\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Love only takes you so far, and now she\u2019s had it. You only have yourself to blame for this. She gave you her best, and you wasted her time.<\/p>\n<p>She has reached the point of no return. And when she decides that she\u2019s done with you, she really means it.<\/p>\n<p>By the time this gets through to you, she\u2019ll be living her best life with somebody who knows how to value her.<\/p>\n<p>Ora ha finalmente assaggiato com'\u00e8 la vita senza di te. Ora vede cosa si \u00e8 persa.<\/p>\n<p>Ora, lei sa che non tutti gli uomini sono manipolatori e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/coward-play-games-somebodys-heart\/\"> giochi <\/a> . Ora vede che \u00e8 possibile trovare un suo pari che la apprezzi e la ami.<\/p>\n<p>Ora si rende conto di aver sprecato tanto tempo con un ragazzo che non si sarebbe mai impegnato.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che la stava trattenendo, per poterla usare il pi\u00f9 a lungo possibile, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un debole e un codardo.<\/p>\n<p><b>But guess what? She\u2019s not even mad! <\/b> \u00c8 grata che lei le abbia mostrato cosa non deve mai pi\u00f9 sopportare.<\/p>\n<p>Ora pu\u00f2 apprezzare il vero tipo di romanticismo e non guardarsi pi\u00f9 indietro.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you can go on and list all the reasons why she should\u2019ve stayed and how you are the best she\u2019ll ever get.<\/p>\n<p>But look at her now. You\u2019re no longer a presence in her mind. You are a mere memory that has taught her a valuable and tough lesson.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-117519\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"il ritratto di una giovane donna sdraiata sull&#039;erba\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lei sta vivendo la sua vita migliore con una persona che la ricopre di amore, onest\u00e0 e apprezzamento, mentre tu sei ancora quella triste, patetica scusa per un essere umano, bloccato nelle sue vecchie abitudini, che ricorre a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sta-facendo-dei-giochi-mentali-o-ha-perso-interesse-10-modi-per-scoprirlo-2\/\"> giochi mentali <\/a> e amarezza per ottenere ci\u00f2 che si vuole.<\/p>\n<p>But now, you see that it\u2019s no longer working, and you\u2019re left alone with no one willing to put up with your shit again. And she is out there without a care in the world.<\/p>\n<p><b>Vince lei.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sorry to disappoint, but nobody deserves to spend their life dealing with another person\u2019s bullshit on a regular basis, trying to fix that person when he is unwilling to fix himself.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody deserves the drama and pain that comes with being with you, all the while wondering if you\u2019re going to choose her in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Now all that is behind her. She\u2019s had it with your shady ways and shitty days.<\/p>\n<p>And now, I\u2019m guessing you\u2019re slowly realizing what you\u2019ve lost\u2014a person who was willing to go to war for you, giving you her complete loyalty and dedication, until she realized it was no longer worth it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lunica-cosa-buona-che-hai-fatto-per-me-e-stata-quella-di-uscire-dalla-mia-vita-2\/\">L'hai lasciata andare<\/a>. L'hai cacciata via.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she\u2019s living her happy, healthy life, while you\u2019re dwelling in misery trying to convince yourself you didn\u2019t need her anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Buona fortuna, perch\u00e9 indovinate un po'? <b>She really doesn\u2019t care anymore<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-117505 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lei ha aspettato che tu mettessi insieme le tue cose, ma tu l&#039;hai cacciata via\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you think she was going to wait for you while you took your precious time getting your shit together? Sorry, but no. She\u2019s got better things to do! Life is not a movie. It\u2019s not some romantic comedy in which the guy acts like a complete jerk the whole way through, and in the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117504,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31476","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31476"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31476\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31476"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}