{"id":31494,"date":"2020-09-18T10:19:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T10:19:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31494"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:03","slug":"tutto-cio-di-cui-ho-bisogno-in-una-relazione-e-coerenza-e-impegno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tutto-cio-di-cui-ho-bisogno-in-una-relazione-e-coerenza-e-impegno\/","title":{"rendered":"Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno in una relazione \u00e8 coerenza e impegno"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non ho pi\u00f9 intenzione di indorare la pillola. Se non riuscite a soddisfare i miei standard, non ho pi\u00f9 tempo per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno che tu sia una costante nella mia vita e non solo qualcuno che risponde occasionalmente ai miei messaggi.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno che tu mi chiami e mi chieda come va la giornata. Voglio che sia tu a iniziare la comunicazione ogni tanto.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t be the only one texting and calling first. That makes me feel like you\u2019re not really in this for the long haul.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno del tuo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/lelenco-definitivo-degli-sms-del-buongiorno-per-lei\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> testi del buongiorno <\/a> ogni mattina e non solo quando abbiamo qualcosa in programma.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ho bisogno di sapere che sono la prima persona a cui pensi quando ti svegli e voglio che tu mi chieda tutti i dettagli della mia giornata perch\u00e9 voglio raccontarti tutto. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But I don\u2019t want to feel like a burden and tell you stuff that I feel doesn\u2019t interest you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112549\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che messaggia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want you to make plans with me on weekends. Not just when your buddies are busy but even when they\u2019re all free, I want you to choose me sometimes and go on a little adventure together.<\/p>\n<p>I fine settimana significano conforto e voglio sapere che sono io a confortarvi.<\/p>\n<p>If you make a promise, I need you to stick to it. I don\u2019t want to continuously get disappointed by your endless excuses and empty promises to make it up to me.<\/p>\n<p>If you aren\u2019t a man of your word, I\u2019m sorry but I can\u2019t do this with you. I need consistency and effort. Anything else\u2013I\u2019m out.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio che mi mandi un messaggio di buonanotte ogni sera.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio sapere che sono il tuo ultimo pensiero prima di andare a dormire e ho bisogno che tu mi rassicuri quando mi sento insicuro e paranoico senza motivo.<\/p>\n<p>Love isn\u2019t all sunshine and rainbows and there are going to be days when I won\u2019t be easy to handle.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll get a little jealous and insecure and I need you to understand me and comfort me.<\/p>\n<p>Running away when things aren\u2019t blissful and exciting is a dick move. Only cowards leave when things get rough.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/real-men-dont-make-excuses-they-make-an-effort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Uomini veri <\/a> stay when it\u2019s a little challenging. That is what will make our relationship solid and genuine.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112550\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che consola una donna triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I want you to want to be with me and not just when you want sex. It\u2019s more than okay to be physically attracted to me and I love that but I need more.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I need to feel close to you in other ways too. I need to know that you love spending time with me, even when it doesn\u2019t include sex.<\/p>\n<p>Dobbiamo essere in grado di parlare per ore di tutto e di niente e niente sar\u00e0 off limits.<\/p>\n<p>I need to feel comfortable telling you stuff I can\u2019t tell anyone else.<\/p>\n<p><b>Voglio che tu <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ti-ho-lasciato-ma-volevo-che-tu-combattessi-per-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>lotta per me<\/b><\/a><b>. I want you to tell me I look beautiful when I\u2019m a mess and I don\u2019t feel so good about myself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> I need to feel your love when I\u2019m tired and exhausted after a long day.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I need actions that will follow your words. You need to put in just as much effort into this as I am. I can\u2019t waste time on anything half-assed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112551\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si tiene per mano e si guarda negli occhi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want you to tell me that you love me when I least expect it. And I need you to tell me that as often as possible. I don\u2019t think that is too much to ask.<\/p>\n<p>I want your support. When I achieve something I\u2019m really proud of, I need you to be my biggest cheerleader.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio che tu sia orgoglioso di me, che festeggi con me e che mi faccia sentire speciale. Perch\u00e9 tu sei speciale per me.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio sentire le tue opinioni sincere sulle cose importanti per me. Voglio che tu sia incluso nella mia vita in ogni modo possibile.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t feel like I\u2019m boring you with anything, otherwise it\u2019s not going to work.<\/p>\n<p>Mi interessano la tua vita, i tuoi amici, i tuoi hobby e le cose con cui hai difficolt\u00e0. Voglio essere io ad aiutarti a superare le cose e ho bisogno che tu sia lo stesso con me.<\/p>\n<p>When you tell me you\u2019re going to call me, I need to know that you\u2019re not just saying that and you\u2019re actually going to call me.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make me question everything. I need to feel secure with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ho bisogno della vostra coerenza prima di ogni altra cosa. Ho bisogno di sapere che posso contare su di lei, che mi fido di lei e che lei ha investito in questo progetto. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c8 cos\u00ec che so che abbiamo una possibilit\u00e0 concreta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112552\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"uomo innamorato che abbraccia una donna sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hearing \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/33-frasi-damore-dolci-e-significative-per-il-vostro-partner\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Ti amo <\/a>\u2019 will always be my favorite three words from you but I need you to keep proving that, because consistency means checking in on me and having a sense of commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio che tu mi conosca, il vero me stesso, con tutti i suoi difetti, e che mi ami nonostante tutte le mie mancanze.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno che tu sia sempre orgoglioso di me e che mi presenti alle persone che sono importanti per te, perch\u00e9 questo mi fa sentire importante anche per te.<\/p>\n<p>Your honesty will always be needed, even when it\u2019s hard telling me the truth. I would rather hear the harsh truth than a white lie.<\/p>\n<p>Consistency means you won\u2019t wake up one day and decide you want something else.<\/p>\n<p>It means you\u2019re in this for the long haul and that you\u2019re ready for anything that may come our way.<\/p>\n<p>We are a team and there is nothing we can\u2019t overcome.<\/p>\n<p>Ti amo e ho bisogno di sapere che mi ami abbastanza da continuare a farlo con me, perch\u00e9 sai che valiamo ogni difficolt\u00e0 e ogni lotta.<\/p>\n<p><b>I don\u2019t ask for a lot. Just be consistent, make an effort and stay true to your word. Everything else will come easy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112554\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno in una relazione \u00e8 coerenza e impegno\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m not going to sugar-coat anything anymore. If you can\u2019t meet my standards, I don\u2019t have time for you anymore. I need you to be a constant in my life and not just someone who occasionally answers my texts. I need you to call me and ask how my day is going. I want you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":112553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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