{"id":31644,"date":"2020-05-22T13:01:32","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T13:01:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31644"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:53:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:53:28","slug":"7-cose-da-fare-quando-vi-accorgete-che-non-tornera-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-da-fare-quando-vi-accorgete-che-non-tornera-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose da fare quando ci si rende conto che non torner\u00e0 pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. Accettare che se ne sia andato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90187\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"donna riflessiva seduta a casa ad occhi chiusi\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La prima cosa da fare \u00e8 accettare che se ne sia andato e che non torner\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Se avesse voluto stare con te, sarebbe rimasto con te e avrebbe risolto i problemi che avevate.<\/p>\n<p>Ma ovviamente ha deciso di rinunciare a te e a tutto quello che avevate.<\/p>\n<p>E questo \u00e8 qualcosa che non si deve mai dimenticare. N\u00e9 perdonare. Una volta accettato che non fa pi\u00f9 parte della vostra vita, sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 facile iniziare un nuovo capitolo della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Datevi il tempo di guarire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90188\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"foto in primo piano di una persona che piange con gli occhi marroni\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando qualcuno che amiamo se ne va, abbiamo bisogno di un po' di tempo per guarire e per rimetterci in piedi.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t rush anything because there is plenty of time to do whatever you want.<\/p>\n<p>Se avete voglia di piangere, allora piangete. Se avete voglia di urlare, allora urlate.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t bottle up those emotions. Let everything toxic get out and once that happens, you will be able to start things over.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta che vi sarete concessi il tempo necessario per guarire, riuscirete a dimenticare colui che vi ha lasciato e che non si \u00e8 mai voltato indietro.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Imparare dagli errori<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90189\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane ragazza triste seduta da sola su una pietra all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Relationships are a two-way street and you can\u2019t blame only one person for the things that happened.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to accept the fact that maybe you made some mistakes in that relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Forse hai continuato a dargli seconde possibilit\u00e0 e lui non le ha mai meritate.<\/p>\n<p>Forse hai messo lui al primo posto e non sei mai stata una priorit\u00e0 per lui. Tutte queste cose sono state degli errori, ma tu pensavi di fare la cosa giusta in quel momento.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 su questo che dovete lavorare. Dovete correggere i vostri errori.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete imparare a rispettare voi stessi affinch\u00e9 gli altri vi rispettino.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Concentratevi invece su voi stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90190\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una donna in bikini in piedi vicino all&#039;acqua durante l&#039;ora d&#039;oro, con messa a fuoco ridotta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Invece di pensare sempre a lui, dovresti concentrarti su te stessa e sulla tua vita.<\/p>\n<p>You are finally free to do whatever you want. You don\u2019t need anyone to tell you what to do or how you will act in certain situations. You are a free woman now and your life is in your hands again.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, lasciatelo al suo posto e concentratevi sulle cose importanti per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Per una volta nella vita, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/6-situazioni-in-cui-e-piu-che-giusto-mettere-se-stessi-al-primo-posto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mettete voi stessi al primo posto<\/a> and don\u2019t feel bad about that. And remember, that is not selfish. It is necessary.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Aprire il cuore a un nuovo amore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90191\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che parla in un ristorante\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The worst thing you can do is close your heart and to put giant walls up. Just because one man was bad doesn\u2019t mean that all of them will be like that.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t close your heart because you can find love where you don\u2019t think you will find it.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever stop smiling because you never know when someone will fall in love with that beautiful smile.<\/p>\n<p>Always keep your heart open because that is good for you. Don\u2019t close it because you can lose so many amazing things by doing that.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Imparare a essere positivi a prescindere da tutto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90192\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees.jpg\" alt=\"Donna con cappello fedora circondata da alberi\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So che il cuore spezzato pu\u00f2 scuotere tutto il mondo, ma questo non \u00e8 un motivo per essere sempre negativi.<\/p>\n<p>Avete il diritto di elaborare il lutto e di affrontare il processo di guarigione, ma quando questo si conclude, tornate alla vostra vecchia vita. Sar\u00e0 un bene per voi e anche per le persone che vi circondano.<\/p>\n<p>Se sorridete alla vita, la vita vi sorrider\u00e0 e magari vi porter\u00e0 delle persone positive.<\/p>\n<p>And when you see that life is beautiful and that you shouldn\u2019t be crying over a man who didn\u2019t know to cherish you, you will see that everything comes together.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Imparare a mettere se stessi al primo posto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower.jpg\" alt=\"donna con in mano un fiore rosso\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti che dovete fare quando vi rendete conto che lui non torner\u00e0 \u00e8 mettere voi stessi al primo posto.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 da un po' che non lo fate e questo \u00e8 il momento giusto per farlo.<\/p>\n<p>Ti sei concentrato troppo su un uomo che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/le-8-cose-piu-comuni-che-gli-uomini-dicono-quando-non-gliene-frega-nulla-di-te\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">didn\u2019t give a damn about you<\/a> e ora \u00e8 il momento di dimenticarsene e di iniziare a vivere la propria vita al meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Quando imparerete a mettere voi stessi al primo posto, vedrete i cambiamenti che desideravate tanto nella vostra vita e ogni nuova cosa che farete avr\u00e0 finalmente un senso.<\/p>\n<p>Christine \u00e8 autrice di <em>\u2018<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Staring-Into-Eyes-Anxiety-Depression-ebook\/dp\/B07KGGLQGB\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542715256&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=staring+into+the+eyes+of+anxiety+and+depression\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Guardare negli occhi l'ansia e la depressione<\/a>\u2019<\/span><\/em>Un libro che cambier\u00e0 il vostro modo di combattere l'ansia e la depressione.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90185\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Things-To-Do-When-You-Realize-He-Is-Not-Coming-Back-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 cose da fare quando ci si rende conto che non torner\u00e0 pi\u00f9 \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Things-To-Do-When-You-Realize-He-Is-Not-Coming-Back-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Things-To-Do-When-You-Realize-He-Is-Not-Coming-Back-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Accept that he has gone The very first thing you need to do is accept that he has gone and that he is not coming back. If he wanted to be with you, he would have stayed with you and he would have solved the problems you two had. 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