{"id":31614,"date":"2019-11-22T10:08:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-22T10:08:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31614"},"modified":"2022-07-05T09:53:52","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T09:53:52","slug":"voglio-un-ragazzo-a-cui-importi-veramente-qualcosa-di-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/voglio-un-ragazzo-a-cui-importi-veramente-qualcosa-di-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Voglio un ragazzo a cui importi davvero qualcosa di me"},"content":{"rendered":"

La vita \u00e8 troppo difficile quando si \u00e8 soli. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can lie to yourself and to others that you\u2019re better off single than in a relationship but truth be told, that is only accurate when it comes to choosing between being single and being in <\/span>una relazione di merda.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Se la scelta fosse diversa, se doveste scegliere tra avere una relazione felice e essere single, quale scegliereste?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Scegliereste di stare con qualcuno, scegliereste di essere felici. Perch\u00e9 le persone non sono destinato a rimanere solo. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Abbiamo bisogno di qualcuno con cui condividere i nostri sogni e le nostre speranze, di qualcuno con cui piangere quando siamo tristi e feriti. Abbiamo bisogno della nostra anima gemella, della nostra persona. <\/span><\/p>\n

I want all of that. I want someone to help me get up when life kicks me to the ground. I need someone to tell me I\u2019m good enough when I lose my self-esteem. <\/span><\/p>\n

I need someone who will love me at my most unlovable. I need someone who won\u2019t give up on me in my darkest days. <\/span><\/p>\n

I want love but I don\u2019t want heartbreak.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec difficile continuare a dare seconde possibilit\u00e0 e continuare a farsi spezzare il cuore ogni singola volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

How can you break the walls around you and let someone in when you almost positively know you\u2019ll end up hurting more than before?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done making myself believe a guy wants me just because he said so. I\u2019m done proving to myself that someone cares for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done constantly being on the fence between thinking \u2018he likes me, he likes me not!\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio un ragazzo che se ne freghi davvero di me!<\/b><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll show me he loves me. <\/b><\/p>\n

Words don\u2019t mean shit. I can\u2019t even tell you how many times I\u2019ve sat down and listened to crazy promises and meaningless words. <\/span><\/p>\n

How many times I have wanted to leave and he would get me back with a few clich\u00e9d lines, a few re-creations of romantic movies. <\/span><\/p>\n

That used to work but not anymore. As I\u2019ve said already, I don\u2019t want to make myself believe he loves me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to latch on to one thing he said that seemed positive and hopeful and hold on to it, hardly believing it\u2019s true. <\/span><\/p>\n

I want a man who will act and be quiet. I want a man who won\u2019t make me any promises. I want a guy who will simply do.<\/span><\/p>\n

He will start the car and warm it up before I do. He will make me dinner because he knows I\u2019ve been working hard the whole day. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si presenta al mio lavoro senza preavviso per portarmi a pranzo solo perch\u00e9 mi ama. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be good to me because he wants to, not because he wants others to see it. <\/b><\/p>\n

He will talk me up because he\u2019s proud of me. He won\u2019t lie about me or try to convince people I\u2019m that great just because he’ll look good. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll genuinely believe I can do whatever I want and that I\u2019m capable enough to pursue my dreams. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll walk by my side proudly. He\u2019ll be the man walking next to an independent woman. He\u2019ll be my support, I\u2019ll be his.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll spend time with me but he\u2019ll know when to give me some space. <\/b><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t act like he owns me. He won\u2019t force me to live his life. He\u2019ll encourage me to have a life of my own, he\u2019ll support my independence. But still, he will spend time with me. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Not because he needs to but because he wants to. Our interests will be similar and he\u2019ll enjoy doing the things I love and I\u2019ll enjoy doing the things he loves.<\/span><\/p>\n

But when he sees that I need some time alone, he\u2019ll give it to me. He won\u2019t question our relationship and he won\u2019t feel threatened. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that I need to sort myself out and he\u2019ll leave me to do so. He knows I won\u2019t bother him when I can handle it myself. And he knows that any time I need his help, I will ask for it.  <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what a man who really cares about you does. Unlike those who automatically think that you don\u2019t love them and you\u2019ve found someone else the second you want some time alone.<\/span><\/p>\n

When he\u2019s not around me, he won\u2019t forget that I exist.<\/b><\/p>\n

In his free time, I won\u2019t have to worry that he\u2019ll cheat on me. I won\u2019t have to worry that he\u2019ll forget that I exist. <\/span>He\u2019ll text me he misses me<\/span><\/a> e mi ama. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be with me even when he\u2019s not. Because that is what true love is. You love someone equally when they are not there.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we fight, he\u2019ll leave me to cool off. <\/b><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll give me my space but he\u2019ll never leave my side. Even if he\u2019s angry with me, he\u2019ll be there for me. He won\u2019t be insulted about something I\u2019ve done. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t look at our fight as something that can\u2019t be fixed. Even if he\u2019s right and I\u2019m wrong, he’ll reach out to me and try to make things better. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t sulk and be silent for days because he\u2019ll love me and he\u2019ll care about my feelings, unlike every other man I\u2019ve dated.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll inspire me to be the best I could ever be. <\/b><\/p>\n

La vita con lui ha un futuro luminoso. La vita con lui sar\u00e0 qualcosa che non vorr\u00f2 mai perdere. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t tend to my every need because he won\u2019t have to but he\u2019ll challenge me and try to make me a better person every day. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il nostro futuro sar\u00e0 felice perch\u00e9 siamo destinati a stare insieme. Siamo giusti l'uno con l'altro e ci rispettiamo a vicenda.<\/span><\/p>\n

The guy I want will give a fuck about me because all those who don\u2019t are no longer an option. I\u2019m not settling for less than I deserve. Not anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Voglio<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Life\u2019s too hard when you\u2019re alone. You can lie to yourself and to others that you\u2019re better off single than in a relationship but truth be told, that is only accurate when it comes to choosing between being single and being in a crappy relationship. If the choice was different, if you were to choose…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":31615,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31614","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sahin-yesilyaprak-1207010-unsplash-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31614","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31614"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31614\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31615"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31614"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31614"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31614"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}