{"id":31540,"date":"2020-06-21T11:20:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T11:20:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31540"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:48:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:48:48","slug":"come-iniziare-il-sesso-con-il-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-iniziare-il-sesso-con-il-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Come iniziare il sesso con il partner"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perhaps you\u2019ve been in a relationship for a long time or with someone new and when it comes to initiating sex, you find it difficult to devise a proper way of doing it.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be too pushy, passive or confusing so that your partner doesn\u2019t get the wrong idea of your intentions.<\/p>\n

You also don\u2019t want to just say: \u201cLet\u2019s do it!\u201d because it\u2019s totally unproductive and it will create a counter effect.<\/p>\n

Il modo migliore per iniziare il sesso con il partner \u00e8 farlo con sensualit\u00e0 e in modo creativo, il che a volte \u00e8 difficile, ma quando ci si prende la mano, vi assicuro che diventer\u00e0 una seconda natura.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a woman, don\u2019t be overwhelmed when it comes to letting your partner know that you would like to have some action.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the thinking that men are supposed to be the ones initiating it prevent you from doing the same because that is what society imposes on you all this time. It is not true.<\/p>\n

Initiating sex is something you shouldn\u2019t be ashamed of because it is totally normal and desirable by both sexes. It also gives you the opportunity to take control over your sexuality and embrace it.<\/p>\n

Vi d\u00e0 la possibilit\u00e0 di prendere in mano la situazione e, di tanto in tanto, di essere voi a comandare, il che \u00e8 (se lo chiedete a qualsiasi uomo l\u00e0 fuori) molto sexy.<\/p>\n

Come iniziare il sesso con il partner<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Ci sono molti modi per iniziare il sesso (come vedrete di seguito), ma prima di immergervi in questo argomento, dovete ricordare che qualsiasi opzione scegliate, dovete rimanere rilassati.<\/p>\n

Molte persone si sentono frustrate per questo motivo, perch\u00e9 elaborano nella loro testa ogni possibile scenario prima ancora di provarci.<\/p>\n

It is especially hard to think positively if your partner seems a little bit upset, and you would like to cheer them up by spicing things up in bedroom or some new pose that you\u2019ve come up by reading Kama Sutra.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the environment and other details discourage you from making the first move when it comes to sex.<\/p>\n

Se vi mantenete rilassati e scegliete l'approccio giusto in base al loro stato d'animo, \u00e8 probabile che tutto vada come desideravate (o addirittura che superi le vostre aspettative) e vedrete che le cose non sono cos\u00ec complicate come potevate pensare.<\/p>\n

13 modi per iniziare il sesso con il vostro partner e rendere pi\u00f9 piccante la vostra camera da letto<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Siate diretti<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Il modo pi\u00f9 semplice e talvolta pi\u00f9 efficace \u00e8 essere diretti. Niente giri di parole, niente presentazioni inutili.<\/p>\n

Chiedete al vostro partner se ha voglia di fare qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Alcune persone lo amano semplicemente perch\u00e9 \u00e8 audace e diretto, e vi far\u00e0 risparmiare sia i nervi che il tempo (e Dio sa che non si ha mai abbastanza tempo).<\/p>\n

Ma non vi consiglio di usare questo metodo se il vostro partner non \u00e8 dell'umore giusto per fare qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Se si sentono gi\u00f9 di morale o sono preoccupati per qualcosa, chiedere loro se vogliono saltare a letto con voi sarebbe del tutto inadatto.<\/p>\n

Invece, \u00e8 sempre meglio iniziare con un massaggio leggero e arrivare lentamente al punto (se capite cosa intendo).<\/p>\n

Parlare sporco<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Dirty talk is underrated most of the times, but it shouldn\u2019t be so. It is a playful and sexy way of telling your partner that you would like to have some fun with them.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re at a party or among a crowd, talking dirty is a nice way of letting your partner know what they should expect when you come home.<\/p>\n

It will build great sexual tension, and they will surely know that you\u2019re in the mood for something spicy. Just slowly whisper into their ear and let your imagination do the rest.<\/p>\n

Siate certi che i clienti avranno immediatamente i brividi e si ecciteranno, aspettando il momento di lasciare il locale.<\/p>\n

Complimentarsi con loro<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Un altro ottimo modo per iniziare il sesso con il partner \u00e8 quello di complimentarsi con loro<\/a>. Provate a dire quanto sono sexy o che vi piace il loro nuovo taglio di capelli o qualcos'altro.<\/p>\n

Compliments are a great way to increase your partner\u2019s mood and prepare them for action because they work as confidence boosters.<\/p>\n

And when your partner is feeling good, your half of your job is done. But, don\u2019t bombard them with too many compliments because it will create a counter effect.<\/p>\n

Deve suonare naturale e come se lo pensasse davvero.<\/p>\n

Dimostrate loro che sono l'uomo pi\u00f9 bello o la donna pi\u00f9 bella del mondo. Questo vi avviciner\u00e0 e sar\u00e0 un'ottima transizione verso l'intimit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Turn routine activities into fun (especially if you don\u2019t have time)<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Your daily chores and other tasks shouldn\u2019t prevent you from initiating sex with your partner.<\/p>\n

Potete trarre vantaggio da questa situazione e usarla per iniziare il sesso con il vostro partner quando meno se lo aspetta. \u00c8 un modo piacevole per rompere la routine e provare qualcosa di nuovo.<\/p>\n

So, when you\u2019re in the kitchen together or doing laundry, try subtly touching your partner and letting them know that you would like to have sexy time with them.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to wait for the perfect moment because every moment is the perfect moment if you know how to approach it sensually and with care.<\/p>\n

Utilizzare parole in codice<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

A volte iniziare un rapporto sessuale sembra impossibile a causa delle circostanze che vi impediscono di farlo.<\/p>\n

Per esempio, potreste essere nella stessa stanza con i vostri figli quando iniziate a pensare di iniziare un rapporto sessuale con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n

Quindi, il modo pi\u00f9 semplice per farlo senza che se ne accorgano \u00e8 usare parole in codice.<\/p>\n

Come si fa? Basta ideare alcune frasi che si userebbero normalmente in una conversazione e pronunciarle ogni volta che se ne ha voglia.<\/p>\n

You can ask your partner something, and they can reply positively or negatively in accordance with their mood about having sex with you. It\u2019s easy and fun at the same time.<\/p>\n

Inviare messaggi flirtanti<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Potete provare a inviare al vostro partner degli sms flirtanti in cui gli dite quanto vi manca e quanto vorreste che fosse accanto a voi.<\/p>\n

Use the power of your imagination and the power of today\u2019s technology to your advantage (especially if your partner is currently not around the house or wherever you are).<\/p>\n

Ma anche se si trovano nella stessa stanza con voi o in cucina, potete comunque inviare loro messaggi flirtanti che saranno piccanti e spiritosi allo stesso tempo.<\/p>\n

And when you feel like you can\u2019t endure it anymore, just jump onto each other and do everything that you\u2019ve been texting about all this time.<\/p>\n

Ideare un richiamo per l'accoppiamento<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Here’s an interesting one. The concept is simple. Devise a mating call that when one partner imitates it (a certain animal), the other follows them with their own response that implies yes or no.<\/p>\n

For example, monkeys have a specific mating call. You can implement this sound. It\u2019s funny, amazing, and it gets the job done.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also much simpler, and more entertaining, to make this sound than just say: Let\u2019s do it! But don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n

If the situation is just right, there’s no need to act like a monkey or certain animal because it will be just waste of time and totally unnecessary.<\/p>\n

Agire<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling bold, forget about the verbal approach. Instead, take action by taking your partner by hand and going to the bedroom or somewhere else where you would like to have sex with them.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re a woman, your man will be amazed by your dominant side and the decision to take things in your hands and do what makes you happy.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, potete sorprendere il vostro partner camminando in mutandine per casa o semplicemente spogliandovi quando meno se lo aspetta.<\/p>\n

This kind of unexpected surprise will definitely be a great initiation for further action. It is simple, effective, and you don\u2019t have to say a word.<\/p>\n

Fare sesso di mattina<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Morning sex is in most cases overrated because couples don\u2019t feel that comfortable about engaging into steamy activities when they\u2019ve just woken up and didn\u2019t shower, brushed their teeth or similar.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, dovreste assolutamente iniziare a fare sesso al mattino, perch\u00e9 a quell'ora l'ormone del desiderio sessuale (testosterone) \u00e8 al massimo.<\/p>\n

A simple touch and kiss will do the job. You don\u2019t have to try hard by going out of your way to initiate something.<\/p>\n

Tutto andr\u00e0 di pari passo e l'unica cosa di cui dovrete preoccuparvi sar\u00e0 godervi il momento.<\/p>\n

So, next time you wake up next to your partner, do not be appalled by the idea of having sex with them just because you didn\u2019t manage to finish your bathroom rituals.<\/p>\n

Ricordare il proprio passato azioni bollenti<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve had some steamy activities before that are worth remembering (and I\u2019m sure you have), try reminding your partner of them.<\/p>\n

Simply start talking about whether they remember the day when you\u2019ve got home from your job, started cooking and end up making out, and the rest is history.<\/p>\n

Ricordare le vostre passate azioni piccanti creer\u00e0 un legame tra voi due e il vostro cervello lo collegher\u00e0 immediatamente al piacere.<\/p>\n

And you will be thirsty for more. Your body will also get ready to engage in more pleasure, so that you can recall it again after a few months when you\u2019re about to initiate sex with your partner.<\/p>\n

Scegliere una data e un orario<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you’re pretty busy during the week, bring out an old-fashioned calendar, circle a date and write down the time of your encounter.<\/p>\n

This might sound disturbing because it ain\u2019t spontaneous and it feels like a chore, but this anticipation is what makes you bubble down there, between your legs.<\/p>\n

Just simply talk to your partner about a date and time, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll come to a mutual agreement.<\/p>\n

Although least exciting, this method also has its pros. For example, when you\u2019re being casual all the time, sometimes you don\u2019t have sex that often because one of the two of you is not in the mood.<\/p>\n

Ma quando avete cerchiato una data e un'ora, ci proverete di sicuro, e se non va, chi se ne frega.<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019ll have sex more often than if you were too casual about it.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come fare sesso pi\u00f9 spesso<\/a><\/p>\n

Sorprendete il vostro partner con un gioco di ruolo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This is one of my personal favorites. It\u2019s interesting, entertaining and to the point. When you feel like initiating sex with your partner, try surprising them with some role playing.<\/p>\n

Cambiate voce, iniziate a parlare di qualcosa di totalmente estraneo a ci\u00f2 di cui stavate parlando fino a pochi minuti prima e procedete per gradi, introducendoli al vostro gioco.<\/p>\n

You can also surprise them by putting a blindfold on their face while approaching them from the back. I\u2019m sure their heart rate will immediately increase, and the fun will be inevitable.<\/p>\n

Siate creativi e pensate a un gioco di ruolo che non sia n\u00e9 troppo difficile n\u00e9 troppo semplice. Qualcosa che piaccia a entrambi.<\/p>\n

Giocattoli sessuali<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t mean instantly using your sex toy in front of them because it would be a little bit word (but if it\u2019s something that you\u2019re comfortable with, then why not).<\/p>\n

Mostrate il vostro nuovo sex toy al vostro partner spiegandogli in modo giocoso cosa avete appena comprato. Potete anche fargli indovinare di cosa si tratta.<\/p>\n

If it is handcuffs, you can simply put it on their hands in a playful manner and I\u2019m sure they will instantly start to follow your lead and cooperate.<\/p>\n

Qualunque cosa sia, basta scegliere il momento giusto e creare un ambiente in cui si sentano a proprio agio e ispirati a provarla con voi.<\/p>\n

Just choose the approach that you\u2019re most comfortable with and if all else fails, then try to talk to your partner and explain them that something\u2019s not right. But, don\u2019t accuse them.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the only one initiating sex all the time tell them that you would like them to do the same.<\/p>\n

After all, it takes two to tango. If your partner is not willing to cooperate even though you\u2019ve tried everything, the problem could be in them and not you.<\/p>\n

Pensate a tutto con attenzione e, cosa pi\u00f9 importante, godetevi ogni momento.<\/p>\n

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